Is it being selfish or love?

[Denia]

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is it being selfish to let go of someone you love because your not ready or is it you love that person that dili ka ganahan na masakitan siya?

[neversaydie]

It is not selfish, this could mean that you want that someone to be happy.. though it hurts.. love is selfless.... if you love someone you should learn to let him/her go....

[merlena82]

Ha? wa kaayo ko kasabot. If love kaayo nimo ang person, di naka mag doha doha pa nga ready baka or dili.. Maybe dili ka sure sa imong partner?

[Denia]

It is not selfish, this could mean that you want that someone to be happy.. though it hurts.. love is selfless.... if you love someone you should learn to let him/her go....

thats what i try to tell my self gyud... but something also tells me na selfish ra kaayo ko...

@merlena82 its more complicated than that... sometimes love is not enough... sad to say but true...

[neversaydie]

You're right . love is not enough, actions speaks louder tan words, sa panahon karon, you need to the effort of your other half, it's one way of knowing to keep him or not... kay dili makabusog sa tiyan ang love lang specially when you're living together and kung nana mo baby to take care.. saying those words are not enough... love should go with all it's branches...(if u know what I mean) broad kaayo ang love...

[Denia]

You're right . love is not enough, actions speaks louder tan words, sa panahon karon, you need to the effort of your other half, it's one way of knowing to keep him or not... kay dili makabusog sa tiyan ang love lang specially when you're living together and kung nana mo baby to take care.. saying those words are not enough... love should go with all it's branches...(if u know what I mean) broad kaayo ang love...

bitaw noh... i really appreciate your comments... mga 4 yrs sad mi nag living togther but i know man gud na mapasakitan nako siya... thanks kaayo atleast naa gamay light akong judgement...

[Fri13th]

Char kaayo ka bro. hahaha. Bitaw, heroic act pud na ang pag let go and that's a good sign nga love nimo ang tawo. Good luck sa imong new life didto sa pikas isla bro, puhon mayng lawas hehe.

[lejean]

Why make it complicated? If happy mo duha as it is why let go? If you are hurting that's another thing. Basically, love does not hurt it's our expectations man ang maka-ingon.

Regarding selfish ba moha gibuhat? Hmm, doubtful ka sa moha feelings regarding that person. I don't see as being selfish, doubtful lang ka.

Not unless laen na circumstance basin matawag na nato og selfish moha gibuhat.

[Denia]

Why make it complicated? If happy mo duha as it is why let go? If you are hurting that's another thing. Basically, love does not hurt it's our expectations man ang maka-ingon.

Regarding selfish ba moha gibuhat? Hmm, doubtful ka sa moha feelings regarding that person. I don't see as being selfish, doubtful lang ka.

Not unless laen na circumstance basin matawag na nato og selfish moha gibuhat.

miski ako naglibog... all i know is that when im with her im very happy but naa sad part sa akoa na ganahan ma single. siguro tama ka na selfish lang siguro ko... but i really care and love her... i know na love nako siya coz every plan i make naa jud sya permi... siguro ang last plan lang nako na to leave wla sya

[jednified]

TS, basin fear ra na. Hadlok ka mapasakitan siya and hadlok sad ka na masakitan ka na makit.an nimo siya na nasakitan.