I need to have an inspiration ASAP!

[Pinkish]

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I am married. But I am not happy. Know why? Because my husband treated me like a dog. I am the breadwinner of the family and he is only one fat lazy asshole. His family treated me like a garbage. I am alone and needed to recover. I just thought that someone else can at least help me take the pain by showing some care. Call me crazy but its true. I'm serious. If you don't have anything good to say just don't comment. It will only add pain.

[jzagirl]

you said that you're married. did you talk to him about how you feel and being treated? If it didn't work and still you feel that you're taken for granted and nobody cares for you, then why stay? Sometimes you have to choose your battle. Leave while you still have your self respect. Di man kaha ka mamatay og wala sya? So better make the right decision karon kaysa magkaanak pa mo og daghan, inyong anak pa ang mu suffer.

[Pinkish]

He knows about the way he treated me and he thinks that it's just normal for a husband to treat her wife like that. He thinks I won't leave him because I have no place to stay and my salary is not enough to raise my 2 kids if im going to rent a place. I have plans of leaving him but not until I can earn enough to pay for the rent. Right now all I want is to have someone that can make me feel things will be alright because I feel that things are falling apart. Sometimes I think I should take my own life. I hope you'll understand what I am feeling...

[gcc4426]

inspiration? mao ba gyd na imong gpangita? how long has it been nga g.tratar kag ingana?

y prolong the agony? if you have the means to sustain for an annullment, file it. not unless if masokista kang dako. dayuna to imong plano nga maglahi sa iyaha, tan.awn nato asa na kutob iyang pgka.mayng laki.

it may sound so easy to suggest nga mgbuwag mo, yes. but think of yourself. would you allow such abuse to extend?

[jzagirl]

Believe me , I do. been there.. done that , as the saying goes. I used to live with a man whom i thought my prince charming. In fact despite of my dad's will, i went elope with him. Everything was a fairy tale romance at first but as time passed by, it became messy as hell. I was really young and can't go home even if i wanted to because my dad disowned me. He thought I couldn't live without him, he thought no one would accept me because of what i've been through. It took me a lot of courage to leave him in which i didn't have a single regret. In your case, you don't have to look anywhere for an inspiration.. your kids? they are more than an inspiration...

[cloudduster]

You're the breadwinner and your husband is a couch potato. You can't leave because your husband thinks you can't raise your 2 kiddos because you can't afford to pay the rent. Granted your parents are still alive, why wouldn't you call them?

[Pussifier]

di man inspiration imo gipangita kungdi financer.. inspiration naa imong mga anak ohh...

[tinkerbellfrompixiehollow]

Divorce dayon oi.. kapoi biya ana!

[yvonne6]

i so believe stories like this and i do hope you are not the girl i know who is now with my ex. anyways, yes...stories like this are no longer a surprise to us. before, when things were a bit ideal, men, husband, fathers would work their asses to provide for the wife and kids, the family. now, its a bit acceptable that men could stay home while wives work but husband should make themselves useful at home, most importantly, treat his wife his best. my ex is exactly how ts described her husband. my ex is (he still is) a drug addict, mamas boy, super lazy and thick faced A hole, very irresponsible father. ang iyang current gf has 2 kids who she left under her family's care. she cant come home because her family was upset about her immediately living in with a guy she just met few months ago, about 3 months ago and she is now living with my ex in his parents house. so nakaingon ko, murag duol kaau si ts sa new gf sa akong ex. anyways, women and children have rights...google on ra9262 and if u like to file for a case against your husband puede kaau ts, even bf's lang gani can be punished by law if they fall under ana. bitaw, ang imong 2 ka anak is more than an inspiration. ayaw ug sulbara ang imong problema by entering into another problem. ug laki man gani na ang imong gi huna2, samot lang ka madaut ana ts. remember, inahan naka, u have kids to protect, dont allow them nor other people to say that their mother is a b**ch. ug nahadlok ka wala pa nimo buhata, u will never know kung kaya ba nimo kay nag una ang kahadlok. when i left my exhubby, i brought along 3 kids with me and my ex never supported our kids financially upto this date, its been more than 10 years. it was hard and unbearable at the beginning but then i managed. my ex, still is a loser. but then, ug mahadlok ka mobiya, it will just continue forever. be strong and firm, kung nabuhat sa uban, definitely u can do so. bitaw sad, where is your family by the way?

[ondoy]

btaw asa diay imo family mam?.patabang nlng saila pra saimo kids