Long Distance Relationships

[Soul_Captive]

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Me and my boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship right now. Di ko motuo na mo-work ang ingon ani na set-up before, but when the opportunity to work abroad knocked on my door, it was not something I could say no to. We talked about it and made a decision to push through with the opportunity and our own commitment to each other. After all, our 3-year plus relationship is not an easy thing to let go. Right now, we've been apart for 3 months. It's not a walk in the park. There are moments when the loneliness strikes jud, but we just cry it out. Mag-atubangay og hilak sa skype until mahurot tanang luha. Hehehe. Then we start making plans on ways for him to come here and work here, too. Sometimes, di mag-dungan among bouts of loneliness, which is a good thing. The one who is not attacked brings out the positive energy for the both of us. Kun ako ang lonely, xa ang tig-cheer up and vice-versa. Hopefully, di kau mi mgdugay ani na set-up. Hopefully, he will be able to join me here soon. Lisod jud but not impossible. Long distance relationships work!

[heisenberg69]

Any person worth having is worth waiting a few years for... If you both have something really special then take the plunge... You'd be surprised at how well a long distance relationship can work out... Granted, it won't be easy and you'll both go through your bouts of loneliness... However, the rewards for making it through are worth every LONELY SECOND...


Just remember there are thousands of couples going through long distance relationships every day... There are thousands of resources available to help you both make it through and keep the relationship feeling alive and new... With the Internet you can both keep in contact through Internet phones, chats, instant messengers and more (skype, YM, MSN, gmail, Chikka)... The only thing stopping a long distance relationship from succeeding in these times is the relationship itself.


If your relationship is rocky or isn't meant to pan out in the end, a long distance situation brings that to your attention quite quickly. This may be the reason so many people are hesitant to get involved in this type of relationship. However, if you are truly a match made in heaven, a few thousand miles can only make your relationship that much stronger in the long-term....


As to what to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend… just let him/her know that you think he's/she's worth the wait. You know you both can make it, and that you hope he/she feels the same way...


"Distance is just a WORD" -JL a.k.a Quiksilver22-

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[chris_kakashi24]

You know Being in a Long Distance Relationship might be hard if you get lonely easily/ w/o physical contact . . . . pero once you think about it when the right time comes na you'll be together <physically present> it would be the greatest feeling ever! I might have not experienced this but i have had some friends who were in a long distance relationship and now they are married! 32 happy and Unending years of love

[yaj.em]

I am in a long distance relationships right now.....and I am still happy. Though there were times na dili malikayan na naa jd tampuhan gamay, nakaya ra mn pd. To be honest with you guys, I really don't know how long will it last, or will it last long enough (3yrs, 5?). I just believe that with TRUST, CONSTANT COMMUNICATION, and LOVE of course, magdugay mi (but not sure if maging kami jd).

I also believe that this kind of relationship works, naa ra jd sa duha ka taw na involved if they will let distance separate their hearts...... just my own point of view

[Tirong-say]

Challenging and agonizing,
but if it triumphs,
then you could consider yours
as the strongest relation there is,
and rest assured it's you and him
until the end.

[alloring]

I have tried both long distance and not, base on experience mas nahan ko sa long distance nga uyab kay maappreciate jud nimu ang effort... hehehe-aw nuon depende sad na sa imung mauyab sad. karon akong long distance uyab nahimu ng husband-communication is the Greatest tool..

[miklot]

does work pero dili cya mag dugay, mo last guro for pila ka years pero lisod jud ghapon kaayo

[L!ck!ty Spl!t]

wa ko kbaw kung hantod sa hantod ba mi ing.ani
di sad cguro haha mu abot ra ang time mga kapatid mag unite mi

[dmelsie]

ang LDR ok ra na siya ang main Factor maka oppose ana ang environment either sa bf or gf.

as for me, before naka work ang usa sa immoral environment and mga immoral nga kauban ok kaayo me
mag away mag sigi gihapon contact, open communication kaayo, then unsaon nakasulod mag trabaho nga mga immoral kaayo ang mga kauban, naka affect gyud ang to siya. naa siya kauban and sigi kuyog nga bae minyo tua sa gawas ang bana ang gipares sad kay kauban sad niya minyo niya tua gawas ang asawa. naa pod isa ka kauban nga ang gipares na laki minyo sad.
although dili ingog e stereotype and e judge, but knowing everyday magkuyog sila di gyud malikayan nga if not in good terms me kinta maka tampo gyud na iya mga kauban og tambag or istorya. maybe positive og negative. and one time niingon gane siya nako nga sigihan siyag ask if sure naba siya nako.

[jaypol81]

for me LDR sucks bigtime...

sa akong experience pina ana pa.. salig lang gyud nako... Dafuq... salig sa imong kigol... hahaha....

sa akong friend pud LDR nya sucks bigtime... kay iyang uyab wala gyud niya birahe kay gusto nya inig kasal pa nya birahan.. kay virgin pa daw... wala ma abti og duha ka tuig sa gawas nasud g rejrej og co-worker kay lambing kuno kaau... guess what ni uli sa pinas kay ni burot man...

FYI

puro married guy ang involve sa break-up sa ka LDR namo...