Uncertain future, Discouraged, Hopeless, I need advice. :(

[___iamjana]

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TS try to compare your situation to others na mas worst pa mn gane... mas blessed pa gane ka coz you have a complete family, kung mgpadungog dungog imung papa ayaw kalain maybe gchallenge raka ana niya, to strive hard for your future ug sau anak.. Look forward leave your past but use it as your strength for no weaknesses and discrimination anymore.. Think positive TS, be positive anytime, focus and give your self a plan na mao ni dpat imung buhatun through the right path... MIND SET, the most important thing you can do, kung dka libog ug huna2 all your plans will be organize and every step you take every step you make for the second chance maging ok nah... kanang pg skol nimu ug balik padaun, dili man age ang basehan para ka skwela, so karon pagtinarong na jud para pud sa imung anak..and don't forget always call God, ask for help and always say thank you.. kana gane pag mata sa buntag dako na kaaung pasalamat gane kay gtagaan pa ug another day.. to continue to see how life's so beautiful...

Mutuo jud kong tao ra man ang gahatag ug problema sa tao... kung kamao lng jud muhandle ug dili mgcge ug complain and always be contented kung unsay naa nimu karon wala mn tingale problema.. ang problema cguro knang gtagaan kg sakit sa ginoo na dili na jud maayo, pero uban gane dili mawagtangan ug hope wait pa gane sa miracle to happen...
Unta mkatabang ug mkagaan ni nimu akong advice TS... God Bless...

[Scott Bernard]

TS.

Grow up and finish your college. Pasagdi-e na ang ubang tao. Take care of yourself before others.

Don't be a sissy or a loser.

[digitalsuperman]

lols.......

[spike412]

grabe pud... naa man gyud tao na dugay mu-mature. naa pud uban natiguwang na lang wala lang gihapon nagmature. take ur time ts... look at the positive things kung unsa gakahitabo nimo...and remember that this too shall also pass.

[Dorothea]

omg ka harsh nimo Marius oi! Hahaha motuo gani na si TS nimo

[Regrets]

sakto jud mo tnan sa ako pgkaimature but i have my personal reasons and its a bit of a story nganu na inana ko for 5+ years.
i struggled with my social life after what happend and i got rejected by my family, had to look for job, eventually coming back to my parents. many times gipapalayas ko sa ako father pero bcuz of my mother wala madaun and obviously and practically i cant live by myself. i sank into a deep depressive lifestyle rejecting every criticism i encounter, staying at home nagcg lng ug computer, i hate to admit it, it was my mistake that lead me to another miserable life. it was not easy being alone. you guys may not understand it but it was the only thing i knew what to do at that time. but im glad i got out of it. right now im just struggling with this rollercoaster of emotions. i dont know what to feel on this first day of school, i have mixed emotions, i feel elated at the same time i feel sad/anxious/worried. im thinking that its normal since ive been out of school for a long time.

number 1 jud nga nkabother sa akoa karon is the fear of the future. i feel nga basin wala na mudawat nako. i fear nga walay position nga nindot after sa akoa pag grad.

[cptn_star]

like you, I also have an uncertain future.

why? because I still don't have my A&P license (aircraft mechanic's license). why again, because CAAP sucks by not resuming the processing flow for getting the license. in my field, if you have no license, you're not an official mechanic.

like you, I also feel somehow discouraged.

why? because it's been so long and the license problem is really dragging me down in attaining a stable job.

however, I am not hopeless.

I have plans. plans with backup plans.

in this world, most things wouldn't really work well without a plan. not unless you clear your mind and develop a strategy, you'll stay as you are, devoid of progress.

another thing is initiative. a good life wouldn't be spoon-fed to you from heaven. it will not happen. not even a bit of a chance.

my suggestion would be to make yourself useful. think. find ways. don't be idle. do stuff worth of your time.

you could look for a temporary, part-time job while studying. you could engage into a small decent business. the possibilities are endless.

man up. if you're aware of your current situation, why dwell in it? do something to get out of it. plain simple.

[Regrets]

like you, I also have an uncertain future.


why? because I still don't have my A&P license (aircraft mechanic's license). why again, because CAAP sucks by not resuming the processing flow for getting the license. in my field, if you have no license, you're not an official mechanic.


like you, I also feel somehow discouraged.


why? because it's been so long and the license problem is really dragging me down in attaining a stable job.


however, I am not hopeless.


I have plans. plans with backup plans.


in this world, most things wouldn't really work well without a plan. not unless you clear your mind and develop a strategy, you'll stay as you are, devoid of progress.


another thing is initiative. a good life wouldn't be spoon-fed to you from heaven. it will not happen. not even a bit of a chance.


my suggestion would be to make yourself useful. think. find ways. don't be idle. do stuff worth of your time.


you could look for a temporary, part-time job while studying. you could engage into a small decent business. the possibilities are endless.


man up. if you're aware of your current situation, why dwell in it? do something to get out of it. plain simple.

thats what im trying to do right now, its tough since im just starting. ive been in an emotionally bound lifestyle where every decision i made before was based on how i felt. yea i must admit it, i know i was a shithead. i was alone i mean like literally alone for 5+ years and i just made this decision to get out of my shell. uncle nako ang nag pep talk nako last july on my bros. wedding thats what made me "man-up" right now and take all the crap thats gona be thrown at me. he is a big part of this decision but yea i cant avoid feeling bad,anxious,regrets, since i could have done it a long time ago.

im just trying to figure out whats best to do on whats left, aside from school. i dont want to dwell on negativ things.

i wana keep myself posted on this thread until the end of the sem as the advices here gives me a slight bit of hope and confidence.

[contentcentralph]

This is too vague. Please elaborate

[neversaydie]

You don't have to be discouraged and feel hopeless, they are all right when they say, make your daughter your main inspiration, because you are a father, your daugther will always looks up to you. Your Gf will be proud if you will show your determination, passion and courage to fullfill your dreams, you neglect the oppotunities before but now show them that you can do it.. Basta maningkamot lang ta with prayers pud, okay kaayo... I never had the luxury of having great things, but i am happy with the simple fullfillment that I attain, take this as a challenge, and make sure you will win, though you will fall at times.. but be strong, make those down time of yours make you strong.. and courageous..: )