Kung mag away ang Ginikanan ug Anak, kinsay angay mangayo ug pasaylo?

[rudeboiska]

it depends upon the situation,,,much better if both parties ang magpasayloay...

[cyareful]

kami ga away mi ako parents ron wai tingganay mo 1 week na ako alkansi ahak wa na mopukaw nako nig work hahahaha pero grabe pud xa oi grabe xa mu storya ako pai nagtabang



ang ako sala nakalimot ra ko bilin sa kwarta maghatag man ko taga sweldo 3k para kurente og abang balay nia utang pa sa iya pagkahospital pagpanganak 100k ( 42k nalang ron hinay bayad )
ana xa nga mag pa add daw xa 500 nako kai naa xa utang nga gipaningil xa niana ko wa na tawn ko kwarta ma oi kai absent ko 1 day ako alowans 900 nalang gud for 15 dys asa ko ana .. wa xa nitingod sus karon kai nakalimot man ko bilin niadto ko sa ako uyab balai sa lapu kai nahospital iya anak gi dengue so naka stay ko 1 day didto kai kuyogan nako hospital ako uyab . pag ugma ana ntxt bitaw na xa nga "HOI STORYAE LANG MI KUNG MAGMINYO NAKA KAI WA MI NAG KINAHANGLAN NIMO! " nia to think nananghid ko nia and ako nag bayad tanan bayronon og naghatag ako sweldo tanan nila plete ra ako ebelin g in ana pa ko?
niana ko nga mao ba bantog ra . sus g replyan man noon ko nga "LIMOS RA NA NIMO NAMO WA PA KA KABAYAD BISAG GAMAY KAI SUKAD PAGKABATA NIMO HANTOD KARON KAMI NAGPAKAON NIMO!" sakto d ai na? syempre g anak ko nila natural pakan on ko nila.. ataya lago sakripisyo pa nako katong nanganak xa sa amo kamanghuran ako nangita 100k para makagawas siya naa ba nitabang lain wa jud ,,,,, hantod karon ako nagbayad sa utang wa jud na sila ka amot bisag gamay kai ako papa way au .... nia karon kinsa man angay mupaubos .....

i see where you're coming from.. naa juy parents na ingon ana..dli mn tanan parents gud maayo (but i'm not saying your's aren't ha)..dili mn dapat mamoyboy ang parents na sila nagpakaon sa imu sukad pagkabata nimu ky that's they're responsibility, they should not expect something in return from you in the first place..they should be grateful ky kabalo ka molingi sa imu gigikanan..wala may dili masolbad sa kalma lang na istorya..e confront imu parents and let them know how you feel.. cry if you feel like it..there's nothing worse than a parent na mamoyboy oi..kung ako cguro to na dli na lng ko mag tell kung unsa akong buhaton..basin hagbay ra kong nilayas..but that's me..

sooner or later naa juy magpaubos sa either sa inyo..sa una lng na mudugo kung baga..hehehe..i dont think i'll be able to stand living in a place naay confilct..world peace mn gud ko..bisan cguro dli akong sala ako na lng ang magpaubos..dili ko ganahan ug gubot..

[epoy73]

^^ lagi saona rman unta ko nahan mulayas og d palang sa ako mga manghud i have 8 siblings pinaka bata namo kai 9months . how can they survived without my help.

ive been sacrificing saona pa i hav transferred them sa APARTMENT nga dako saona puyo ra with lola nga magbaha nig uwan gamay
kompleto sa gamit tanan sa ako na sweldo . tanan butang tv computer stove etc.
celebrates bday party kaon sa gawas whole family ,. tanan siguro ako gibuhat para ma experience ako manghud ang wa nako ma experienced pag ka gamay nako pero wa gihapon na makita sa ako ginikanan ngel ad gihapon ko kai gahi daw ko mao rana ako ihatag nila mao lagi pait if wala grado mo ginikanan d makita nga d nako obligasyon/responsibilidad ang pagtabang ang uban gani mag lain man gani nia manginauhi og ila byaan ang pamilya mai gani d ko in ana

[cyareful]

^^ lagi saona rman unta ko nahan mulayas og d palang sa ako mga manghud i have 8 siblings pinaka bata namo kai 9months . how can they survived without my help.

