Help need advise: 2nd child or not

[kit_cebu]

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for practicality's sakes, ayaw lang sa...or mangita sa kag alternative job and once you find that, binli ug binhi imong asawa...
pero ang most likely nga sitwasyon ani kay manganak imong asawa nya tua paka sa abroad...which happened to my father namong 2 ka magsuon...wala siya...but he's always with us through communication/phone calls back then...

sacrifices will be made gyud...of course, in the end, it's yours and your wife's call...

[pinkpumpkin]

Ayaw sa panganak if dili kaya sa budget.

[motchkatt]

Its too much risk. Ayaw pugsa kay klaro man dili pa kaya sa budget pud. Kaluoy pud sa inyong mga anak gadako sila nga galisud mo. Praktikalay nalang ta ron panahona gud....

[prokops]

pag tigom lang sa una TS then para nako dapat naay igsoon imo anak ky para inig kadako nya naa sya igsoon makatabang or tabangan nya ky lisod cguro ug mao ra usa intawn mag unsa nalang kung mawala nmo hehe

[Kristiano]

salamat sa tanan nag-advise! i really appreciate it...

if magtigom pko, maedaran na pd ako asawa, mga 35 for example... ingon xa mintras bata pa xa (32), kaya pa niya mobantay sa bata... I dont have a mom anymore and my mother-in-law is already old.. Her dad already passed away and my father had a stroke... wala kayo mi parente na mobantay or puli...

if magaan gaan na pd amo life, basin magbasol nya mi wala namo gisundan amo bata.. medyo mingaw bya ang only child esp. matigowang nata.. basin maglisod nya among anak inig "sandwich period (taking care of your parents and you own family)", just like what happened to me..>only son...
if masundan mn gni, at least in the future, naay duha makaalaga namo.. dba?

[lovelygirl]

okay nanang naay isa kysa wala ky delikado man diay magbuntis imong asawa...

[motchkatt]

Kinsa man gud di ganahan ug duha ka anak... Im also an only child. Both my parents are deceased. My guardian also passed away. I have a son now. And had to resign to take care of our child kay way ayo mga yaya. Akong inlaws kay mga tiguwang napud. Gustuhon man nko makaduhaan, lisud sad jud ang life. Maluoy ko sakong partner nga mao nlng ang gawork. In your case, Wa man diay lain mubantay so kuha pakag yaya which is mas gasto. Delikado man pud kaha magbuntis imo asawa ron and if mabuntis man chances are CS pud. Ang kanang kwarta ninyo ron tiguma nlng na kay hapit napud magschool ang bata. Concern lang pud TS , hinuon makita ranang kwarta pero timbang-timbanga lng sah kay basin ikaw nya pud maglipong-lipong sa problema... ana...

[longix]

I think you consult the opinion of your wife's obgyn on her condition rather take the risk on her health. I don't think financial is not much of a concern.

[Kristiano]

mao lagi longix, consult pa mi balik sa OB...

[wallace21]

kung risky sa part sa imung wife, ayaw sah gyd TS. importante tawn health sa imung pares. consult ur doc also pra mkahatag pd og advise nnu magtiayon..