Is it normal that a girl wants to hang out alone without her boyfriend?

[crazy_monkey]

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ok ra na bro. ingona ana man sad ang mga laki sahay di bah?

[i_am_fairy]

dili na normal. hahahaha. sa ako lang, walay girl nga gusto mag inusara, its either kuyog na uban iya mga barkada, family or someone? hahaha

not true to everyone. kay ako mas comfortable ko nga magsuroy2 ako ra isa,
mosimba nga ako ra isa, magkaon nga ako ra isa..i guess loner lang jud ko..

[THE KID]

isip usa ka taw normal rana........

[salbahis]

ok ra basta kabalo lang sa limitation kay usahay raba mag patuyang sa gibati..

[cp103]

@ TS: to answer the question, nobody knows your gf more than you do... but let me add by saying...give her a reason to miss you. give her time to be by herself or her friends. by doing that, you are doing both you and the girl a very good favor. want to know why? let's just say you will be able to know how much she loves you after the time that you gave her to be alone is over. By then you will see for yourself. If she misses you during the time that she was alone by herself, then that's a good sign na she's hooked to you. but if not. well, let's just say that there are some girls nga not showy lang jud sa ilang feelings especially if bag.o pa ang relationship. but if dugay na, aw... lain na nah....

So if i were you TS, instead of thinking of all the reasons why she wants to be alone. wait for what is going to happen after you give her her time alone, and next time, if she ask her she wants to go out w/ friends w/o you, or she wants to be alone or something, be selfless, support her sa iyang endeavor. like they say, "kung asa ka malipay, suportaan tika"... it may sound naive, but in the end. you will be doing yourself a favor and find out how much the girl really loves you...

[serendipity]

sometimes a girl needs space from her bf and wants to spend time with her friends rather than to her bf.. normal rana and ayaw lang ipakita nya naguol ka or worried, just be confident, trust her and dont be too needy, mingawun ra unya na nimo..

[goldenboy88]

Sa ingun pa nila, "Love is also your ability bring the other person back to himself/herself". TS, i dunno if this still concerns you since Jan'12 pman nag start ang thread, but for also those who might stumble upon this, THERE IS such point in a relationship wherein the the boundary between YOU and YOUR PARTNER becomes vague. For example, unlike when you were single that you get to decide by your own preference and convenience, being in a relationship would entail sensitivity esp. towards your partner whether the decision would affect the relationship or not. So yeah, for some people, such delineation of boundaries would make them lose their spontaneity to decide on their own as well as hindering them to pursue what they really want. As a result, they start to miss 'being themselves', and that could even be very sad esp. when they can't express such need to their partners. For me, I should even be thankful if my partners asks me if she could have a time alone, because I would be helping her gain back those lost aspects of herself. And HOPEFULLY if she comes back, what could be more better than a lover who loves you and is comfortable expressing herself to you?

[zernike]

ok ra na basta d lang permi...kung permi na gane la na jud na bro......

[princize]

ok ra na basta d lang permi...kung permi na gane la na jud na bro......

mey point ni lol.. but for me, naay time nga ganahan ko ako rah isa kay lain sad kaayong ma-dependent na jud sa partner... Sometimes, when I want to go to church, go shopping or lakaw2x after work i want to be alone... Pero kung permi nsad ganeh, kana murag angay nana nimo susihon migo... hehe basin dili d-i xa alone anang panahuna LOL btaw confront her, if she needs space then give it, sinabtanay lang gud and sabot total its you're right to ask kay uyab manka, ma-worried pud ka hehe...

[iring_blue]

In a relationship, it's really important ang time inyo together kay usa nah makapa-strong sa relationship...but being apart from each other would also give us a chance to realize our being and status in life...meow....

"identity in the relationship" is also important..meow..

Kung nananghid u gf, let her be...(atleast nanghid..hehhehe)...

It's normal...