If your boyfriend falls out of love...

[SUEper.braces]

thank you kaau for your advice ses, actually ni balik na jud iya communication nako and he always ask me if nana bakoy lain.. and mgparamdam xa na he wants to see me, murag napul.an naman sad gud ko sa agony ba mao to wala na jud ko nag paki nya kay naabot ko sa point na mura kog nalagot sa akong self ug nalagot nsad ko nia for hurting me so much na ako pay nag tinarong... but then now xa nay mu una ug txt, showing some motives and one time ngkakita mi ni iwas ko nia ngpa patay mali rako as if wala ko kita nia because i have this feeling na i dont want to see him, dn he txted me na ingun ani naba daw ko ka arte nya... there was also one time last week he even asked me where nako nga company ni work and wala jud ko mureply and its been 2mos naman sad gud nga nag antos ko sa pain ba, mao nga nka recover cguro kog hinay2 dn ayha napud xa paramdam balik.. and just the other day he asked me sad if musta na akong lovelife and if i still love him paba daw?.. whatta question ui! and he feel so sorry daw for hurting me...

i have this feeling now nga nahadlok ko, what am i gonna do?

hala TS, ayaw pa-da oi..if feel nimu naka-let go naka, gora na! don't get urself into trouble again. mu-bow jud ko nimu sa imung pag-likay2x niya when you two met.. uhm, u said 2mos na? and u haven't changed number? i guess ganahan paka niya TS. hihihi. i guess you just have to let urself grieve usa TS. tell him ur okay. and ur happy being single. it's a subtle way of telling him na wa pakay lain (if wa man galing kay lain) and the time you give to urself will tell him na ur still mending. the next time na ma-okay na mo (if ever u decide na i-accept siya balik) then he will make sure na di na jud ka niya mapasakitan. TC

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

ayaw kagool anang uyab2x TS oi, sakit2x lng na sa boot, jejeje...maypag frens2x nalang.....

[yudaz]

@TS move on...
make your self busy..
watch movies
strol2x..
dont intertain commncation with him...

yadz.. agib napud ai

[P-Chan]

bend and snap.. hahaha

[kishi_valora]

sis! beliv it or not.. pro naa jd nako ang solbad sa imong problema.. sa aqng sayko ha.. dli nmo xa lotoan noh? f ncase imo xang lotoan.. wla nmo xa lotoe sa aqng buwad nga gkan sa bantayan.. tsk3x!! maau nlng nka basa ko sa imong thread.. ma tambagan jd tka ug tarong.. pra ma nlove ug balik ang imong laki nmo.. luto.e xa sa aqng buwad nga baligya.. 2ngod sa kalami ani, cgurado mag pangita na xa nmo.. ug mo balik ug ka init ang nyong romansa.. 2ngod kay aphrodisiac ni aqng buwad.. Good luck..

Nag mamahal,
superidol a.k.a buwad vendor

idol na jud tka superidol... <3

[serendipity]

cge TS let's say na wa siya'y lain, and ganahan ra jud siyag time-out. i understand na this happens to men, almost all the time, but there has to be a reason why nain-ani siya. anyways TS, in-ani sab ko sa una, i want him to be completely honest with me kun naa na ba siya'y lain, or wa. apan when i knew about the other girl TS, na-wa jud tawn akong poise oi. di jud ma-da ang pain nga brought by the thought na gi-cheat ka, gi-make fool ka, kana bitaw clueless ka sa mga nahitabo. OMG. tas pag-commu2x pajud ghapon sa imu, TS this is the same thing that happened to me. and ur right, i gave him his space, then i tried to forget him and i tried to move on with my life. after mga 4weeks of no commu, he asked me if we can see each other. I just hope sa imung case TS if love pa nimu siya, and if you can still accept him, give him ra pud the chance to make up for his stupidity. you'll never know man gud TS if you wouldn't try. but this is just my opinion TS ha? if di naka, better, hihihi one lesson learned TS, love yourself above all things, BUT don't be self-absorbed. Be a coffee bean. I hope ma-ok ra ka eventually. and don't forget to pray pud. it helps a lot. pray for peace of mind, pray for your wellness, pray for wisdom TS. TC

hala TS, ayaw pa-da oi..if feel nimu naka-let go naka, gora na! don't get urself into trouble again. mu-bow jud ko nimu sa imung pag-likay2x niya when you two met.. uhm, u said 2mos na? and u haven't changed number? i guess ganahan paka niya TS. hihihi. i guess you just have to let urself grieve usa TS. tell him ur okay. and ur happy being single. it's a subtle way of telling him na wa pakay lain (if wa man galing kay lain) and the time you give to urself will tell him na ur still mending. the next time na ma-okay na mo (if ever u decide na i-accept siya balik) then he will make sure na di na jud ka niya mapasakitan. TC

