Who here has love problems?

[chris_kakashi24]

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Anyone with a love problem? maybe we can help each other out? ^^, I'm not an expert or anything but i would just like to hear your stories, and this is a good way of letting your emotions come out/ Expressing them :3


Ma lalake man o sa ma babae.

[theman18]

ako bai..

story...
my friend likes the same girl nga i like. Its my personality man gd nga akoi mgive.way kai migo sad raba nako..then makakita pd ko nga serious cya.. now,magtxt2 man mi sa girl almost everytime(i cant help it but still ako pd iparemember niya from time2time nga ganahan ako migo niya)
one time,nakamention man ko niya nga naa koi bag.o crush(she is my crush)..she asked unsai situation and so i told her the same situation i am on..this day lang jd..cge cya pamugos nako nga musulti knsa c crush..but i always insisted nga dli pah ang right time. but now she's damn serious..saying she needs to know..dli daw nako dapat cya tubagon ug "dli pah ang right time"
cge najd cya pamugos then muthreat nah nga silent therapy if dli ko mutug.an
nagduha2 jd ko ug sulti niya..thinking pd nga bsig malain akong migo..
what do u think guys? ??

[chris_kakashi24]

ako bai..

story...
my friend likes the same girl nga i like. Its my personality man gd nga akoi mgive.way kai migo sad raba nako..then makakita pd ko nga serious cya.. now,magtxt2 man mi sa girl almost everytime(i cant help it but still ako pd iparemember niya from time2time nga ganahan ako migo niya)
one time,nakamention man ko niya nga naa koi bag.o crush(she is my crush)..she asked unsai situation and so i told her the same situation i am on..this day lang jd..cge cya pamugos nako nga musulti knsa c crush..but i always insisted nga dli pah ang right time. but now she's damn serious..saying she needs to know..dli daw nako dapat cya tubagon ug "dli pah ang right time"
cge najd cya pamugos then muthreat nah nga silent therapy if dli ko mutug.an
nagduha2 jd ko ug sulti niya..thinking pd nga bsig malain akong migo..
what do u think guys? ??

Hi Bro :3 In your case it may seem a bit awkward at first since you already gave way to your friend
But bottom line is you have to tell her . . . . .

Since your best bud/ friend has yet to have a relationship with the girl, I say you tell her the truth, despite the fact that you already gave way to your friend, . . . tell her what you really feel about her anyway, she might just feel the same way too. If you don't then you have just lost your chance to get the "girl of your dreams", or so they say , be true to yourself.

On your friend's side you have to tell him too as to let him know that you are not stealing her from him. Though this might cause arguments and fights don't worry, either way it's none of you two's decision now is it? Call it as "May the best man win" case

If you prolong this hide and seek of yours it may come to a point where she'll get tired and becomes uninterested losing you your chance of winning her heart <that is if that is what you want & trust me i have experienced this myself >

SO i hope you'll have the courage to tell her and your friend bro
<but not at the same time & at the same place hahaha it would be a lot more awkward>
and Tell me how it goes ^^,

[rosygemini]

me..

my friend confess me that she had an affair w a lesbian and Im the second person nga iya giingnan pero 10 yrs njd to nahitabo para lang nya is..thats d biggest mistake nga iya nabuhat after that n.confess pod q s iya nga Im a bi .. but one thing nga wa nq nasulti nya is I think Im falling for here.. wc I think mas grabee na kron.. Im trying to stay calm and as if everything's cool lang pero I think nana xa hint nga gnahan q kaayo niya ky nahan man q mag cge hatag gift when I like someone. Naglibog ko kng kabalo nba jud xa ky mura naay change nahitabo di nami kaayo magkuyog I dont know if its bcos busy lang jud kron nga dec. but demmit! selos na selos njud q kaayo everytime kuyog siya s iya girlfriends ... mura q kamatyonon.. and this is the reason pod y theres a part of me pushing me to just tell her nalang na I like her pero im afraid of the changes kay grabee nmn jud mi bonding.. I always miss her pero para nq its better not to tell her than letting someone like her wc is also my very very close friend to stay away from me.. Kamatyanon nq ani oi! bothered much!

[killravel]

hey love....kanus-a man tawn tah magka close friend ui, you always left me broke

[Queen Mojitos]

dako kaayo kog problema

until now wala gihapon koy uyab

2k13 na lang

[iGecko]

@theman18... bro, i sulti lang gyud.. lisod mag mahay sa ulahi.. like me, nag basol sa kina uli-han kay wala ko ka sulti.

[chris_kakashi24]

me..

my friend confess me that she had an affair w a lesbian and Im the second person nga iya giingnan pero 10 yrs njd to nahitabo para lang nya is..thats d biggest mistake nga iya nabuhat after that n.confess pod q s iya nga Im a bi .. but one thing nga wa nq nasulti nya is I think Im falling for here.. wc I think mas grabee na kron.. Im trying to stay calm and as if everything's cool lang pero I think nana xa hint nga gnahan q kaayo niya ky nahan man q mag cge hatag gift when I like someone. Naglibog ko kng kabalo nba jud xa ky mura naay change nahitabo di nami kaayo magkuyog I dont know if its bcos busy lang jud kron nga dec. but demmit! selos na selos njud q kaayo everytime kuyog siya s iya girlfriends ... mura q kamatyonon.. and this is the reason pod y theres a part of me pushing me to just tell her nalang na I like her pero im afraid of the changes kay grabee nmn jud mi bonding.. I always miss her pero para nq its better not to tell her than letting someone like her wc is also my very very close friend to stay away from me.. Kamatyanon nq ani oi! bothered much!

This is a toughy :3 you have 2 choices for this either you tell her or you won't right? i'll break it down for you

So let us say that you don't want to tell her . . . . What happens?
well there are 2 possible outcome
1. She does <as you have said> not feel the same way relationship as friend/ close friends is as is and you are FORCED to just forget about her and live in jealousy and regret for the remainder of your life? :/ now that hurts

2. She feels the same way towards you but you just never told her you did cause she too is scared that she'll ruin the friendship. w/c in turn you continue to become friends, living in MORE jealousy and regret This hurts even more especially when you just knew and it's already too late

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But if you do tell her. . . .
At least she knows right? and you would never regret it in your life that you didnt had told her your feelings so in that case . . .

1. She doesnt feel the same way, so you have to understand that this wasnt the right person and respect her decision as that. But that doesnt mean you have to stop being friends explain to her that you did have a deep affection for her but not on the basis of not being friends. You'd have to move on find someone else <it may hurt now but at least you wont regret it right?>

2. She feels the same way and you get her right? :3 so Happy ever after? or whatever as long as you are happy and glad that you did tell her ^^,

So the Choice is really up to you my friend :3 either way the main point of this situation is regret. you dont want to live in regret >_< I have lived this part of my life and still it stings every time i see her<my bestfriend w/c is a girl>.

[chris_kakashi24]

hey love....kanus-a man tawn tah magka close friend ui, you always left me broke

What's the problem? :3 do you mind sharing? ^^,

[chris_kakashi24]

dako kaayo kog problema

until now wala gihapon koy uyab

2k13 na lang

Hey! so either your a guy or a girl you have to tell him/her

If you are a guy then, it's not that easy but telling the truth that you like her goes a long way either she ends up in your arms or you go to the next gal around the corner

If you are a girl then TELL HIM! don't be afraid to tell him that you like him. In japan they have cultures that the girl is always the first one to tell/initiate if they love a guy. So why not try doing that here in the philippines, right? i mean we already have adopted the western culture, this so called "1 night Stands" so why not try the Japanese's culture of courting? what do you have to lose? or regret it your whole life