a question to all men..

[pink_mio]

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ok naka ts?
wala ka gilaay?
wala nka naguol?

[salbahis]

magmahay ba mo if makigbuwag mog babae?

the thing is, last year i became single because this man left me because of confusion xeang nadiscover nga nkabuntis xa years before naging kame..but he came back and i accepted him because dugay na gud mi plus the kid came out before naging kme so ok ra for me. now, the same month this year, nakigbuwag na jud xa kai nakakita xag lain. hahaha! sakit keu ai kai murag technically 6years nami unya nahitabo ang gnatawag nato nga "7-year itch" sa mga guys so mao toh..murag maypag waa nlan xa nibalik ug waa nlan nako xa gidawat kung mauhon..peo i just want to ask if a guy would regret losing a girl nga gidawat xa in all his aspects (positive and negative) because the girl loves him? will a guy regret losing that? mura man gud lipay xa xeang new girl oi...d man unta gwapa. lol

all men are not created equal some can just brush it off from their shoulder as if there's nothing happen... then some are just from start then at the end they'll have regret's in doing it... some men do regret some just dont care or they are very easy to move on...

i for some point reach to a regret period for my wife, "WTF i just married" ... but after a long sleep i remember hey im married this girl because i love her... ana ra... but really naabot jud ko sa point to result in legal option... hahahahahaha... sh!t happens all the time...

[LeeLeePot]

ok naka ts?
wala ka gilaay?
wala nka naguol?

gilaay ko oi kai 6years ko waa nabakante sakong lablayp..nanibago ko sakong "freedom" kai murag d xa freedom. lol! mao nagaseek kug opinion..tingalig makakuha kug clues about what he really feels right now. lol!

[dearlabe]

gilaay ko oi kai 6years ko waa nabakante sakong lablayp..nanibago ko sakong "freedom" kai murag d xa freedom. lol! mao nagaseek kug opinion..tingalig makakuha kug clues about what he really feels right now. lol!

Hello lee. I am glad to see you here again (or maybe ako ang not active dre) although i am sad about what just happened sa imong love life. I could not imagine the hurt of your 6-year relationship, I know it's painful all the more he left you for someone else. Lami kaayo ikaon ug taw noh?! Haaaaaaaay.

As to your question if magmahay ba ang laki if makigbuwag sa gf? I think not necesarily right away, especially in your case nga naa dayon sya gipuli. But in time, when he realizes that you were better off than her he would regret I suppose. Only, he feels this if he indeed isn't happy with the result of your break-up. But to me Lee, sakit pero frankly speaking it's better to let go of someone if happiness does not include you anymore in the picture. I relax lng usa imong heart sis, take as much lessons from the relationship and be ready for the next one. I wish you all the best.

[chik_08]

hmmmmm i think no, not until he gets his own medicine, getting dump too ...

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

bisan unsa pana kadugay sa relasyon kung ang lagay este ang guy wala gosto sa babaye, nahug lng nga companion...dli na magmahay oi, gawas pa nga naka benefits pud c lagay este c guy sa girl....lain2x man gud og pang lantaw, karun sa imong sitwasyun nga ingon ana, gibiyaan ka, tapos gibalikan, tapos gibiyaan, unsa mana, laban o bawe? 7 yers? taas2x na kaayu na, kay kana kono nga gitas-ona nga relasyun, mao nay ting-onos.....

[LeeLeePot]

^^^ gane...7-year-itch wtf!

[GuyOfYourDreams]

ikaw TS would you still accept somebody (nag court nimo) even if you knew na naa na siya anak sa lain girl or nakabuntis siya pero dili niya kaya pakaslan bec he does not truly love the girl or he cant see the girl as his wife.?

[LeeLeePot]

ikaw TS would you still accept somebody (nag court nimo) even if you knew na naa na siya anak sa lain girl or nakabuntis siya pero dili niya kaya pakaslan bec he does not truly love the girl or he cant see the girl as his wife.?

oo. wai paTuMPik2x... as lONG as sure jd xa nako.

[GuyOfYourDreams]

Hello lee. I am glad to see you here again (or maybe ako ang not active dre) although i am sad about what just happened sa imong love life. I could not imagine the hurt of your 6-year relationship, I know it's painful all the more he left you for someone else. Lami kaayo ikaon ug taw noh?! Haaaaaaaay.

As to your question if magmahay ba ang laki if makigbuwag sa gf? I think not necesarily right away, especially in your case nga naa dayon sya gipuli. But in time, when he realizes that you were better off than her he would regret I suppose. Only, he feels this if he indeed isn't happy with the result of your break-up. But to me Lee, sakit pero frankly speaking it's better to let go of someone if happiness does not include you anymore in the picture. I relax lng usa imong heart sis, take as much lessons from the relationship and be ready for the next one. I wish you all the best.

I got a gf before when i was in 3rd yr college. We've been for 1.5yr. We broke up because i was desperate to finish college already. I decided to let go of my pc games, my playstation, my barkada and every habit nako nga feel nako dili ko productive. My time for her? wala napud nako maatiman (given na graduating sad siya, busy pud). We didn't see each other for a month until i decided to let go but my what i really wanted that time is cool off lang sa. The truth is i just want to ask her if selfish bako if i want us off or maybe give time lang sa (but not break up). But then when i told her that she didn't want it. Ingon siya maypa magbreak na lang kung mag cool off cool off lang (I guess she didn't really mean it). She cried that moment until paghatod nako sa iya bhauz cge ra xa hilak and i have to hold her bec manaog sa escalator di magtan-aw kung mulabang di magtan-aw cge ra tabon sa iya nawng mao toh ako jud gihatod kai nabalaka sad ko..
After 2 yrs wa lang japon mi nagbalik (wala koi nauyab lain after namo, i guess siya pud bec we still chat wala man sad daw siya uyab, well ingon siya). But I guess wala jud,, kai anytime ko mutext ok ra man or even chat or even sa friendster wala mai manuko hahaha. She wanted us back but then my pride goes up, i wanted someone new even though deep inside i still want her. So after another yr nakauyab na siya then nakauyab na sad ko lain. I realized everything, i realized that she's real beautiful (physically) compared to whom im with now, she's real understanding compared to whom i have now, she's real intelligent compared to my gurl now, etc. Even though my gf now is kind to me and loves me so much and would give me almost everything she can but i realized that i should have been happier if im with ex-gf now.
And now im gonna be tied up with a girl that is a very opposite of what i wanted/dreamt of. I'm still confused and i regret.

Atleast this will you give idea what guys feels or go thorugh, though not all are the same.