Love Triangles, Third Parties, Three's a Crowd Merged

[freak-n-luv]

---

currently, i am a 3rd party to a 5-year old relationship..
wen i was stil courting her, she didnt mention a thing
bout her bf..n so, i did some research and found out
that she's involved with sum1(not frm cebu).. i asked
her bout it and she nodded "yes".. F%#K! they've been
going steady for almost 5-years... at this point in time,
we were already getting to know more about each other..
and i cud somehow feel that she also like me..
i asked my friends for advices and they told me to find
another woman.. she is juz not worth my time coz she
is attached to sumbody.. i listened to their advice and
ended what i've started with her.. i tried to explain to her
the complications that wud result if i continue..
and then we said our gubyes and i told her how much i love her..
as the day ended, i receive a msg from her...guess wat she texted me?!?!
"i love you..." yeah! that's what she sent me..
i was hesitant to make a reply and asked wat she meant by that..
we eventually talked personally the day after that..and decided to give it a shot..
so, here we are now, on our 7th day of illicit affair..
we exchange "iloveyou's" every now and then..
i fetch her from skul most of the time..
i buy her the fuds she like...
and we do the things a normal bf/gf does in a relationship..

i know it's not right but it seems so perfect wen we are together..
i've fallen for her completely, now i cant seem to let her go..
haaaayyyyy.... gugmang giahak!!!



tabang...

[black_vixen]

ohhh..dude, do what is right, ipa.clarify sa nya nga OFF na xa sa iyang 5-yr-old relationship.
and, if okay cla, and iya na g.close door, that's the time u will allow urself for her. Complicated
man imong g.sudlan, and assure ka if papili-on ang gurl ikaw iyang pili-un? assure ka nga
nka.get over na xa sa iyang official BF? why man wala xa nagig-honest u since the start?
y man? do feel nga g.use lang ka nya? or na.abot na nimo nga feeling? mmmm, analyze things dude.
pro, kung asa ka happy bro, aw support me. kita nman ka sa consequences man kaha?

[freak-n-luv]

ako na siya g.ask ana nga question...iya tubag pirmi kay ""wla na silay klaro""

and sa imo gisulti na basin gigamit rako niya... sakto jud ka, naabot na sa ako mind nga basin iya lang ko gigamit...

[black_vixen]

there u go, walay assurance jpon..she leave it hanging. why she cant tell directly nga WALA NA MI!!
so, 50-50 ka ana..wala man kaha ka g.duwa? or imo good intention man kaha? so mas nice man cguro if
clear na iyang side, bfore ka mo commit sah nya...if real feelings jed na about love, mka.huwat and
dli dali na mo fade, mo huwat jed na xa..

[nemmo723]

my personal opinion lng bai, sa imong gipost na story...
no offense ha, pero na-shoot jud ka sa iyang bulsa..

klaro-ha sa na ang babae, basig buhaton pud na niya kanimo iyang gibuhat sa iyang ka-5-yr relationship..
ikaw na nya maglibog ana.. pagbantay lng sa imong gibati..
make sure makagawas ka sa imong gisudlan in one piece..

good luck nimo bro.. god bless..

[freak-n-luv]

my personal opinion lng bai, sa imong gipost na story...
no offense ha, pero na-shoot jud ka sa iyang bulsa..

klaro-ha sa na ang babae, basig buhaton pud na niya kanimo iyang gibuhat sa iyang ka-5-yr relationship..
ikaw na nya maglibog ana.. pagbantay lng sa imong gibati..
make sure makagawas ka sa imong gisudlan in one piece..

good luck nimo bro.. god bless..

mao jud ni ako gikahadlokan bro..
pero dili man sad ko makademand niya nga buwagan niya iya uyab..
iyaha naman ning desisyona..

[black_vixen]

pero dili man sad ko makademand niya nga buwagan niya iya uyab..
iyaha naman ning desisyona..

aw, cge pagamit nlang..better smooth inyong foundation bro. pro happy man kaha ka bro, nga
ika-3rd party ka?dli mka.konsinxa? hehehe

[crush_23]

@freak


ponder on the ff:

1. y did she lie? - in the first place, is der really a need para mag lie xa nmo? not a good impression
2. what's the real score b/n u n her? have you ever tried asking who she love the most? - if ikaw iya answer, tel her 2 let go of her bf para la blema...basin hinuon wa ra cla klaro kay nag-away lang unya inig ma ok na cla, balik napud xa ngadto - ending ana nag two time nana sya...if he loves the other guy more, den its tym for u to say goodbye n move on.

its lyk this, u wer blinded by the so called "love".....we intend to be blind from the truth though it hurts mao na dili nato mapansin what we r doing s wrong na. padayon lang ta kay lagi naulipon sa gugmang giatch!

for now, let the gurl settle her relationship with the other guy if he chooses you. its better to have a relationship nga wala kay matamakan laing feelings kay its so painful pud if mahitabo na nmo...imong gf mao ilogon ug lain...im sure, u will not be happy.

i suggest you take things slowly and dont rush in putting yourself in a situation that you myt regret in the future....

ganbatte ne

[nemmo723]

yeah.. ka-feel ko sa imong kahadlok ana karon pre..
i've been in that situation before, but blinded man ko ato gud sa akong gibati.. so wala ko naka-feel anang fear before..
(err.. dili ko third party per se, pero ang girl naa nanguyab niya lain, unya nakagusto pud xa ato.. pero nawalay klaro.. basta complicated pud to..
di ko ka-imagine sa akong self na maging third party.. ko-an lng, compete lng, pero di na pud ko ana karon.. hehehe)

anyway, akong tambag lng nimo, in worst case scenario (hopefully na dili na mahitabo),
is begin purifying your mind and heart.. kailangan jud ka magmeditate ani pre.. dili meditate na magsit down unya mu-ginhawa ug incense ha.. kanang discernment sa imong principles ug values inside na selfless imong intentions niya..

ang reason para ani, para dili ka magbasul, masakitan ug grabeh, unya maglagot.. sakit lage, pero makaya ra na.. paet man gud kung if ever bati ang outcome, ma-bitter na nya ka sa imong self.. bati kaayo na..

just focus na u dont expect anything in return.. love man jud kaha nimo xa, so leave it to that.. don't hate urself in the end if ever bati ang outcome..
pero sa pagka-karon, do try to clarify ana iyang gibiyaan.. basig maproblema pud ka ana.. delikado imong situasyon gud..

i wish u the best jud bai.. isug jud ka.. brave jud ka bai.. passionate.. :mrgreen:

pagbantay lng jud sa imong self...

[kamikaze426]

contented ra ka on being the "3rd Party"? Ngano ni sugot man ka nga wala paman kaha niya buwagi ang iyang uyab for 5 years? What if mubalik to iyang uyab, unsa may mahitabo ninyo?

Gubot ra gyud ni padung sa ako tan-aw kung 3rd party lang ka pirmi