Love Triangles, Third Parties, Three's a Crowd Merged

[nhoj]

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Quote from: Zahara on April 17, 2007, 10:49:17 PM

First, if she choose you, can you REALLY trust her?

Second, even if you love her, can you be PROUD of her?

Third, think of the other guy. What would you feel if you are in HIS shoes?

Fourth, if the other guy is here, are you comfortable with being with her every TTHs while she's with him during MWFS?

I don't think so. So, please do yourself a favor. There are lots of fish in the ocean. She is disrespecting you and you've allowed it to happen.

ngilngig kaayo ni ug mga advices si zahara dah sayang kay taken na...hehehe! bro, advice nko...don't give your heart entirely to her sah, test her first...if she pass...hehehe then give it a shot pero kung ako sa imo part nuh...i'll just play the game she want to play and make things be an advantage for me and me only..haha

[corporal_panuhot]

MOVE ON


what goes around comes around ra btaw...... :mrgreen:


then when the time comes nga u got ur karma/REVENGE.......................you may then start laughing DEVILISHLY!!!!

[:)...:)]

amazing jud ni Generals and Nemmo723 oi...naa jud ni sila mga nice na advice

to you freak-n-luv

i suggest that you be man enough to confront your feelings and make a choice...
well you mentioned that your problem is how to end it...

then confront the girl, tell her that you WANTED to end the so-called relationship you are in now because you DESERVE something more than what you both have at present...

you are the willing victim, let's just say the girl may not be really a player, for five year in a relationship there are several reasons why the girl has allowed you to take the 3rd party role but if she can't seem to make a choice, well you better do yourself a favor...

play fair!...
get rid of her
get rid of them
get your own life back...

it may not be easy yes but then you entered this situation and now it's time for you to face the consequences...before things get worse, it may be hard coz you have allowed yourself to fall but then even long has to be at the right time and place and most especially with the right person..

let me ask you...is it the right time and place, is she the right person...

yes there is no ms. right or mr. right but open your eyes, the girl did something that is not so nice to you, to herself, to her bf and to the relationship that she is into...

love is blind but please, don't forget you got brains up there dude!

[nemmo723]

amazing jud ni Generals and Nemmo723 oi...naa jud ni sila mga nice na advice

hehehe.. thanks smiley..

you are the willing victim, let's just say the girl may not be really a player, for five year in a relationship there are several reasons why the girl has allowed you to take the 3rd party role but if she can't seem to make a choice, well you better do yourself a favor...

play fair!...
get rid of her
get rid of them
get your own life back...

it may not be easy yes but then you entered this situation and now it's time for you to face the consequences...before things get worse, it may be hard coz you have allowed yourself to fall but then even long has to be at the right time and place and most especially with the right person..

let me ask you...is it the right time and place, is she the right person...

yes there is no ms. right or mr. right but open your eyes, the girl did something that is not so nice to you, to herself, to her bf and to the relationship that she is into...

love is blind but please, don't forget you got brains up there dude!

i second emotion that.. u really need to use ur brains more for this freak-n-luv... u need to be objective about ur current situation, and i think the ppl here know how difficult that is.. as josh_ryanne has said earlier..

para mabuffer nimo ang kasakit ug void bai, i would suggest you hang out more with ur close friends or family.. go out, have fun, distract yourself, divert your attention para di kaayo ka maghuna2x niya.. lisod jud kung in your mind ang person every breathing moment 60 seconds a minute, 60 minutes per hour, 24 hours a day, ug 7days a week.. pero as u said earlier, its just recent ra ni nahitabo.. and as smiley has posted.. its not too late.. you can still get out before the situation gets worse.

[freak-n-luv]

you have to want to end it. decide to end it.

if cge lang kag duha duha... di jud na ma human...

mao jud! u gotta have the will to do it.. strong will, strength of character.. decision-an jud na nimo,
otherwise, pabalik2x lng ka ana..

actually, libog man jud... 1st, dili ko ganahan maka.feel sa pain...2nd, im afraid to lose her..
but i know i have to have a decision sooner dan later..

and one thing, basin nag.uyon2x lang na ang girl nimo bro, kai basin head over heels ka nya..
and she sees that you feel more love than her, mao lisud sad xa mo give up both. mao sad lagi
let her choose for her THE ONE. or to make it easier nya ikaw nlang decide even sakit..

yah, aware jud siya nga head over heels ko niya...and tanan isulti niya, sugot dayon ko...
sometimes, feeling nako iya na gi.abuse ako kamaayo...

