a tricky question

[anniepetilla]

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wat would u do if nadiscover u na junkie (adik) ang imong uyabs? would u commit him (rehab) or leave him, or plain just live wid him/her?

[wikerfish]

find out ngano nag-drugs cya (is it problems? etc?) try to have him stop it and if dle magpatuo, tell his family about it so they cud help him. there's nothing to be ashamed about rehab. it means one wants to change for the better. but if gahi jud ulo and dle jud patuo, i dunno na what i'll do. maybe i will surrender him to his parents na lang and i will just pray for him to be okay...

[anniepetilla]

hmmm....

[cutieara]

il try to convince him to change and have himself rehabilitated...i would support him...talk to him to stop using drugs...

[jamescebu]

wat would u do if nadiscover u na junkie (adik) ang imong uyabs? would u commit him (rehab) or leave him, or plain just live wid him/her?

help him its the best thing that you can do for him. Do everything that would make him a better person.

[cutieara]

korek!!!

[anniepetilla]

wat would u do if nadiscover u na junkie (adik) ang imong uyabs? would u commit him (rehab) or leave him, or plain just live wid him/her?

help him its the best thing that you can do for him. Do everything that would make him a better person.

bai, kuri taw'n magchange sa usa ka tawo. kuri!

[bebie]

told him to change! kon dili maotro pangita og lain...

[P-Chan]

rehab!

[pazuzu690]

wat would u do if nadiscover u na junkie (adik) ang imong uyabs? would u commit him (rehab) or leave him, or plain just live wid him/her?

speaking of rehab - this is a personal commitment. if the addict is not willing to change bisan pa pila na ka years nimo i-confine sa rehab - rehab won't work. plus you can't force your bf to be confined. so, you need to extensively talk this out with him. if needed, you can have a third person sa inyo communication preferrably a trained therapist or experienced social worker.

leaving him is another choice. but if you love him, try to help him first and see if he changes. if he loves you enough, he will. if he won't change, then leave him before he sucks you down into his black hole (one good example: whitney houston na addict ug coke due to her husband bobby brown).

deciding to live with him even when there is the proverbial "pink elephant" in the middle of the room is a very stupid idea. i recommend you do this only if you are worthless as a person, desperate and nobody loves you.

other than that choose decisions wherein you are preserving your life, identity, dignity, etc.