Fake ''EFFORT''

[___iamjana]

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"FAKE EFFORT" hmmm not all meaning of effort is true not all meaning of effort is sincere...haha as simple as that! it doesn't mean that if the guy gave an effort, it means came from the bottom of his heart na... this is just base on my experience and observations lang, there's a lot of situation ingun ani, kita mn gud mga babae bsta gane makabasa ta ug mga sweet words gkan sa lalaki let's say padung pa lng panguyab or ngpadungog pa lng na manguyab or iyang mga message kay murag padung ingun ana, kiligun jud ta daun kay labi na gwapo aguy wan a mgpadala na lage ug bulatik haha, khibaw mo kanang mga lalaki ron dili tanan effort or for example sa tx kusog mureply nimu or usahay na pa jud sense, kita daun mga girls mganahan na nuon kay tgdon lage a2ng tx, pero wala ta khibaw that guy is know how to deal people or pakisama lng bah... kay naa mn jud ng ubang lalaki na dili gus2 mka disappoint ug taw ilabi na babae so tarungun jud and maabot rang time na mapul an rah na ug tx... pero kitang mga girls daun tg kilig2 kay ngtuo na naay crush na2 ang lalaki haha... mao nay fake effort!

[TsiIroGivira]

fake effort tingali kon namasin lang, which means di siryoso. namasin maka kuan diay...win or loss ok ra, kay tua pay uban tingalig adto didto masuertian

[KDThunder]

hmmm...i understand y galibog ang uban ani ok i will going to explain this, actually i came from manila jud before ko na transfer dre sa Cebu, sa amua man gud basta mag gather me with my circle of friends specially sa mga girls di mawawala yung topic kung sino yung bago nilang manliligaw na guys and when we try to ask or insist them kung sino yun sinasabi naman nila at ini explain kung pano sila nililigawan at sinusuyo ng guy...taz sumisingit sa usapan yung ''sus! fake effort lang yan padala ka naman kagad'' syempre todo deny c girl na friend kase nga tingin nyah di naman daw ganon! kase nakikita nyah yung sincerity ng guy sa effort na ginagawa nyah...samin kase fake effort ang term sa mga guy na pakitang tao lang at ginagawa ang lahat para makuwa nya lang ang gusto nya sa isang babae i mean kahit makapag lie or yung tipo na binabago yung self kahit di naman ganon ang attitude nyah in real life or sa kanila...syempre saming mga lalaki if gusto mo nga naman yung isang babae ano ba dapat gawin para makuwa mo sya? dba kaylangan mag effort ka? ang problema hindi mo mahal yung girls kaya mo lang sya nililigawan it's because may iba kang habol sa kanya... sa ganong tema dun namin ina apply ang ''FAKE EFFORT'' for example ganito masipag ako sa harap nyah pero samin tamad ako! ginagawa namin yun para dagdag points pero wala ang sincerity....kaya nga question ko sa taas... for girls sa mga ''NANLILIGAW'' sa inyo pano nyo malalaman kung fake effort lang ang pinapakita ng guy? hehe i hope maka gets na ang uban ani....sorry for my tagalog explaination

[___iamjana]

OT: observe lng nko noh ang nireply dre ang nka GETS kay ang mga lalaki ang girls WALA except me kay nka GETS mn ko hahahahaha......

[___iamjana]

Very big check

[lejean]

@TS: I do understand what you mean. But you will get different views from both genders. How am I going to know if fake effort ang guy? The only way I can attest that he is sincere and not all calculated tactics is when I "test" him out. I always use this on guys that I am involved with before. Coz guys will always have the same pattern in luring a woman, they give out the best in them (even if it is not the real them we see just to get the woman they desire or lust for).

Here are the things I did maybe it will work for you all women out there lol:

1. I let out the worst in me. I am the super maldita type, tanan nako kamaldita gipagawas jud nako para nig-kakami na sa guy di na sya mashock na ingun ana ko maldita para walay regrets ba.

2. I let him do something out of his league or something difficult or challenging in order to win me over. One example, like papalet og pizza sa yellowcab (btc branch sauna), nya taga south ko, he came all the way to BTC, then hatod sa amoa, nya ending la nako kan-a. If he did not want to pursue me? Aw, wan-a ne dili nato sya sa ako gipabuhat. But he did it, gi-taxi-han pa jud nya kay I pressure him with time frame jud to ha? Later on, I admit it to him the reason behind what I did.

But for me? I already know the intention of the guy if what he is doing is out of lust or is it really like or love through his eyes. Eyes don't like. They are the window to your soul.

[cuteboy_kahoy]

"Ihatag nako sa imong ang buwan pakapinan pag bituon, sugton mulang ako" - murag ingana?

[cebu.opportunities]

How to know whether the guy is sincere or not?

My response:
- Conflicting words and actions
- Not genuine Love
- With hidden motives
- exaggeration
- Lie

All these can be observed; You just have to use your intuition and sometimes set aside what your heart cries.

[SmartAssChic]

1. too much flattery like all the time
2. inconsistent
3. doesn't pay attention to what's important to you or even the smallest things you say
4. always brings the topic to overly intimate conversation

[KDThunder]

hmmmm.. if i were a girl murag lisod jud i trace ang guy kung bulatik ra or tinuoray ang gepakita dpende nalang if you really knew this person since you was both young..