marter girls......

[smictague]

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di naman cguro love ang tawag anang magpaka-martyr oy. . tanga lang jud cguro. . *murag ako* maski kibaw na nga di na maayo, hala padayon japon sa ge bati . . tsk

[mio]

Kuwang nig "S" ang thread title?

[i_am_fairy]

i was once a battered wife and it took me so long to leave the man
tungod lage kay di ko gusto broken ang family nga akong pilit gibuo.
but came a point nga gikapoy nako and realize im better off alone with my kid.
so when i finally get the courage to leave him, wa na jud ko nakig balik
bisan naghilak pa xa nangayog pasaylo.

[mrvs19]

nagtuo sad kog marter nakulangan basin smarter, upon reading his first post, martyr jd d i ang gpasabot..

anyway, martyrs ang girls mostly bcoz hatagan mn gd namu ug chance nga mausob pa ang guy, kay tungod imu man love, willing ka mo risk. pero kung dli na mag-usob sa batasan aw, mahurot mn sd ang pasensya namu mga babae.

[Meebo]

is it cause..

1.) women have this "i can fix/cure/heal this" kind of attitude
2.) that's what love is all about, clinging on to every inch of hope
3.) they are just big pervs and the dude has one big salami
4.) they just lurrrvveee the drama
5.) they will be affected by what society will label or see them as if they leave.

[CompTech]

Naulipon sa gugmang gi ahak...

[kageron]

di naman cguro love ang tawag anang magpaka-martyr oy. . tanga lang jud cguro. . *murag ako* maski kibaw na nga di na maayo, hala padayon japon sa ge bati . . tsk

so parang tangga lang?

[quirkychinita]

This is just my opinion. (please walalng basagan ng trip!)

A woman's Martyrdom is a sign of understanding and at the same time foolishness brought by L-O-V-E.

When girls were young, we grew up watching Disney's fairy tales, that one day that Knight in shining armor would save us from whatever troubles we are facing. May it be a witch, a wicked queen, your evil step family even from a blazing dragon...

We sleep while our parents would tell us stories about happy endings and we even dream about it...

And here comes the teenage world where we read pocket books about love and chivalry and coming back from an ex-boyfriend followed by more (unreal) happy endings... Ayg ingna namakak ko... oh yeah, not to mention, the kilig moments when you're reading that book and some parts of the story happens to you....

The real world happens to you and you experience getting dumped....multiple times and you don't really mind cuz ur thinking na naa pa bitaw lain muabot (Coz ur young and pretty and wanted by everyone)...

But then time passes and you realized that your standards about men has been getting more and more higher to the point that you stayed single for a veeery long time...

And here comes the person you've been waiting for.... You're telling yourself that he's the last person you'll ever love cuz he looks perfect inside and out, he plays the guitar, he has lots of friends, he can do anything he wants, he's a wild one....

And here comes your 2nd year... SHAKY.... He starts ditching you and ignores your calls and makes excuses....

3rd year... he forgets your first date, he gets irritated on your requests about not being late on your dates and to avoid getting too drunk to the point that you have to pick him up from the barangay hall in the morning.... He gets more and more irritated at you and he starts punching you and locking you in the closet when you threaten to leave and sometimes cut your finger... but then he says sorry and kisses you and hugs you afterwards... cuz he's afraid of losing you (DAW!)

right there is when you thought that he's just not in the mood or having a bad day... but it's no excuse to hurt you... you know that... but you still can't help but care about him cuz you think he'll change...

TUARA, naanad si LALAKE saimung pagka-buotan.... haaayzzzz..... Niabusar hinuon.

4rth year... the most excruciating and he never even asked you to marry him... EVER! he still hurts you but your picture together gives you hope... this is the point where you ask yourself if it's worth staying or leaving.... and then here comes the hardest part.... LEAVING....

But with the help of the people around you; you stand up and leave him the hard way.... a start of a new life... although it would hurt, but then it's a sign that you're winning the game......


Martyrdom is what gives ur lessons... what doesnt kill us makes us stronger.... Life is a continuum of pain... But there's lots of ways to look beyond the imperfections.... It's a lesson, learn from it!




Good vibes!!!

[thinkspace]

y is it dat most girls never leave their husband even beated by them...
Is it Love that stands in the way or marter lang jud?
Why?

tungod kay dili lalim mo biya sa kaminyoon... imong gipanumpa sa altar nga mag unong hangtud kamatayon hehehe
pro sa tinood. dili man gud ingon ana ka sayon. kung mo buwag ang asawa sa bana daghan ug pangutana sa iyang kaugalingon sama:
1) asa man ko adto?
2) unsaon naman lang among anak?
3) kalooy pud sa akong bana cya ra usa, makaya kaha niya?
ug uban pa....

[nakaigo]

abi nakog bag-ong version ni sa carton girls ang marter girls...
or kpop ba kaha?...