A good friend turned lover.. what to do. <sigh>

[Scoby]

kani jud laging friendzone... kinsa man jud nag pauso ani... tsk tsk tsk...

been there done that... experience pud ko ani... nag nang invite og date ang gurl s0-closed friend... nya tungod lage sa ka suod namo... murag awkward man... pero were going out together kame ra duha... food trip and kong unsa ma huna-huna.an... pero the day has come na ni angkun najud ang gurl sa iya feelings...

what happen is we talk things out and we both agree na friendzone rame kutob... since were open to each other man... we move on with our lives and still continue as friends... we still hangout together and have fun... just like the old times... nothing change... it depends rajud na on how open are you with each other and how you handle things and accept it...
if mo pranka lang ka sa guy in a nice way... madawat rajud na niya and move on with his life, if he is matured enough... but then lahi2x raman jud ang mga taw... soo it depends sa laki rana T.S...

Basta be true lang gud sa emu self... atleast kahibaw na cya in the first place... and depende nana niya kong unsa.on niya if mo padayon jud cya og stick in the friendzone corner....

(the story is the other way around... not really the gurl ang nakipag date... )

[kingflakes]

@TS You can't bring back kun unsa mo before. Beleive me. It's either magka kamo or maka kita xa ug lain. No stupid guy na mopabilin just for the sake of pure friendship ra jud. possible pero dili na jud na pareha sauna.

Kani man pud mga girls gud usahay subraan ka sweet na ma feeler nalang pud ang laki nya inig panguyab ingnan ra nga friend ra kutob! For now ts friend ra jud imo tan.aw niya pero when time comes na maka let go na ang guy and you can see him happy with other girl ara raka maka realize na naa kai feelings towards him and you will surely miss those sweet moments nga naa mo sauna.

Try daw to no commu or meet ups for a week or days ara mana ma sukod kun naa jud or wala.

[kingflakes]

in the first place i think ganahan ang girl sa guy... ngano gud tawn makig.close ka ug isa ka tao na wala ka maka-uyon

[korosukun]

libog ko anng kingofflakes... female iyang gender unya KING... unsa mn gyud ang tinuod?hahah...

[reigel99]

libog ko anng kingofflakes... female iyang gender unya KING... unsa mn gyud ang tinuod?hahah...

nakatawa jud ko... ahahaha lami na kaayo unta ang tanan, mikalit man lang og liko... hahahah

[Scoby]

libog ko anng kingofflakes... female iyang gender unya KING... unsa mn gyud ang tinuod?hahah...

ig unsa kaha cla ni skyflakes? hahaha

[rickflag]

mas maau nga karon pa lang TS imo na prangkahan kaysa molaom na mas sakit na para niya nuon and you will lose him as a friend. kung tinuod siya nimo nga friend he will understand man sad for sure. it happened to me before too, i was in love with my friend pero i never courted her cause it might ruined our friendship and i didn't regret the decision because until now we are still good friends.

[PebblesandKisses]

klaro nas pattern... affected gud xa... kay if dli xa affected bale wala lang nya dba... keber! wahahahahaha

lage... naa jud na feeling si TS sa laki... gihimoan gud niya ng thread...

nah ambot! ahahahhaha

hmmpppp!!!!

[SuperStar]

For me, kaning naa sa ubos mura ra man gani mog uyab aning storyaa. Pag chur oi.

*hold hands
*hug brotherly
*talk about anything under the sun
*check on each other daily
*pinch on each other's faces

unsa inyu buhaton when you have this so-close friend that you are so comfortable being with. You know, the one you can joke around, hold hands, hug brotherly, talk about anything under the sun, check on each other daily, pinch on each other's faces--sort of a brother jud.. and suddenly.. asked you for a date. (meowk!)

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* lakaw ta inig 14 ha.
# friday nlang para dghan ta.
*kita rman duha.
# ha? ngano man? toweweng!
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-mao to. murag dili na friendly iya moves towards me the past days, sort of romantic na. napay text nga kung dili gani ko kareply, mag-luod².. tsk². wa jud ko ganahi.

akong problema:

-Di ko ganahan muprangka kay bcn ma-offend cya, mawad-an pa nuun kog suod nga migo. I respect him man gud, nya I value him jud as a friend. he's one of the guy friends nga super comfi jud kau ko.

-Di pud ko gnahan makig-date nia coz wala lang. I just dont feel like it. migo rajud ako tan-aw nia.. period! He's the funny guy type man gud. di ko kaimagine mag-date mi nya serious² ang dating ba. naah! hahahah
awkwardan na nuun kau ko motagad nia ron, or if tagad gani, cold na (though trying to keep it the usual way).

So what I do, whenever he reminds me gani of our so-called date.. (nga wala koi plano modaun), moana rako "ay cgeg binuang diha, gara² sad ka dah.. pangetag laing kabinuangan didto!".. nya mokatawa ra sad cya.. muana. "binuang man nuun."..

<sigh> I just hope whatever he feels would just die a normal death. Napressure ra sad guro c manoy kay hapit na ang v-day. haha! LOL

[reigel99]

balik ta ha...

ang laki, nanghagad ra og date... wala nanguyab....
bisag kinsa pde manghagad og date... bisag ako, kadaghan na nako og gihagad og date ahh... naay misugot, mas daghan ang wala... ang misugot, friends gihapon me... ang mga asyomerang froglets nga wala musugot nya gibasted ko bisag wala pa gani ko manguyab, di na me friends... I mean di na close...

wahahaha di man na makasakit ang date oi.. kung friends jud mo, why not?
kung manguyab na ang laki, diha na ka moingon nga friends lang imo pag-tan-aw niya... makasabot ra nang laki...

ayaw lang pud tubayi iyang mga sweet nothings... padungog dungog pud gud na di ka gusto og friends na magkauyab...
istorya lang og kalit ba, something like, "Kaila ka ni hermoine og ron? sa Harry Potter ba, friends nga nagkadayon... di jud ko ganahan ana"... something ingon ana... magpadungog dungog ka nga di ka ganahan sa idea sa friends to lovers thingy

nah! naa ra gud na nimo...

hadlokon lang taka, hala!!!!!! hahaha inlove ka niya!!!