who has love problems? who doesnt?
who has love problems? who doesnt?
ako TS . gibinuangan ra ko duh ! grabe ka bakakon . while nag uyab me nakamabdos naman diay siya , so let's say nag 1 month me , ang girl diay 2 months na siya nga preggy . den nakigfriend pajud ang girl nako sa fb . iya giblock , then karon liker au ang girl . duh , naluoy jud ko sa girl kay wa niya panaguti .
Oh that's a really harsh situation for the other girl :/ . . . . The guy is really irresponsible. . . . I'd tell you to not go on with that kind of relationship with him. . . coz in the end you might end up just like her <the other girl> . . . .
BTW are you guys still together despite that fact that you already know about it? . . . .
Well good to know ^^, . . .
Guys like that should learn that when engaging in sexual Intercourse, He should be aware of the consequences when not using protection >_< . . . .
SO LESSON LEARNED TO ALL MEN OUT THERE! --> "If you can't shield your rocket, leave it in your pocket" ^^,)d
Kani ako uyab ba, sayunon ra lagi ko niya ug ingnon "gusto nako makigbuwag nimu". Action nya na ilabay niya iya simcard pra wa nami communication, action pud sya iputos nya sa plastic kato gipanghatag nako niya, action napud sya ilabay katong ring namu. Mao na iya buhaton ug mag-away mi, sa tinuod lang pud nuon maypagka maldita sad ko hehe musukol pud ko pro di man gani ko kabuhat ana niya, sauna nakasulti ko niya ka 1 pa pd, "im not happy anymore" then pirti niya sukua.. Pro gitagaan nako ug chance amu relationship ato..
Sakit man sa ako part na halos kada away iya na buhaton nako, nya ug muingon kog cge buwag nata mubawi pud sya, muingon napud ug "ok nata pls" nya lambingon na dayun ko. Na-immune na nuon ko kadugayan anang style niya nga ing-ana. Makalagot lng jud bah kay sayun nalang kaau para niya, wa sya magthink na masolve tanan sa storya lang unta. Litsi sad ning lambing mada pud ta, pro sa tinuod ako man sad ang tao na dali ra maulian, mukatawa dayun. Dili dibdibon ng mga kasakit duh life is wonderful to be a stupid fool on love.
Ngano ing-ana mana sya?![]()
^^ suwayi kuno og buwag sis aron matagam! hehe.. hala oi, para nako immature ra kaayo na cya.. .. tsk!
Okay so here's what i think . . . She's Right --> About the part that he is being very immature about it . . . but not the " buwag " literally try asking for some space though it might hurt and get a bit lonesome but it'll help him realize what he had done . . . . . . or if you can't stand the fact of not seeing him or being with him <if that is how much you really love him and i salute you on that!> then talk to him go somewhere quiet <but NOT DARK we all know where this goes even b4 you guys start talkin haha> and tell him "We NEED to talk" explain to him first that both of you needs to talk as adults . . . . . tell him that you don't appreciate how he handles a fight/ conflict . . . tell him that you are hurt every time he does those things to you . . . tell him how much you love him <Do a little drama but don't over react . . . like teary eyes and stuffit helps but use real emotions don't go full on acting cause life's not a movie> and if he reacts irrationally <where he doesn't listen, or changes the topic, or become mad at some point and "Mag Yawyaw">, calm yourself down and be less of a "maldita" cause you don't want to him to spark and start the fire be the water, calm and cool <metaphorically> be subjective but not to the lowest point . . . .
and oh BTW try to do this @ the RIGHT FRAME OF MIND and at the RIGHT TIME AND PLACE . . . . .MEANING . . . .
RIGHT FRAME OF MIND - when he's not angry, cranky, stressed or drunk!
RIGHT TIME - where there is always more time . . . don't do it really early in the morning cause he might get a bit cranky or late in the afternoon you might reach night time . . . and trust me this will take a lot of time . . . psychologists say best time for anything where the mind is calm could be weekends esp sunday @ 2-4pm . . . . but don't keep focusing on the hours, focus on the subject at hand
AND PLACE - as i've said a quiet place:3 . . . .
. . . so i hope you got something from that and it's your call to follow the advice or not ^^, so update me if what ever happens next
And I'd like also to remind you that . . .
"Don't make decisions when your angry, & don't make promises when your happy."
And Oh btw how old are you? and how old is he? <just curious :3>
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