
Originally Posted by
Klave
Ok, thanks for the clarification, now that you have clarified, I agree in this situation you are the victim.
You do understand if you haven't had clarified your situation, anyone else might see it as how I saw it, right?
It is sad that the person whom you thought you could express your emotions to turns out to be a tattle tale.
Well, on a positive note, since it was an issue with you towards your bf, she acted like a catalyst so things can be resolved.
Right now, it is up to you how you can make this a positive or negative experience.
So maybe if you want things done at your own pace, you better leave out this friend of yours.
Also, it might be good if you can make the turnout good, so you can show off to your friend.
Your bf will give you a bit of leeway to explain since you are the girlfriend.
Find out what she exactly said, to find out if there are exaggerations, and you can use this against her.
Lastly, If you find out if her way of saying the issue is quite neutral,
you can say that she just wanted to do a soft nudge to get this issue resolved.
because sometimes friends don't do things to impress you, they do things that they think are best for you.