ive been sacrificing saona pa i hav transferred them sa APARTMENT nga dako saona puyo ra with lola nga magbaha nig uwan gamay
kompleto sa gamit tanan sa ako na sweldo . tanan butang tv computer stove etc.
celebrates bday party kaon sa gawas whole family ,. tanan siguro ako gibuhat para ma experience ako manghud ang wa nako ma experienced pag ka gamay nako pero wa gihapon na makita sa ako ginikanan ngel ad gihapon ko kai gahi daw ko mao rana ako ihatag nila mao lagi pait if wala grado mo ginikanan d makita nga d nako obligasyon/responsibilidad ang pagtabang ang uban gani mag lain man gani nia manginauhi og ila byaan ang pamilya mai gani d ko in ana

mao ra na sa giingon nga they don't know what they're missing 'til it's gone..i mean, sooner or later you're gonna have to eventually live separately and have your own life, your own responsibility..think about it..dili mn ka nila matawag ug selfish ky you did what youcan for them, they're just ungrateful..

[bitchybutsweet]

^^ lagi saona rman unta ko nahan mulayas og d palang sa ako mga manghud i have 8 siblings pinaka bata namo kai 9months . how can they survived without my help.

ive been sacrificing saona pa i hav transferred them sa APARTMENT nga dako saona puyo ra with lola nga magbaha nig uwan gamay
kompleto sa gamit tanan sa ako na sweldo . tanan butang tv computer stove etc.
celebrates bday party kaon sa gawas whole family ,. tanan siguro ako gibuhat para ma experience ako manghud ang wa nako ma experienced pag ka gamay nako pero wa gihapon na makita sa ako ginikanan ngel ad gihapon ko kai gahi daw ko mao rana ako ihatag nila mao lagi pait if wala grado mo ginikanan d makita nga d nako obligasyon/responsibilidad ang pagtabang ang uban gani mag lain man gani nia manginauhi og ila byaan ang pamilya mai gani d ko in ana

hats off ko nmu bai! pasagdi lang na basin gigutom toh imung inahan bah..naa rabay mga tao na mahimong monster kung gutomon..storya-e lang na imung mama..

[twEATer]

ang anak. Kanang sa mga teleserye nga makita nato nga ang anak magtubag2 sa inahan. May pd ug mahitabo na sa amoa, gilaparo na cguro ko sa akong inahan magfeeling2 ko ug tubag2 sa ilaha. hehehe

e.g.
Anak: Nay, kahit kelan hindi mo ako binigyan ng halaga. Lagi na lang si kuya. Tama ba yan? HA! inay tama ba! (next scene)
[IMG]http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_m93O6jGV3Bo/TAlkJptzAII/AAAAAAAAAT8/rcUZ7gd-3y8*******bitch_slap.jpg[/IMG]

[Kagami-chan]

I just would like to share this part of the bible. It's from Sirach 3

Duties to Parents

1 Children, listen to me; I am your father. Do what I tell you and you will be safe,2 for the Lord has given fathers authority over their children and given children the obligation to obey their mothers.3 If you respect your father, you can make up for your sins,4 and if you honor your mother, you are earning great wealth.5 If you respect your father, one day your own children will make you happy; the Lord will hear your prayers.6 If you obey the Lord by honoring your father and making your mother happy, you will live a long life.7 Obey your parents as if you were their slave.8 Honor your father in everything you do and say, so that you may receive his blessing.9 When parents give their blessing, they give strength to their children's homes, but when they curse their children, they destroy the very foundations.
10 Never seek honor for yourself at your father's expense; it is not to your credit if he is dishonored.11 Your own honor comes from the respect that you show to your father. If children do not honor their mothers, it is their own disgrace.12 My child, take care of your father when he grows old; give him no cause for worry as long as he lives.13 Be sympathetic even if his mind fails him; don't look down on him just because you are strong and healthy.14 The Lord will not forget the kindness you show to your father; it will help you make up for your sins.15 When you are in trouble, the Lord will remember your kindness and will help you; your sins will melt away like frost in warm sunshine.16 Those who abandon their parents or give them cause for anger may as well be cursing the Lord; they are already under the Lord's curse



Therefore I would say that children should learn to respect their parents no matter what, and lower their pride on their parents. It is not up to us to say what we're doing is right, but it's accordance to the Law that the Father has given us.

[epoy73]

hats off ko nmu bai! pasagdi lang na basin gigutom toh imung inahan bah..naa rabay mga tao na mahimong monster kung gutomon..storya-e lang na imung mama..

na di na mada storya ive done that and it did not ended good it worsen , maypa silent war nalang . huwat kinsa una motingog.

[lhorenzoo]

understanding , patience from both sides is needed and a clear head.

[kageron]

When it comes to situations like this both sides should be heard. And both sides should try to understand and not to raise there ego or pride.