me and n`gel would vote for Florida..
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hi n'gel jugs and ma'am gwyn -- nindot sad na nga location sa ila ms gwyn dah... nindot unta iapil ana kaso murag under pko ron dri ni mrs....naa ra dri balay wai lingaw houseband![]()
naa ko dri's iowa sus pagkalagyo sad anig mga suroyan dri oi tag pila ka oras usa ma abot....
i'll ask my wife kng makalugar cya by august, dli mani cya istoryan but ako lang ning paapilon kai ganahan cya suroy dha disneyworld ug uban pa..
kng dli ko kaanha moral support nalang ko ani hehehe![]()
@rudjard: Sus dad-a imo wifey para maka relax pud siya. Bisan one weekend lang gyud. Kasabot gyud ko sa imo gibati nga nara sa balay permi kay mura duha gyud ko katuig ingon ana although after a year nana koy baby bantayan permi, naa nay magsige uhaaaa atong panahona. Teheh.
I have got to discuss this with you guys kay naay mura para naku she looks filipina-chinese diri sa ko work ba, who I find really snobbish. I thought she's only like that to me coz she probably thinks I am Filipina too. Kamatngon mo ana noh? Mga pinoys diri sa states kay ug magkita kay mura'g wala lang? Gipangutana gani ko ug american sa una ngano kuno ingon ana ta mga pinoys, we act like dili kuno ta mga kababayans. I told him, wala lang mi naanad. Ingon ana gyud mi. Mangumusta rami sa mga taw nga among kaila.
I mean, I know dili man na culture nato nga mo say "hi, how are you today?" to ppl we don't know or hardly know, compared to here ba nga even strangers would say hi, how are you... etc etc (although i know in some places dili sila ingon ana) pero we were discussing with my other workmates here shavaun and a new hire about "etiquette" in the workplace. DC, VA and MD areas, you go to grocery stores everywhere they always take time to greet you and to them it's like second nature. So anyways, this asian workmate (dugay na pud sya work diri) came in our office and i heard shavaun (itom ni sila) comment about that girl being unethical kuno kay dili gani halos motagad. So I was like, it's probably really cultural. Wala lang gyud kuno sila naanad ug ingon ana daw and para nila rude kuno na ingon ana, wala kunoy manners. Which is true man pud, since I got here I adapted to that social behavior baya. You know, the greeting people thing. Mura naanad nalang ko, nga ingon ana gyud na sila. But anyways, karon pa pud nuon ko kahibaw nga malain diay sila ug ingon ana kanang dili mo greet especially in a professional setting kay karon ra pud ko nakadungog ug naay ni comment about it.
^^ personally di ko nahan mag greet2 oi...kapoyan ko...nya di jud nako feel especially dili nako kaila nya di ko interested kon ok ba jud siya he he he...although i agree with n'gel nga mo greet jud sila dire...pero di man ko gihapon sold out kay moingon lagi "hi how you doin" pero wala gani nag tan-aw nato...nya dili man interesado sa atong tubag...morag empty question man lang ni just to say something....
pero i also agree nga mo stand out sad ta kon di ta mo greet others kay mao may culture dire...so i guess mo apply ra jud nga "when in rome do as the romans do" ....so greet2 lang sad ko panagsa aron mora korek he he he
That's so right @Gwyn. Noh? mao gyud na ako rason pud sa una, why would I ask how she's doing this and that nga I don't really care how she's doing. Pero kung nice pagka greet nindot man pud ang environment, mura happy ba. Even directors, managers nakasmile gyud all the time inig greet.
Sa una bitaw honestly nabaghuan ko kay sus sa ato sa pinas? Asa ba na managad mga tag-as ug position unless dugay na nila kaila.
sup guys..
agree ko ni ate gwyn and n`gel.. actually when you say "hi, how u doin bud.." or "what's going on?" or "how are you today?" kay kani nga mga greetings when u meet someone more of like for the sake lang nga ni greet ka.. mura raka nag istorya sa hangin gud.. suwayi, when u meet an american then greet him with "how are you?" then say it like you mean it and maintain eye contact (like you're intently waiting for an answer from them), dba murag ma uncomfortable na sila..
b ingon nila dili kuno kaayo mo ingon ana diha sa inyo, upstate NY. I dunno ha pero they said, grabe ra pud kaayo pud ang mga taw diri DC areas. Although dili tanan ingon ana pero kasagaran daw. Pero tinuod nang way down south kay kawayan pa ka sa kamot. Tungod sa kagamay siguro sa mga taw they treat everybody nga mura close nila. Permi lang gud na daygon si leah bisan asa. Kalitan siguro kay itom ug buhok, mura kuno chinese doll.
dri sad kadasugat nko sa mga tao cge lag "hey how are you doing" with a cheerful smile... haay same tubag "hey, am fine" mao dli nalang ko ganahan mo gawas gawas dri sa balay kai kana laging inig sugat nako bsan wla ko kaila cgeg greet....![]()
diri upstate b coz depende ra jd asa ka.. like for instance, here at our college, kung maka sugat mi mga studyante kay mura lang wala.. unless kung kaila nimo syempre mu tagad jd, pareha sa atoa sa pinas nga style.. samot na dd2 NYC, mga rude kau mga taw dd2..Originally Posted by n`gel
in the workplace, it is expected nga tagdon jd ang co-worker, whether you know him/her or not.. mag sugat gni sa hallway expected nana nga mu "how u doin?" or "how are you?".. then igo ra gud tubagon ug "alright..." then mao ra..
actually it's more of culture rather than anything else.. awkward lang kau ni sa ubang pinoys coz d man gud ta anad ana sa atoa.. but madugayan maanad raka and it's gonna be like second nature, you don't even realize ur greeting someone..![]()
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