Knsa imong piliun ang guy na 7years namo or ang new one?

[crush_23]

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yup i knw na its a big decsion jud...but u know what naa nako bf now.. but wala pami buwag sa akoa old na bf then mura raman cia ug wala..wala m kitaay if maka remember mo text cia or miskul...maski naa rmi sa city but wala m kita na....as in wala na jud claru ba...kapoyan ko... he is so dependent with his family i dnt know unsa akoa life if adto ko nia...mao na libug pajud ko... but kbaw ka love man nako akoa new one ky nakita nako nia ang wala nako mkita sa akong long relationship....he cant say no sa iyaha parents.... may patyun..hehehhe

u know nga wrong imo gibuhat...nag two timer ka? sori to offend u but i think wat u doin s so unfair. u shud b frank with ur bf if ur no longer hapi with him...y stay in the first place? yah ryt bcoz of the many years spent together? i suggest u make ur choice now na jud. go for the one who makes you hapi and who makes you feel loved.

gudluck...hup u make the ryt choice!

[lucius]

my question is that , why last 7 sweet/romantic/tragic year together and still have a doubt, you have endured the pains of love together

why start a new?...

[jfranz31]

depende ra jud na sya ky dli raba jud mogawas or dli makita nimo kung unsa katinud.anay ang batasan sa usa ka taw not unless dli nimo sya maipon or dli nimo sya maka uban ug pila ka tuig.den pananglitan naa kay nakita or naay nindot nga quality ning bag.o nga wala jud nimo makita sa usa dbah maski 7 yrs.namo.

pro kapoya sab aning mag start napod ka,lain napod nga adjustments sus dli raba jed lalim...

[jan_mar24]

jfranz...it doesnt matter man kung pila mo ka years na uban...what if dli na healthy inyu relationship...dli nka happy...still mah hold on japon ka? dli nsad na maayu... nahan ka mkig uban sa guy na mura ug gurl ug mouth...nagger....

[omad]

jfranz...it doesnt matter man kung pila mo ka years na uban...what if dli na healthy inyu relationship...dli nka happy...still mah hold on japon ka? dli nsad na maayu... nahan ka mkig uban sa guy na mura ug gurl ug mouth...nagger....
jan_mar24:

there you go, you just answered your own question...

case closed.

[jugs_06]

haha c jan_mar ray nitubag sa iyang pangutana

[aL-cHe]

sa tinuod lang kapoy na jud start ug balik but nice kaau ang feelings basta bag.o pa pero sayang kaau ang 7 years i have bf sad 4 years nami den, unexpectedly i fol in love pero i hide my feelings coz i have bf nga... ako g timbang2x kung wat ang quality sa akong bf na dili nko ganahan and wat akong ganahan.. then sa kato na sad usa... human akong g huna2x kung kaya ba jud nko dawaton ang weakness sa akong bf..it's a good thing kaya raman d i nko... kay kung adto sad ko sa bag.o wala pay sure kung lyftime ba jud to iyang love or dili. sometimes man gud kaning mga guys dili jud ni cla showee that's the main reason kung ngano kita girls mag hunahuna na dili ta importante nila... pero deep inside d cla mu dugay na to if dili ta importante... cguro mu shift lang ko kung muabot ang tym na i need him then dili d i ko nya kaya ipaglaban...game over na jud xa..

ikaw ra jud maka decide ani... lisud bya pero ma kaya raman... and don't be afraid n masayop ka coz tanan may reason man...

[benj04]

ang 7 yrs akong pilion..
kung ang new guy, naay possibility nga agi ra nag infatuation iya tungod bag o pa mo and all
pero ang 7 yrs, hello? 7 yrs is a long tym to just waste it on someone who barely knows you nya layo pa jud mo?
also, i think mas kaila nimo ang guy that uve been with for 7 yrs..

and i agree nga kapoi ang getting-to-now-you stage, sugod nasd ka sa uno with knowing abt the NEW person..

[crush_23]

i dont think its kapoy man if mag getting to know pa sa imong new nga bf....if u love the person, di naman na mo matter if kapoy ba...u will enjoy the day bein together and knowing more about each other.....if u think its kapoy, meaning napilitan lang ka to choose the new bf....but as what im advising to the thread starter, dapat niya listen kang kinsa ni beat ang iyang heart..."true love"

i myself have bin chosing who is who to chose but if the heart decides, u wouldnt mind to start all over again.....

der r a lot of rizons why some of the long engagement relationships wont last, hence jump into another relationship which rizons are very hard to ponder upon...the last thing you know is that your're falling for sum1 else who gives you contentment in life. by then, you start telling yourself you can no longer ask for more.....that he/she means the whole world to you and that you cant live your life without him/her.

as iv said, even if we make many advices and comments here... still only you (threadstarter) can decide where your heart shud be.

[aL-cHe]

btw naa jud ka daku na point crush_23 i agree wid u...