Where is he? ... we didnt even have a proper closure..... :(

[chik_08]

@TS - i know u both bya and ur bf, maybe nabuhat toh nya sa imu sa sobra nya na. love nimo.. or basin naa shad sya iya reasons why he did dat.. hope magka-reconcile mo and peace sa inyu relationship..

OMG! nganu naabut ka dri... if u happen to see him ping me atleast i'l know buhi pa xa... even akng pagka niwang kaau now g issue nya... but i did 8 for him, d ko nhan ma lusyang.... btaw oi... i hope he is okay wherever he is ryt now...u knew and witness us both when wer together... i hope i can hangout with u guys even if dli na kami... hehe

[Wynna]

this is exactly wats on my mind, but my heart is weak......iv been trying to keep myself busy.. but ang longing lisud e overcome.. im glad na iv shared my experience coz atleast naa koy ma read na motivations.. kay ryt now im alone with a bed, cellphone and laptop... haiz

As much as possible,heres what u can do...go out and confide to your close friends,keep yourself busy not just sa work but in any other ways,try dating out with guys ,travel , or rather try to focus on your studies if youve got plans on going back...syaro di ka kalimot nya

[granz]

forget that man oi. if a guy really loves you then he will not hurt you either in physical aspect or emotional. what is he's purpose to stalk you? it only means na wla syay trust sa imo. wlay ayo if ang relationship wlay trust ug unsaon nlng if mag minyo mo. dli na bya gd na ma uli ang bana sis

[spellbinder]

If that person rily loves you TS, he won't dare hurt you physically, that is so unmanly. It is such a disgrace for a man to do that, well most likely he is still a boy.

Move on TS, natural rana imo na feel but make sure you will be more rational next time. Be happy bcz that part of ur life is a good lesson for you to learn, making you a more mature person this time around hopefully....

[rAiNe_]

TS .. been there , done that

naka exp sad ko bun-ugon sauna ug BF pero wala jud mi naabot sa point nga ipapriso nako xa even though grabe nako ato ka battered, simply because love nako xa atong tyma and di nako makaya seeing him behind bars

atong tyma lisod lang to akoa kay xa gabinuang and he was beating me to help me realize he didn't love me anymore and that he found another one na. so what I did is, i thought about it several times, we broke up,I realized eventually he didn't care for me why? because he should not hurt me if he did so. I left him with a big heart because I was thinking I couldn't move on anymore.

now, Im so happy without him, my only consolation is, he could not say anything bad against me. I didn't do anything wrong when we were together man.

I remember my mama told me " Once A man hit you, mamun-og jud na ug di nanah mag usab" which is maoy naagian nako

sis, try to think several times, hunahunaa nga nabuhat niyag bun-og nimo sauna, ma bun-og ug mabun-og gihapon ka ana niya .. agwantaha TS, atleast nahibaw an nimo unsa siya sa wala pa jud mo nag minyo.
kasabot ko sakit kaau nimo, pero agwantaha, hunahunaa imong kaugalingon, kaloy-e imong kaugalingon..

gwapa kaau ka TS ayaw paabuta ma samaran na imong nawng niya..
makakita pakag labaw pa ana niya ..

TS there are lessons learned the hard way..
just brace it and be strong..

pray and always pray..
God Bless

[chik_08]

As much as possible,heres what u can do...go out and confide to your close friends,keep yourself busy not just sa work but in any other ways,try dating out with guys ,travel , or rather try to focus on your studies if youve got plans on going back...syaro di ka kalimot nya

my close frens already gone bec of him, il try to contact them too..dating, none.... studies, done...travel, cant kay work... maybe seminars/training or gym... right now my routine is, work, church, net and sleep... il try reading a good book or motivational books... but im so happy ryt now kay atleast naa mo....

[The_Watcher]

from my point of view, he is just playing with your emotins and psyche to really hook you up with him... what he is using here is the adage that goes, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." Do be careful TS, the next time he goes "Hulk" on you, you might end up in a body bag. The guy does not deserve you considering he has hit and hurt you many times already. Frankly speaking, open your eyes and don't be stupid. Focus on your life. Based on what you have stated, gihimo naka niyang martyr bisan wala pa mo ma kasal. How much more kung legally bound namo. unsaon na lang? pag amgo na tawon TS. i hope you do. it would be really sad to find out later what would happen to you kung mo pursue ka ani nga landas with him.

[chik_08]

TS .. been there , done that

naka exp sad ko bun-ugon sauna ug BF pero wala jud mi naabot sa point nga ipapriso nako xa even though grabe nako ato ka battered, simply because love nako xa atong tyma and di nako makaya seeing him behind bars

atong tyma lisod lang to akoa kay xa gabinuang and he was beating me to help me realize he didn't love me anymore and that he found another one na. so what I did is, i thought about it several times, we broke up,I realized eventually he didn't care for me why? because he should not hurt me if he did so. I left him with a big heart because I was thinking I couldn't move on anymore.

now, Im so happy without him, my only consolation is, he could not say anything bad against me. I didn't do anything wrong when we were together man.

I remember my mama told me " Once A man hit you, mamun-og jud na ug di nanah mag usab" which is maoy naagian nako

sis, try to think several times, hunahunaa nga nabuhat niyag bun-og nimo sauna, ma bun-og ug mabun-og gihapon ka ana niya .. agwantaha TS, atleast nahibaw an nimo unsa siya sa wala pa jud mo nag minyo.
kasabot ko sakit kaau nimo, pero agwantaha, hunahunaa imong kaugalingon, kaloy-e imong kaugalingon..

gwapa kaau ka TS ayaw paabuta ma samaran na imong nawng niya..
makakita pakag labaw pa ana niya ..

TS there are lessons learned the hard way..
just brace it and be strong..

pray and always pray..
God Bless

naa jud nay syndrome cguro ang battered chickens.... hehe or is it because when we love, we just love w/out using our mind....i know im in my healing process... il gain back my strength and stand up again w/ my head up high telling the world that i did survive...ON MY OWN...

[kat5252]

I think 1 hit from a guy is enough. Normal rasad na maconcern ka sa iyang pagka wala kay naa gud moy past and ala pajud closure...

[burikoy12]

Mora man ka'g naay battered wife syndrome, TS. You must have loved him that much to have stayed with him despite everything he did. Karon nawala na siya.

Now you have two choices:

1. Pine away, mourn and then hope for his return.
2. Pick up the pieces and move on.

In any case, you need help. Look no further than your home: your family. And then maybe you can reach to people who had the same experience as you had. You can exchange notes, seek support, etc. with them.

Personally, I don't think that guy was worth your breath. Beating one's mate repeatedly can never be justified. Move on na. The world awaits.