If you're madly inlove with the gurl then It's really easier said than done. Lisod kaayo ning inlove kaayo ta kay nindot kaayo ang feeling labi na bago pa. Bisan unsa bati sulti sa uban bisan gikan sa close friends, parents ato jud itsa purya ila sulti kay love is blind lagi. So maka ingon jud ko na lisod kaayo ni imong situation as in super lisooood jud kaayo. Sa amo sayon ra kaayo pag analyze kay outsider man mi, sayon ra pag sulti na buwwagi.
The idea way jud kay you should have the guts to end it, sakit jud kaayo pero sa pirmiro na. First few days or weeks mag sige ka pangita niya, sige ka kahuna huna niya. i know lisod jud. Bisan pa imo lingaw lingawon imo self, ma lingaw raka kadiyot dayon makahinomdom nasad ka. Ingon ana first month dayon magka dugay sakit gihapon, maka hinomdom gihapon ka pero dili na pirmi. sa una kung mapukaw ka sa imo sleep dayon maka hinomdom ka niya, pero after mga one month mawala na to. after four months okay okay na. Imo buhaton imo e cutoff jud imo communication kay bisan gamay lang na text ang imo wound na na almost a scar na mo balik nasad ug pagka fresh, mura ug gisamaran ug balik. after six months diha paka ka ingon na totally recover.
Again have the guts to end it, basta at least u know na unsa ka lisod kun imo e end karon.
btw I'm not saying na nahitabo ni nako pero let me tell u again it's easier said than done, unya i know na bisan unsa amo sulti dako chance na imo ra pa lusog pikas dungan because of love. and u are right, pe$te jud ning gugma. heheheh gud luck bro.

well, naka.agi naman unta ko ani nga mga stages sa pag.move.on / pag.recover...pero sakit man japon bisan nakasuway nako...
dili najud ko ganahan maka.feel unta ani, mao cguro nga nisugot rako bisan 3rd party lang ko...kay in some ways, malipay man ko if magkuyog mi...

Just ask yourself.. "What Can I Gain From This"

Belonging to a triangular relationships usually ends up having nothing at all specially for the 3rd party.

If you break up with her now, you only loose her but if she breaks up with you coz of the other party you would loose her and carry the agony that you were not worthy and just a "Panakip Butas" for her...

But if you both love each other..then ask her to let go of the other...these types of relationships don't last long and might result to physical injuries...

Goodluck

hehehe dili sad unta ni mahitabo namo bro...dili ko mudapat ug babaye ui...

don't settle for less kay mura ra kag tig sa girl. She might say she loves you sa text but then that's so easy to do, right? the girl seems like a player. Confront her kung unsa na jud ang state ninyo. If she has any semblance of honesty she'll tell you. If she's trying to make excuses then she's faking it. go dump her.

have to make a decision 1st... but i like the idea..heheheh

Quote from: Zahara on April 17, 2007, 10:49:17 PM
ngilngig kaayo ni ug mga advices si zahara dah sayang kay taken na...hehehe! bro, advice nko...don't give your heart entirely to her sah, test her first...if she pass...hehehe then give it a shot pero kung ako sa imo part nuh...i'll just play the game she want to play and make things be an advantage for me and me only..haha

how do i test her?!

ive been having so many thoughts on how to cushion myself from the inevitable pain... you really got my idea there...hahahaha..
if i found out that shes playing, then i wud hav to play her game...but its really hard to do this now... i've fallen too deep already..

amazing jud ni Generals and Nemmo723 oi...naa jud ni sila mga nice na advice

to you freak-n-luv

i suggest that you be man enough to confront your feelings and make a choice...
well you mentioned that your problem is how to end it...

then confront the girl, tell her that you WANTED to end the so-called relationship you are in now because you DESERVE something more than what you both have at present...

you are the willing victim, let's just say the girl may not be really a player, for five year in a relationship there are several reasons why the girl has allowed you to take the 3rd party role but if she can't seem to make a choice, well you better do yourself a favor...

play fair!...
get rid of her
get rid of them
get your own life back...

it may not be easy yes but then you entered this situation and now it's time for you to face the consequences...before things get worse, it may be hard coz you have allowed yourself to fall but then even long has to be at the right time and place and most especially with the right person..

let me ask you...is it the right time and place, is she the right person...
yes there is no ms. right or mr. right but open your eyes, the girl did something that is not so nice to you, to herself, to her bf and to the relationship that she is into...