actually ses walay proper closure nga nahitabo sa amoa before even cool off wala, mura lang xa nahug nga ni laylo usa ko nia and i gave him his space without proper closure.. nahulog xa ug kami pa na walay klaro but then as time goes by nga nka hinay2 ko gi absorb nako sa akong mind nga wala nami ky murag it no longer working, mao to ni hinay2 jud kog move on.. and pag monday he txted me and asked f kami paba ingun pud ko cguro dli na, he replied nga ako ra daw nag buot2 ug decide wala daw xa mkahibaw.. ingun pud ko what do u want me to expect? to cling to you na wala nkay klaro? ingun xa wala daw break up nga nahitabo... hayz ambot ses... govil okz jud! yes wla ko ng change ug # kay sayang akong sim 5yrs na nako gi use and ako lng ilesan bec of him, mao to wala nlang jud ko mutxt and nag likay2 nako nia pagkita namo, wla ko nanagad jud dn pwerti nia nka tawag nako, pa as if rakong wako kakita nia... pro agree ko sa imu opinion and i thank you for that.. unsaon man nako pgpa realize nya sa iyang pain gi hatag nako now that he told me wlay break up nahitabo namo... huhuhu

[yellowlye08]

move on. you only live once, why waste it on someone who will just make bitter..... chill! hehehe be happy be safe and take care always

[pink_mio]

-basin wala ka
nagpa kuan ts.
u know na.
boys,hmmmmp-

Kung muingun lang kalit imung boyfriend,
"ni dry nako nimo, wala paman koy lain uyab pero murag wala nakoy love nimo..."

Guys what are the techniques and tips to make him fall in love with you again?
Sa mga expert sa love2x share mog advice please.. thanks!

[regan4us]

hmmm pranka lang pag ka istorya huh walay word jd cgoro anang full out of love ang tinood jd cgoro ana kita na ug lain imong uyab para dili kaayo sakit pamenawn nimo or para dili cya kaayo ma guilty ang g.rason nlng niya kay na full out of love nlng palosot raman jd na eng.ana jd

[cishmie_angel]

TS,

ako nani xa na post sa lain na thread but na lubong na man xa nga thread.. dli na xa makit-an.. ako lang repost and share balik.. coz basin you would learn from it..

Reposted:
LOVE has many faces..

Self-love: This is the kind of love that involves accepting oneself, believing in and knowing oneself

Friendship Love: This type of love exists between friends who like one another, show commitment to one another, and share deep and intimate feelings with one another

Comfortable Love: This type of love also involves caring, showing concern and being available.

Romantic Love: Characterized by intimacy and passion

Infatuation: This type of relationship places premium on physical characteristics.

Complete Love: is any combination of the above mentioned (as many combination as you want to have on the above mentioned)

.. and it all depends on how you see your love to one another..

yes! every relationship will come to a plateau and will become sooooooo boring to be with one another.. what you do is to change on another face of LOVE.. meaning kapuy kaayo kung sige lang mo romantic love dibah? sometimes you try self love or even friendship love.. like mag date kuno mo nga dili mu uyab.. kanang date mo as friends or barkada.. no holding hands and no sweetums.. laag lang with friends and all..
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I admit that i did not have a perfect relationship with my ex bf.. but one thing I was proud of was that I had the courage to end it to preserve our FRIENDSHIP.. to the point that we had to plan when we will part ways (gi sabotan namo kanus-a mi mag buwag ---- on our second anniversary).. hahaha.. wierd? nah.. a bit simang.. but it was worth it..

we had planned it on JAN 2012 and anniversary was on MARCH.. so before the EXPIRY DATE came, we spent our last 3months together in many different ways.. and when we parted ways, it was difficult because we got used in being with each other's company.. almost 24/7 mi kuyog.. but all I was thinking was, "we had to give each other a chance to be happy --- maybe with someone else.".. I kept on telling myself that "if we were really meant for each other, then time and destiny will bring us back together"..

breaking-up does not mean you stop loving each other.. but giving enough space to make each one more happier..

and you know what guys, naa na siya uyab karon.. but at some point the bond between us would never break that we still look forward in seeing each other not as LOVERS... but as each others confidant, partner and soul mates (i don't know how he feels but that's how i feel)..

and he knows, that beyond word, how much I had loved him even if I decided to let him go..