
Originally Posted by
lejean
it's all about taking it one day at a time, falling in love with each other as if it was the first time you fall in love...lisud baya ne sa part sa lalaki how you will make a girl fall in love with you every single day... same sa 51st dates na movie... ana jud na style...
also, when you find the person who loves you unconditionally and will accept you who you are no matter what with all the weaknesses and stuff. jackpot.
one important ingredient to make every single day magkuyog mo as if it was your last day together...so di jud maboring.
para sa ako, kay naa mi sabot... we make sure dili mi mag-away... whether it's petty things or big ones. coz ma solve raman jud ang problem without arguing. kay once mag-argue, turn to nag, and saying nasty stuffs would lead to the other party get hurt then logic gets out from the system daun, mahimo na emotional outbursts.
ngano mao ne amo sabot? kay di mi ganahan makasakit mi sa usag-usa mao na gihatagan namo og value ang relationship...
kane jud esp for girls - be open for the possibilities na masangit na nyoha uyab or husband, na makig-*** sya og laen girl but this does not mean dili namo love nya, the fact na nibalik sya nimo meaning love ka nya ang kuyaw ni kuyog sya sa other girl kaw biyaan meaning na in love na sya ato bayhana. kay ang lalaki baya pwede makigsex sa girl bisan di nya love but ang girl makigsex gane og lalake naa jud emotion involve. ang lalaki mgpakalalaki, mahagit sila, ilaha ego, etc.
this is what i did to shield myself from getting hurt, ako na gi-ingnan sya pud na i don't mind at all basta storyahan lang ko, honest lang sya nako mao ra ako gipangayo. i see to it dko kana clingy, needy, possessive, obsessive na girl. hatagan nako og freedom sya to do whatever he wants and to reassure sa yaha kaugalingon unsa man gane yaha buhaton naa japon ko maminaw sa tanan.
another tip for girls, magkuyog mo yaw tawn og act like the jealous gf...esp if makalingi ang moha uyab kay naa sexy ni-agi indot og legs, gwapa, etc. normal ra tawn na.. it does not mean na they want to have *** with that girl na. Visual ra ba ne mga lalaki. What I did? Tan-aw sad ko apil, i-assess namo ang girl if gwapa ba, indot og legs, etc...ending? lay selos, nalingaw pa mi duha og evaluate.
Just my two cents, hope naay na-enlighten gamay hehehe.