The Good Guy Nobody Chooses

[Arya_NotStark]

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hmmmn, based on the good guys i know nga taken na, ang babae man niuna ug make ug moves nila. they end up with girls nga strong ug personality, those who are not afraid to make the first move...

so if mao na imo gusto, aw be prepared nga mao pud na imo madayun. but if you want to end up with someone nga mao jud imo first choice, you got to make your move... if dili mu work out, we'll onto the next.

[vahnhelsing]

maayong gabie sa tigpasiugda ning kutay...

Talagsaon lamang ang lalaki nga may hiyas nga sama kanimo.
Tood man usahay kamingaw sa kinabuhi kun walay hinigugma.
May angay ka ba nga usbon sa imong kinaiya o panglantaw sa kinabuhi
aron lamang kining mga maanyag nga binuhat maulipon uban kanimo
sa nataran sa gugma? Ikaw lamang ang makatubag niini.May kawili ka
ba ning mga binuhat mag sud-ong ug magpabilin lamang nga higala?
Boot ko magbilin ug gamayng sugyot kon tambag kanimo, luyo ning
tanan, sa imong bulok may binuhat nga tugbang ug makiangayon
kanimo. Sama usab kanimo ug hiyas, busa ayaw kawili maglantaw sa mga
butang nga nag gilak-gilak sa kaanindot apan ang sulod haw-ang.

[gamatoy]

dili na angay mag usab ka brod kay naa pay daghan babae na maganahan nmo,,dili na sya necessary usbon pa nimo imong pagka good guy,,if unsa ka ingon ana na lang ka,kay na aman pud mga babae dihaa na nangita ug good guy..so busa good luck na lang...

[nailv]

Days ago, as I was reviewing for the LET, just after our review, I met my college professor in Sociology. We talked about relationships. Then suddenly He opened the topic about Good Guys Never Chosen. He said that since college and until this day, as he observed my gestures, the stories I told him about my past relationships and how close I am to pretty girls yet I don't get any of them as my GF, he said that I should change my ways. I must be more provocative in terms of flirting and playing "games". But the thing is, I'm not that type. I was raised in a very traditional family and a very protective grandma. Must be the reason why I'm like this. Now, what he said confused me. What should I do?

Bro,

Nakita nako akong old self nimo.. I changed my beliefs, actions and attitude towards relationships with women after I joined the PUA (Pick Up Arts) community. Im sorry to tell you... your Sociology Professor is actually right.

Women find good guys so boring and unexciting. Ngano man? tungod kay they experience ONLY one emotion from you and that's being too good.
Women find dominant, cocky-funny, humorous men hot and attractive coz those men stimulates and excites their emotions and feelings. Lingaw man gud na para nila. Ganahan man na sila nga malingaw sila at the same time ma thrill ug ma excite sila. Most hot women don't like boring guys.
Bsan pag gwapo ka unya wala kay GAME, di gyapon sila malingaw nimo, unless kng uyab na mo or na hook na ang girl nimo.

Ganahan sila nga ang lalaki jud ang modala, mohimo sa first move.

And remember, LAHI ang perspective sa lalaki ug babaye. for instance, kng papilion nimo ang lalaki unsa iya gusto kaonon, diba maka decide dayon ang laki unsa iya gnahan kaonon? ex. sa fas-food or any restaurant while kng girl imo papilion diba, mo ingon siya nga, "di ko sure. ikaw unsay imo?" mao na LAHI ang babaye ug lalaki.

In order to attract and get the women you like, you have to GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE. NEVER BE AFRAID TO TAKE RISKS.
Everything you do and no matter what you do in your life, you're taking risks. Risk is part of our life. Ayaw kahadlok ma reject ka, daghan pa babaye. You will change ONLY if you take actions. Useless ra if cge ra ka basa self-help books nya dli ka mo take actions.

Ang GAME, bai dli ra na sa babaye magamit, kundi magamit pud na sa imo career, business, social life ug life in general.

Have you watched the movie, "Hitch (2005)" ? ?

Naa part sa movie ato nga ni ingon si Will Smith, a.k.a. Alex Hitchens nga,

"The experience taught me a lot, and it's an education I feel obliged to pass on to my fellow men. Because if there's NO GUILE and there's NO GAME,,,, there's NO GIRL."

Naa ra nimo kung motuo ka nako,, i used to be like you before. Karon dili pa nuon kayo ko master sa GAME pero I see myself changed a lot. My old self is DEAD. Lahi na kayo ko karon compared before. Kana mga taw mo sulti nimo nga dli ka angay mo change, normal ra na kay most people don't like change or they are afraid of change. Naanad na man gud ang mga taw sa imo original nga personality. Mao na dli sila gusto ma change ka kay mao man na ila na tanom ug nalata sa ila mind nga ing-ana jud ka. Most people just wait (in vain), don't take risks, play safe and just STAY, remain doomed in their creepy comfort zone.

Remember, the real loser is the one who are too afraid to fail, afraid to screw up and afraid of losing. BE NOT AFRAID TO CHANGE.
Ayaw na basihi imo family background. So what?? Kung gusto kag success ug progress, you have to sacrifice at first, take risks and NEVER GIVE UP.

[nailv]

maayong gabie sa tigpasiugda ning kutay...

