Quote Originally Posted by emberjim View Post
Ikaw ra makatubag sa imo pangutana, daghan makarelate but not all nakarelate maka-appreciate.. dili man kaha ka "totally lesbo" then unsa man ka, you have to be certain sa imo kaugalingon para maklaro sad imo kinabuhi... If you two have that spark as you mentioned, then maybe the girl really into you that comes to a realization na what is she doing besides you na wa man ka klaro... kung gusto ka naa magseryoso nmo na babae then you have to be firm na lesbian ka... basin ug gakiligon sad ka sa gakakiligan nya mao na hilasan na noon sya sa imoha...magpakalalaki ka kung gusto ka ug babae... but kung gusto ka ug laki..... this is crazy but you have to PM me, to have my number and call me maybe...and we will have a really fun Gangnam Style....nyahahaha...
magpakalalaki ka kung gusto ka ug babae" -- that's not true at all.. perhaps your idea of a lesbian is someone who walks,talks and acts like a man..in short "butch".Not all lesbians fancy the idea of becoming a man or be a man in a relationship. I've seen so many lipstick lesbians and bi femmes and they all look and act straight, except for the fact that they prefer women over men. It's always easy to oversimplify things, categorize them and put labels. As they say, labels are for cans, not people. Personally, I think love is love. It does not matter what gender but the person who you fall in love with.Most guys (not all) I noticed in Cebu are so ego driven and the moment they know about a woman dumping a guy for another woman get insulted and they start lashing out.It's just the same when a girl dumps you for another guy. It's a totally different world in men in Manila. They are more accepting and understanding. I hope eventually everyone will have an open mind and stop stereotyping