Having an affair to move on is ok or not?

[mitch_a888]

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she's liberated. let her be. she's responsible of her own actions.

[geo25]

She's not having an affair and she isn't destroying her life. She's only trying to move on. She's single, she can do whatever she wants. She's free to kiss or sleep around.

[adz]

pasagdie TS nangita ra na siya ug lingaw

[brackitz]

nah... biyae na ts, sagdi na sya.

pangita pud imung ka french kiss...

[Wynna]

outlet ra na niya TS.. comfort zone kung tawagon, naa ra pud na sa tawo kung magpagamit ra cya...but sa karong panahona, normal nalang nang mga inganang panghitabu-a..

[blu bizcuitz]

its not okay in my opinion...

[ace_ndahouse]

i have finally conclude she is what she is.. tsk tks tks

[quirkychinita]

Hmmmm....

@ace_ndahouse,

People have different coping strategies kung ma stress...

Maybe it so happens na ingana ka-wild, liberated and confident imu bestfriend.....

Now, this is what I noticed from SOME of my girl friends na liberated pud and naay uban na pinatago ang pagka bigaon: when a woman who just got hurt from a break-up goes clubbin' automatically as in 90%, they get there to flirt and test if they're still likeable after their most painful rejection.... Plus it's dark out there and BOOZE would be their common excuse nganung makabuhat silag something na dili maayo... (MY BOSS TOLD ME NA KUNG HUBOG KA, KABALO KA UNSAY GABUHATON NIMU, CONFIDENT RA GYUD KA AND WALA NAKAY PRENO PRENO...SO DILI KO MUTUO NA KUNG HUBOG KA, WALA KA KAHIBAW UNSA IMU NABUHAT THE NIGHT BEFORE. -----TAMA?).....




But wala ta kahibaw, nagsisisi na diay imu bestfriend.... so, maybe that's just one wrong move rapud. So chill.... accept it.... we can't dwell on something for too long kay nahitabo naman.....

But about the topic, focusing on the title if it's okay na having an affair to move on is okay ba?

I certainly do not agree to that....

because it once happened to me na gihimu kong panakip butas....

this was in summer on my 2nd year in college...

this guy would date me and woo me... we'd go to Taguanao (that's in c.d.o) on my motorcycle and just chill and he's say na na-enjoy pud siya samu tabi and kaun ang suroy....

he asked me to be his GF, I accepted.... But then I noticed na naay babae na gaadto sa iyahang balay and naay time na muhilak ang babae, ignore rapud ko kay I dont wanna be involved in whatever it was... I don't wanna make SAWSAW pud.....

Little do I know na mao diay tung iyang ex na naki-cool off niya....

I once asked him this atung ga-drive kog motor with him riding on the back....

Me: Babe, kinsa tung girl na gahilak saimu sala kagahapon?
Him: My ex...
Me: aw.....
Him: (silence, pero ma feel nako na uneasy na siya kay gapangurog na ang kamut)
Me: na-unsa ka?
Him: actually, I have to confess na cool-off rami nia.... And gusto ko nia balikan but naa naman ka saako so, wala ko nisugot...
Me: awww.... how sweet.. Erm, babe, pwede favor?
Him: yeah?
Me: Naug sa daw kay feeling nako flat ang ligid sa motor....
Him: (ninaug pud, tunga tunga sa dalan sa taguanao, na lasang raba dadto)
Me: *BROOOOOOOOOM*(full speed ahead, drove my way home leaving him in the middle of no-where)

I never saw him ever!


Tsk! I hate being treated as panakip butas!

but anyway, focusing back on the topic... It's not okay na wala pa ka-move on dayun mag affair affair lang dayun.... where's the passion

[thinkspace]

I had a girl bestfriend who is my ex also got brokeup with his bf.
One day she told me she had a party the day she arrive in cebu
and told me that she had done ONLY french kiss with a guy she just met
in the club.

What would you do in my part? What will you advice to your bestfriend that
having an affair with another guy is not an excuse to move on with your problem?

At the same time what would you GUYS feel about your ex & bestfriend having a simple french kiss with another guy?

Confuse.

Shall i let her do what she wants and destroy again her life because of a simple break-up?

Post some comments I'll read it tommorow...
Thanks in advance...

let her be TS she know what she's doing and for the record, having an affair to other guy make pretty good excuse to move on, though, not all women do this but im pretty sure men would it's the shortcut; i tell yah! hehe