To FIGHT or to LET GO??

[alter-ego]

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Brod, walay butang nga dili masulbad sa seryoso nga panag-istorya.. sort things out, tan-awa ang mga short-comings ninyong duha. Sayang ang relasyon kung matapos lang tungod sa miscommunication..sa imo lang giingon nga confused ka, pag-storya mo, and be open to what you really feel..

[SHADES]

Brod, walay butang nga dili masulbad sa seryoso nga panag-istorya.. sort things out, tan-awa ang mga short-comings ninyong duha. Sayang ang relasyon kung matapos lang tungod sa miscommunication..sa imo lang giingon nga confused ka, pag-storya mo, and be open to what you really feel..

I wanted to...but siya man ang dili makig storya.....ana man xa nga mag talk ra daw mi sooner...lisod kaau kai dili mo open up akong gf nako.....mag cge ra xag ingon "ok ra ko"......but sensitive ko enough to know nga dili xa okay......so cge ko pamugus niya for a week or two....till ni abot sa point nga nag abot na iyang kilay...so ni respetar lang ko niya basin dili pa xa ready to talk......pressure sa work ug sa parents siya.....so me as a bf niya i shud be the one to understand her the most..... Sakit but it has to happen this way...... I did everything...ways para lang magkatalk mi...lisod lang jud kaau if ako ra ang willing then xa kai dili...its like fighting a losing a battle ~pong pa sa bestfriend niya.........

[kimleeKINO_choi]

Kung sobra na iyang pg TEST nmo then let go na. Just confront her gently why she's doing it to u. Ayw pud cge gukod ang girl kng iya rman ka gitest pero too much kai mgsalig pd na gd.

[NOUVO27]

distansya gamy nya...kung dili mangita nimo...pangita nlang lain

[November.Rain]

bro, as a girl, i suggest you treat her out for a surprise... as you said, stressed out cya? sahay mn gud di mi gusto mu-talk kung unsa nahitabo mao muingon ra mi "ok ra" bisan dili ky kapoy mn gud storya.. what we actually need is just a hug, to let us feel na though things are rough, you're still there.. treat her out for a date,.. when mn mo last nag-date nga kana quality time jud ba together.. or complement her sa iya gisul-ob aron ma-feel nga gipansin pa jud nimo.. or simply text her nga "i miss you.." ... it would mean a lot, a stress reliever, when we feel the guy has thought of us at that moment hope it helps!!

[SHADES]

Kung sobra na iyang pg TEST nmo then let go na. Just confront her gently why she's doing it to u. Ayw pud cge gukod ang girl kng iya rman ka gitest pero too much kai mgsalig pd na gd.

.....iwanted to confront her.. actually i did.... but mag cge ra jud xag ingon "karon jud ta mag talk? next time nalng lageh" idk anymore....... idk...... pray nalang ko nga ipa understand mi kung unsa naman joi na happen.... =(

[SHADES]

bro, as a girl, i suggest you treat her out for a surprise... as you said, stressed out cya? sahay mn gud di mi gusto mu-talk kung unsa nahitabo mao muingon ra mi "ok ra" bisan dili ky kapoy mn gud storya.. what we actually need is just a hug, to let us feel na though things are rough, you're still there.. treat her out for a date,.. when mn mo last nag-date nga kana quality time jud ba together.. or complement her sa iya gisul-ob aron ma-feel nga gipansin pa jud nimo.. or simply text her nga "i miss you.." ... it would mean a lot, a stress reliever, when we feel the guy has thought of us at that moment hope it helps!!

i always did....i surprise xa... .gkan work... mo appear lang kog kalit sa iyang workplace... but mao lage na na away na namo b4 kanang i surprise nako xa.... kai sahay daw naa xai lain lakaw that nyt nya dili nalang xa maka GO kai tungod naa nako..ana gane.... but mo tell xa nako ana after na...... mao jud na akong prob kai dili xa mo ingon nako...mura xag maikog..nya ako jud na xa i ask always gud if Free ba xa today... mo ana raman pud nga "yes" unya diay to... mig homan mag mug.ot2.... mangita dayon ug Bikil.... =( always nalang jud na nako i understand gud.... and yes... sensitive ko enough to know nga thers something wrong.... and ako jud na xa i remind always nga if need xag someone to talk naa ra jud ko....

ge pa sabot nako xa nga im making myself availabe for you 24/7..... but sa iyang pag tan.aw kai cge nalang daw xa akong ge think..bale ang dating sa iyaha gane kai wala nakoi lain buhat siya nalang jud pirmi....

i believe i never fail to do those things..... its just that.... lain2 lang jud ang mga girls.... ang dating sa iyaha is ang negative side... mao na maka tell ko nga idk.. wala na jud.... dili na xa ganahan sa kung unsai naa namo..... SaD.....

anyways..thank you... im glad nga for you it means a lot kanang mga simple things mga ingon ana... =)

[nijazared]

@TS feel lng nko your pushing yourself to much into her...try to give her space but make sure she knows it...tell her how much you want her to tell you what the problem is but now you understand that she might need time for herself. Assure her you will be there for her and will be available anytime she needs to talk. Then lie low sa and hope for the best. Good luck nimo TS...I know you're trying very hard but sometimes it has the opposite effect.

[SHADES]

@TS feel lng nko your pushing yourself to much into her...try to give her space but make sure she knows it...tell her how much you want her to tell you what the problem is but now you understand that she might need time for herself. Assure her you will be there for her and will be available anytime she needs to talk. Then lie low sa and hope for the best. Good luck nimo TS...I know you're trying very hard but sometimes it has the opposite effect.

lageh....i wish i cud turn back time gane..... I shud have done that.... Ka realize ko nga dili jud maau mamugus ug maau...nga ipakita jud nimo imong willingness to the max...l.actually pwede man mamugus...try hard...but dapat tarong ang pag gamit gane....dili dapat sa tanan nalang situation....hmm..anyways...ive given her time na... After a week of no communication, ni text xa makig talk xa nako sooner.....idk, i just feel like it is about to end...i mean end na jud....

Lisud naman mu stay pa sa relationship bai if di na jud ko noya love dba? I dont want her to stay either just because na feel pity/guilty xa towards me.....so....whatever man iyang decision, mrespect lang ko.....ana man jud na dba? Basta love nimo ang person, u want her to be happy...... Still....hope gihapon ko nga magkabalik mi..... =)

[isparkol]

fight if theres a chance to save the relationship if wala better pack ur things and leave hahahaha