Help! Is My Girlfriend of 7 Years Cheating on Me?

[lejean]

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Base sa moha gipost, these are the red flags:

1. Lying
2. Changing the name of the guy
3. Asking you about the warts thingy
4. Selosan ka, kabuotan nimo (mao ne defense mechanism niya para d ka mgduda nya)

These are the things that made me conclude that she is not someone to be trusted all along and is cheating. However, there are some points I would want to stress out:

1. There is a reason why she is cheating... look at yourself first, unsa man imoha gibuhat or pagkuwang that led her to do that?
2. It takes two to tango, di sya mo cheat if wala'y rason. There will always be a reason you also contributed to her cheating, i-discover daw?
3. Then, try to mend your relationship by giving her attention, surprises and stuff. Basin na boring na nyoha relationship.

(Sa ako ne pagka-righteous ha na advise)

For the more practical side and to be blunt.

If you are in a relationship and serious jud ka and you do love your gf/bf, bisan naa kay crush di ka mo entertain the fact na mo flirt ka? Kay labe na girl mo flirt, agoy ang guy baya di baya na mo dili mo tukob ra ba daun na? She already know what she gets herself into... she should face the consequence.

Let go of her than spending the rest of your life with a marriage contract binding you and live with the shadow of the past that once you caught her cheating (impliedly) since she did not admit at all.

FYI: mas dali pa aminon ang guy ngcheat, ang girls? They will keep it a secret no matter what, hangtod mamatay sila di japon na sila mu tug-an. Magmata ra ka buntag ana.

[nick_m]

sakto kaAU ang advise ni ms.lejean

[jaypol81]

ok rana bro... kanang mga girls maau kaau nag mag ninja moves... hehe.. kung sa dota pana... cg lang ka g blind spot..
i bet basta mag away mo unya goOL kaau ang imong gf mag hagad na og tagay sa iyang crush..

bitaw bro ei explain lang nya og tarong.. prangkahi xa na murag maglisud nako og salig nimo... og ingna xa if gnahan ka mobalik akong pagsalig nmo... buhata ang tanan... kay soo far 30% na lang nahibilin sa akong trust 2 u...

(kung kaya rani nimo ha? its not a choice or a chance its ur last resort if tan-aw nimo dili na gyud ka makasalig)
sulti-i lang xa nah.. if dili naka ganahan nako pwede nata mag move-on to nxt level... can we stil b frens?
if kaya nimo bro.. kay 1st to 2nd week ok kaau imong pamati pero in a later part... mag cg naka og EMO...

[lord-lord-lord]

sa 7 years ninyo cgeg kuyog syaro wala pa ka kaila sa imong gf.. ug sa ngan nga nag flirt kuno cya, kung ako sa imong side, d na mawagtang ang rigor sa akong utok ana.. hehe..

[kahrosi]

aie pa ilad sa mga babaye part..ikaw ray g atik anah part..
grabeh naman pod..txt2x..laki pa gyud iyang ka txt nya crush pa gyud...butangi..

klaro kaayo kong wa ka part.mo sab sad ni pare part..likayi nlng part...

[Shreiah]

7 yrs o 3 months o 3 weeks lang, basta in love, same ra ghapon ang sakit.

Talk mo tarong TS. Pero since ng lie naman xa nimo, dili consistent iya mga storya, lisod na jd na isalig. TS, lisod au ang relasyong na daghan pagduda, na mglisod na ka salig kay gibotbotan naka. Pero as what i've said, talk mo tarong. Then ikaw na ang modecyd unsa.

Be ready na lng jd kung unsa imo madunggan kung unsa mn gani ang iya i-istorya. Nakatry nku ing ana.... I chose to let go kay mglisod nku hatag sa ako trust. She fooled me once, ug dili jd mawala sa ako mind na pwede na nya buhaton usab sa ako. Shame on me if she fool me twice.

And also, I know my worth. And I don't deserve to be treated like that.

Basta mao lng ang akoa TS, IF SOMEONE MAKES YOU MISERABLE MORE THAN THEY MAKE YOU HAPPY, IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM. YOU NEED TO LET THEM GO.

Goodluck na lng nimo TS.

You have a point. unsaon nalang ko nga mabdos, and i really love my husband so much but he is accusing me that im flirting...BUYAG!

I cant let him go.. Someday he will realize my worth..


for TS, wala ko matambag kay gailbog pd ko...sorry

[jeigz]

hahai uyab pa gani.unsA nlang kaha..if willing ka mag pa ka tanga you decide...

[tsinelas]

Paita doh.. ang pagsalig rab aang pinakalisud na bawion.. decide dyud ka bro.. talk it out and fix things or end it.. haiz kalisud sa kinabuhi..

[dannalynne]

have a serious talk with your gf nlng bro...mao jud lgi ni basta trust nay maguba lisud najud kaau bawion..;(

[cesski]

you're only hurting yourself by staying, migo. siya ang pagukda. if she really loves you, she will fight for you and make you feel that it's you that she wants and needs in her life. ang tanan tawo masayop jud, tawo ra gud ta. but like the saying goes, shame on her if she fools you once, shame on you if she fools you twice.