love is blind but please, don't forget you got brains up there dude!

if u wana hear my answer at this point in time... it wud be YES!!
i'm jz addicted to her..

how i wish i have ur GUTS!

hehehe.. thanks smiley..

i second emotion that.. u really need to use ur brains more for this freak-n-luv... u need to be objective about ur current situation, and i think the ppl here know how difficult that is.. as josh_ryanne has said earlier..

para mabuffer nimo ang kasakit ug void bai, i would suggest you hang out more with ur close friends or family.. go out, have fun, distract yourself, divert your attention para di kaayo ka maghuna2x niya.. lisod jud kung in your mind ang person every breathing moment 60 seconds a minute, 60 minutes per hour, 24 hours a day, ug 7days a week.. pero as u said earlier, its just recent ra ni nahitabo.. and as smiley has posted.. its not too late.. you can still get out before the situation gets worse.

perti jud lisuda....
ang problema man gud kung maglingaw2x ko...or muadto ko ug mga nindot nga place...
musamot na nuon kog pangita niya... maghuna2x naman nuon ko nga "maau unta kung naa siya ngari..." etc...


pero thanx jud sa tanan...
i know i have to end this...
its juz a matter of when and how...

[wicked_b]

@freaky in love,
- matter of when and how? i suggest it now. how? dont break up with her. Fool yourself til you will wake up.

[nemmo723]

perti jud lisuda....
ang problema man gud kung maglingaw2x ko...or muadto ko ug mga nindot nga place...
musamot na nuon kog pangita niya... maghuna2x naman nuon ko nga "maau unta kung naa siya ngari..." etc...

freak_in_luv, here's one thought na i find very useful jud when it comes to deciding when and how you're going to end it..
this thought helps in giving you the strength of will..

ask yourself these questions:
kinsa magpakaon nimo? kinsa muhungit sa imong ba-ba sa food para sa imong lawas? kinsa mu-ginhawa para mutibok imong kasing2x?
kinsa mubangon sa buntag para makabuhat ka sa imong gusto for the day?

kung ang tubag nimo kay ang gurl, you need to see a psychiatrist.. peace bai..

pero kung tubag nimo kay ikaw, you, urself, and you (me myself and i), then u know what u need to do na jud.. and do it sooner than later.. :mrgreen:

don't let ur life pass you by revolving around another person.. let your world revolve around you.. imong welfare ang importante jud..
this may initially sound vain, but its the truth. unya na nang mag-partner ka ug lain person until makat-on ka ug take care sa imong self.
learn to be happy just being with yourself.. makat-on ka ana, ang mga wafa na mu-duol nimo pre.. maglinya pa jud na sila..
unya u can pick (and select, and collect?! hehehe ) peace bro!

[K_I_D_O]

hehehe dili sad unta ni mahitabo namo bro...dili ko mudapat ug babaye ui...

hehe..i know....Its not the girl i'm talking about

[wicked_b]

@freak in love, read this:

Love autopsy by Hugh Grant

Figuring out you and me
Is like doing a love autopsy
They could operate all day long
And never figure out what went wrong
Love autopsy
Love autopsy

ah ah ah ah

What went wrong

[freak-n-luv]

@freaky in love,
- matter of when and how? i suggest it now. how? dont break up with her. Fool yourself til you will wake up.

hahaha reverse psychology?!
ok...this myt work..

ask yourself these questions:
kinsa magpakaon nimo? kinsa muhungit sa imong ba-ba sa food para sa imong lawas? kinsa mu-ginhawa para mutibok imong kasing2x?
kinsa mubangon sa buntag para makabuhat ka sa imong gusto for the day?

kung ang tubag nimo kay ang gurl, you need to see a psychiatrist.. peace bai..

pero kung tubag nimo kay ikaw, you, urself, and you (me myself and i), then u know what u need to do na jud.. and do it sooner than later.. :mrgreen:

don't let ur life pass you by revolving around another person.. let your world revolve around you.. imong welfare ang importante jud..
this may initially sound vain, but its the truth. unya na nang mag-partner ka ug lain person until makat-on ka ug take care sa imong self.
learn to be happy just being with yourself.. makat-on ka ana, ang mga wafa na mu-duol nimo pre.. maglinya pa jud na sila..
unya u can pick (and select, and collect?! hehehe ) peace bro!

u'r ryt bro, im not happy being myself.. i'm not contented with wat i hav..
i shud try to be happy sumtym... after i get her out my messed up life..