Why Do Lovers Argue?

[crinkle]

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they argue to understand each other better. to know what each person actually feels and what they think... it reconciles the differences.

[nunobone]

they argue because they love each other... they both think that what they want is what's best for their partner...

[R4K]

Lovers argue because of love's nature and the basic fact that all people are unique... love attracts/bonds people together... and for them to bond together, there must be a basis for their attraction..

People are attracted to other people in many ways... some physically, some intellectually, others emotionally, spiritually, mere wit & charm above all. Some look for partners who have similar likes or dislikes with 'em. And some would prefer opposites.. It really depends on the individual..

Couples find ways as to how they would measure their love for each other... asking simple questions like, "Why do you love me?" could be an example. The more questions and answers made by that certain couple, the better they would know about each other and... the further they would go deeper in their relationship... In the long run and as for the long term couples, other questions like... "What do you think of my dress?" , "Does this shirt look good on me?" or "What do you think of.." (examples only) would become common grounds for arguments... It really depends on how the other responds (honest response)... and the couple's bonding/compatibility factor..

It would be inevitable for a couple not to argue simply because all people are unique, hence they respond differently.. When confronted with a confusing or thought-provoking situation, some work their way out by having the same decisions/solutions. But for some, they would voice out their own varying opinoin and... that's the point when these lovers start to argue... a difference in opinion, I should say. Well, that's natural. It's all part of the "getting to know" part of the relationship. It's even a good sign because it reflects your growth as a couple, maturity-wise. Without arguing, rash and irrational decisions could be made. Without arguing, relationships could be a bit dragging and... boring.

[overseer]

differences + not-knowing-your-partner-that-much + pride


@R4K: Yes, I agree. I would also find it "disturbing" if there are no arguments. I want my partner to voice out opinions esp if sakto sya

[Jenzer]

I think they argue because they're insecure with one another.. or there're maybe unmet expectations...
Most of the couples i've known argue because they have different principles in life.. the guy is practical and the gal maybe not... or the other way around..

[jamescebu]

arguing is good, just for the reason that it will lead you to get to know each other more.

[joshuayunkee]

they argue because they have settle their indifference. its part of a healthy relationship basta di lang pud palabi.

[flanker]

argue? ah daghan reason ana... disagreements..selos....kulang sa pansin... not enough lust ^_^

-peace-

[wikerfish]

because no two minds are alike. each person is bound to speak his/her mind unless of course if he/she is a puppet of the other.
but arguing doesn't mean fighting na. sometimes it is healthy to argue. u will see that ur partner is smart and not boring.
murag Y speak.

[P-Chan]

great minds think alike