What will you do if your relationship becomes this?

[i_am_fairy]

nakasabot jud ko sa imo TS kay i have been through it.
glad i made the choice - put an end to it and moved on.
you should do the same thing, TS. it will do good to both of you.

[mio]

Di pugson.

[Su-Hae]

buwagi na uy ayaw pugsa imong kaugalingon

[Queen Mojitos]

buwagi wui kay wa nay gusto nimo napugos ra na

eventhough it hurts, mas maayo na for your own self

[drew_ortega2k11]

better let go TS para di kas ug oras!!!

[shogunfreak]

cool off is just like saying BUWAG. why man cool off pa. whats the use.

better let go of each other...be friends na lng....

[kaspaguz]

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leave some love for youself

[kenniku_you]

Mao mani nahitabo nako oh, pastilan..
We agreed to break up nlng kay we know nga wala nami kapadulngan, and dili na mo work out..
Ako gipaningkamutan tawon ug ma tarong among relationship tibuok summer, na sayang lang kay nagbuwag ra diay mi..

Basta ako ra siya gi ingnan nga "wala ko mi give up nato, ni let go nlng ko nimo kay it seems nakit.an na nimo imong kalipay sa laing butang.."

[DizCyple]

Hmm... I think this is what happens when you don't treat each other as best friends. It doesn't mean kasi na lovers kayo, its all love and sweet and butterflies in your stomach sort-of-thing. The thing many people call as "the spark" is the emotion that makes you jump out of bed with heart shaped eyes and butterfly-filled stomach... Pretty much all those fantasies in relationships that people get the wrong notion about.

The problem is... What will you do when the spark is gone? If you can't deal with it, if you keep looking for this spark then what more when marriage comes?

you will surely feel

saying "I love you" feels empty.

texting her feels like a chore.

calling her feels like a bore,

hearing her feels like nagging

holding her hand feels so cold.

looking at her eyes you see nothing.

speaking to her you feel hatred.

Would you give up nalang right away without thought? Just because you feel that way?
Brain and heart must work hand-in-hand here...
Sometimes we don't get the option of simply calling it quits.

However, treating your partner as your bestest friend turns all these around, 180 degrees flat. The thing is, treating each other that way should be mutual also kay dili jud pede one way. Share kayo ng goals nyo, interests, likes, dislikes, opinions, problems. Both of you are two different individuals which means there will always be conflict in interests. It is alright to argue as long as masettle ninyu ang argument in a democratic sort of way. Learn to be open minded and accept what the other has to say, what he/she feels especially if about you. Give way to open criticism. By this I mean, give time for both of you to say things that he/she doesn't like about you and try to look for a solution on how to solve it or how to live with it. Kung naa mo crush or gigwapahan or gwapohan kai ishare dayun sa uyab. Dapat open minded kayo to accept and if ever, criticize sa iyang actions in joking sweet way. This helps build trust and comfort between you both man gud. If may problems ang isa, take it as a challenge to help solve or comfort the other. Give and take kasi ang main idea eh. Its also nice if you tell each other where are you guys going are what you'll be doing, at least your partner would know. If mudisagree siya, then try to comfort her/his worries nalang by assuring that she/he could trust you.

It's really how you handle the relationship that matters most and reflects on both of your personality as individuals.
Take your time, no need to rush...

When the sweetness is gone... friendship remains... and eventually it all comes back to being sweet again. Love-Cycle.

[adia]

Space. Distance. If it comes back it's worth keeping.