Talagsaon lamang ang lalaki nga may hiyas nga sama kanimo.
Tood man usahay kamingaw sa kinabuhi kun walay hinigugma.
May angay ka ba nga usbon sa imong kinaiya o panglantaw sa kinabuhi
aron lamang kining mga maanyag nga binuhat maulipon uban kanimo
sa nataran sa gugma? Ikaw lamang ang makatubag niini.May kawili ka
ba ning mga binuhat mag sud-ong ug magpabilin lamang nga higala?
Boot ko magbilin ug gamayng sugyot kon tambag kanimo, luyo ning
tanan, sa imong bulok may binuhat nga tugbang ug makiangayon
kanimo. Sama usab kanimo ug hiyas, busa ayaw kawili maglantaw sa mga
butang nga nag gilak-gilak sa kaanindot apan ang sulod haw-ang.

LOL! ayaw lamang kaayo lagluma imong tambag higala tungod kay dili gayud nako matugkad.

[nailv]

@Light Anthony I:

Bai, kabaw bah ka nga, the more you get rejected, the more you get numb and stronger. Lingaw kaayo bsta dili lang jud nimo dibdibon ang rejection. Every aspect sa ato life, naa jud na rejection. Bsan mag atang pa kag jeep, maka experience jud ka nga ma reject ka sa driver nga nag drive sa jep nga gilabyan ra ka, wala ka hunongi. hahahaha..

Rejection is our breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert. And I'm proud to tell you that I and some other guys are already immune and numb to it.
However, ma feel gyapon na nimo ang anxiety pero ma OVERCOME ra gyapon na nimo.

Naa song from my all-time favorite band, adik ko sa ila mga songs, isa ka song nila mao ni lyrics. Ako lng e modify gamay. hehe.

If I'm a bad person, you don't like me
Well I guess I'll make my own way
It's a circle, a mean cycle
I can't excite you anymore
Where's your gavel? Your jury?
What's my offense this time?
You're Not a judge, but if you're gonna judge me,
Well sentence me to another life

{Bridge}
Don't wanna hear your sad songs
I don't wanna feel your pain
When you swear it's all my fault
'Cause you know we're not the same (Yeah! )
We're not the same (Yeah! )
Oh we're not the saaaame!!
oh, my friends who stuck together
We wrote our names in blood
But I guess you can't accept that the change is good (Hey! )
It's good! (Hey! )
It's goooooo..oood..!!!!! (Hey! )

{Chorus}
Well you treat me just like another stranger
Well it's nice to meet you girl
I guess I'll go
I best be on my way out!

You treat me just like another stranger
Well it's nice to meet you girl
I guess I'll go
I best be on my way out!

Ignorance is your new best friend!
Ignorance is your new best friend!

{Verse 2}
And this is the best thing that could've happened
Any longer and I wouldn't have made it
It's not a war, no, it's not a rapture
I'm just a person, but you can't take it!
The same tricks that, that once fooled me
They won't get you anywhere
I'm not the same kid from your memory
Well, now I can fend for myself

{Bridge}
Don't wanna hear your sad songs
I don't wanna feel your pain
When you swear it's all my fault
'Cause you know we're not the same (No! )
We're not the same (No! )
Oh we're not the saaaaaame!!!
Yeah, my friends who stuck together
We wrote our names in blood
But I guess you can't accept that the change is good!! (Hey! )
It's good! (Hey! )
It's goooooood!!!!

{Chorus}
Well you treat me just like another stranger
Well it's nice to meet you girl
I guess I'll go
I best be on my way out

You treat me just like another stranger
Well it's nice to meet you girl
I guess I'll go
I best be on my way out

Ignorance is your new best friend
Ignorance is your new best friend
Ignorance is your new best friend
Ignorance is your new best friend

Well you treat me just like another stranger
Well it's nice to meet you girl
I guess I'll go
I best be on my way out

You treat me just like another stranger
Well it's nice to meet you girl
I guess I'll go
I best be on my way out

[nailv]

there's nothing wrong ur ways towards women..... u are in the right path...kana imong pamaagi tarung na kaau na...ayaw nanag balikua....ayaw og padala/sunod2 anang pina dukirok nga paagi....wala pa lang jud naabot ang tarung og angay nga babaye nimo good luck....

Spoiler! 

if u like to join the dark side just pm me

ahahahaha ,, idol jud tka THE KID

[NAN_WEN]

...bantog ra gyud d ay...halinon kai ko....!!! kai tungod sa akung ka badboy..hahai..faita.....mag usab nako.... kai!!! di ko nahan... ma tukso sila nako hahaha lol ^___^..........

[nailv]

...bantog ra gyud d ay...halinon kai ko....!!! kai tungod sa akung ka badboy..hahai..faita.....mag usab nako.... kai!!! di ko nahan... ma tukso sila nako hahaha lol ^___^..........

LOL! TS... tan awa.. mao ni example sa "cocky-funny".

just remember, you will never change OVERNIGHT. because it is a PROCESS.. it will take time. you just need practice.

[kat5252]

TS para nako pang husband material ka! So ayaw tuo anang girls would prefer bad boys kay kana mga bata pa na and not looking for a permanent relationship mao ng nangita pa og excitement sa kinabuhi. Kung ang imong gipangita is fling2x, fine pag paka badboy sa panagsa but if you're looking forward for a stable and probably permanent relationship, don't change your ways kay matod pang lady Gaga you are born that way!

Anyway unta lang dili ka mag usab kung minyo naka TS. basi nyag diha paka magbisyo og duna nakay pamilya