Long Distance.

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constant communication is the only way...

[struggler]

trust& communication

[MalditohoN]

cam to cam... hahahha... joke bro.. well, mao nay gsulti nga grabe ang temptasyon pero if makasurvive mo then mao nay gsulti nga kamo gyd...

constant commu and likayi ang away ug selos2x

[lord-lord-lord]

I survived! hahahaha!

[sarge]

prone to infidelity ni nga sitwasyon

[mrvs19]

communication ra jd tawn importante, dpat open..

[g_girl143]

My first relationship (first boyfriend jud!) is a long distance one. Our courtship happened online and ako pag answer was through the phone. We kept our communication lines open, [COLOR=#0000CC !important]calling[/COLOR] each other 3 times a day, and constantly texting and updating each other either via phone or the internet. It was only after two months that we were in a relationship that we finally set eyes on each other.

After that, we met about once every two months, each visit well planned. After each visit (vice versa), we immediately plan the next one.

Statistically, if people are to be believed, long distance relationships have a slim chance of working. How much more kaha sa amu, na 7 years ang gap, and without any history whatsoever. He's a true blue Manileno fron Quezon City. I'm an Iliganon turned adopted daughter of Cebu.

Two years have passed and he's no longer my boyfriend. Because he is already my fiance

You see, when entering a long distance relationship, you have to [COLOR=#0000CC !important]meet[/COLOR] the following:

1. Constant communication - like I said, me and my soon to be hubby call and text constantly. We call every morning, lunch, and before going to bed. We tell each other what our day is like, we share problems, etc.

2. Time - you need to set aside time for your [COLOR=#0000CC !important]significant[/COLOR] other to keep the passion from dying away. It's best if you actually set a time

3. Maturity - you need to be mature enough to realize that LDR is not a game. It's not child's play. It's not even to be toyed with. LDR will drive you crazy if [COLOR=#0000CC !important]you're[/COLOR] unable to [COLOR=#0000CC !important]handle[/COLOR] the distance

4. Fidelity - I'm happy to say this is easy for both of us (don't ask why). To many other, especially kanang mga dali ra ayu matental, ayaw na lang mug sulod

5. Trust - this is hard for girls so trust your instincts gihapon.

6. Planned visits - you have to make sure na ma plan when mahuman ang inyo separation. You have to plan exactly when mo magkita and the activities you plan to do. This keeps you excited and believe me, every visit will be like the first.

7. Don't be swayed by cynics - When I first entered into this relationship, everyone told me it will never work. The same was true for my boyfriend. People tried to sway us from it, and look where we are now. So just stay strong.

8. Put God in your relationship - I need not elaborate In my case, we attend [COLOR=#0000CC !important]masses[/COLOR] together, and text Pc B W U during the exchange of Peace, then we talk about the sermon....it's just like we attended mass together

9. Plan activities - We used to follow the Big Bang Theory together (we've lost interest na). Back then, we play the series together at the same time, while we're both on the phone. Then we talk about it. It was our Monday Night Big Bang Night. it helps if you have little online dates like these.

So there you have it. Just a few pieces of advice from me.

Remember that distance means so little when someone means so much.

Long distance relationships only work if both of you work together and both of you believe the other is worth fighting for.

[harhar]

My first relationship (first boyfriend jud!) is a long distance one. Our courtship happened online and ako pag answer was through the phone. We kept our communication lines open, [COLOR=#0000CC !important]calling[/COLOR] each other 3 times a day, and constantly texting and updating each other either via phone or the internet. It was only after two months that we were in a relationship that we finally set eyes on each other.

After that, we met about once every two months, each visit well planned. After each visit (vice versa), we immediately plan the next one.

Statistically, if people are to be believed, long distance relationships have a slim chance of working. How much more kaha sa amu, na 7 years ang gap, and without any history whatsoever. He's a true blue Manileno fron Quezon City. I'm an Iliganon turned adopted daughter of Cebu.

Two years have passed and he's no longer my boyfriend. Because he is already my fiance

You see, when entering a long distance relationship, you have to [COLOR=#0000CC !important]meet[/COLOR] the following:

1. Constant communication - like I said, me and my soon to be hubby call and text constantly. We call every morning, lunch, and before going to bed. We tell each other what our day is like, we share problems, etc.

2. Time - you need to set aside time for your [COLOR=#0000CC !important]significant[/COLOR] other to keep the passion from dying away. It's best if you actually set a time

3. Maturity - you need to be mature enough to realize that LDR is not a game. It's not child's play. It's not even to be toyed with. LDR will drive you crazy if [COLOR=#0000CC !important]you're[/COLOR] unable to [COLOR=#0000CC !important]handle[/COLOR] the distance

4. Fidelity - I'm happy to say this is easy for both of us (don't ask why). To many other, especially kanang mga dali ra ayu matental, ayaw na lang mug sulod

5. Trust - this is hard for girls so trust your instincts gihapon.

6. Planned visits - you have to make sure na ma plan when mahuman ang inyo separation. You have to plan exactly when mo magkita and the activities you plan to do. This keeps you excited and believe me, every visit will be like the first.

7. Don't be swayed by cynics - When I first entered into this relationship, everyone told me it will never work. The same was true for my boyfriend. People tried to sway us from it, and look where we are now. So just stay strong.

8. Put God in your relationship - I need not elaborate In my case, we attend [COLOR=#0000CC !important]masses[/COLOR] together, and text Pc B W U during the exchange of Peace, then we talk about the sermon....it's just like we attended mass together

9. Plan activities - We used to follow the Big Bang Theory together (we've lost interest na). Back then, we play the series together at the same time, while we're both on the phone. Then we talk about it. It was our Monday Night Big Bang Night. it helps if you have little online dates like these.

So there you have it. Just a few pieces of advice from me.

Remember that distance means so little when someone means so much.

Long distance relationships only work if both of you work together and both of you believe the other is worth fighting for.

In short trust and honesty ra gyud na sa usat usa...

[kRizzY_aMAtZ]

.-> biLib akO sa mga taOng pumapasOk sa LDR

- yung kahit na nahihirapan at nasasaktan na siLa ng sObra, patuLOy pa rin siLang naghihintay at LumaLaban.
- yung kahit na may chOice siLa na iwan na yung taOng yun kasi nasa maLayO, di pa rin niLa magawa kasi mahaL niLa at mas masakit pag nawaLa yung taOng yun sa buhay niLa.
- yung napakaLaking bagay na para sa kaniLa ang makita Lang sa webcam, makausap sa fOn kahit sandaLi yung taOng mahaL niLa.
- yung kahit na may mas better pa sa taOng mahaL niLa na andyan Lang sa maLapit perO di pa rin niLang magawang ipagpaLit at LOkOhin ang taOng mahaL niLa.
- yung haLOs mabaLiw na siLa dahiL sa sObrang pagkamiss, iiyak Lang siLa tapOs LaLaban uLit.
- yung mga taOng handang maghintay kahit gaanO katagaL.
- yung mga taOng pinipiLit na ipagLaban yung reLasyOn sa kabiLa ng distansya.
- yung mga taOng pinipiLit maging matatag sa kabiLa ng hirap at sakit.
- yung natitiis niLa na kahit waLang physicaL cOntact, waLang yakap, waLang Lambing basta maLambing at caring na sa webcam at fOn, Ok na sa kaniLa.
- yung nagtitiwaLa pa rin siLa kahit hindi niLa nakikita at nakakasama at sa kabiLa ng mga intriga.

Hindi birO ang ganitOng reLasyoN. Yung mga taOng invOLve sa isang LDR, siLa yung mga taOng naniniwaLa na magwOwOrk sa kabiLa ng miLya-miLyang distansya.. BiLib akO sa mga taOng sumusugaL sa ganitOng reLasyOn...