Ngano magsige man gyud istorya kinsa'y gwapo kinsa'y gwapa? I object!

[n`gel]

That's one thing about me baya pud, I'm a worrier. Sometimes I come to a mood where I worry about people or things etc. I guess this thread is just one of them. I dunno if somebodyelse might find some sense in my point though. Am really all smiles here @Beau.

[thisbe.ara]

nobody's saying nga insecure ka, ni. I am actually speaking in behalf of myself and the whole topic.

reservations? of course, that is expected in istorya.net oi (especially in this forum). i tell you what, kanang pag post ug gwapo ka or gwapa nga thread, ang daghang post ana katong daghan kaila. kay kung mo post ang isa nga gwapa ang isa, mobaws pud dyon ang isa, bitaw gwapa pud na cya.. it's more of pleasing the other, especially in general chitchat coz you want to make new friends. this is where you make friends. m not saying you agree with me. kay kung moingon pud ko nga sus, kabatig nawng atong springy (sus, sowee jud yadj ikaw jud nisud sa akong utok. heheheh), magka friends pa kaha mi? siguro, pero lahi ug level.
mao na nga daghan magka-amigo sa istorya.net kay they care enough to reserve and put behind their thoughts first. pero kung naa na level of acquaintance and trust, then the level of friendship goes high. that's my side of the coin.

[nab_uang]

OT:

@ thisbe.ra

ma'am sa saturn ka sauna no?....

[nab_uang]

OT:

@ thisbe.ra

ma'am sa saturn ka sauna no?....

@thisbe.ra

you inbox is full...

anyway... murag wala cguro kaila nako... kagrupo ko ni Mano sa una... ni-resign ko sa SATURN year200 pa... i saw you in yahoo mistah group...

[thisbe.ara]

OT@nab_uang. i see. okai. nice to see you here.

[n`gel]

nobody's saying nga insecure ka, ni. I am actually speaking in behalf of myself and the whole topic.

reservations? of course, that is expected in istorya.net oi (especially in this forum). i tell you what, kanang pag post ug gwapo ka or gwapa nga thread, ang daghang post ana katong daghan kaila. kay kung mo post ang isa nga gwapa ang isa, mobaws pud dyon ang isa, bitaw gwapa pud na cya.. it's more of pleasing the other, especially in general chitchat coz you want to make new friends. this is where you make friends. m not saying you agree with me. kay kung moingon pud ko nga sus, kabatig nawng atong springy (sus, sowee jud yadj ikaw jud nisud sa akong utok. heheheh), magka friends pa kaha mi? siguro, pero lahi ug level.
mao na nga daghan magka-amigo sa istorya.net kay they care enough to reserve and put behind their thoughts first. pero kung naa na level of acquaintance and trust, then the level of friendship goes high. that's my side of the coin.

I know this might sound too "istorya" but really i thought it was more than here. Mura lang proof ang istorya community ba. It's basically a common phenomenon in society.. that is if I ask to expand our horizon from here.

According to some studies attractive people earn more than the less attractive one with the same qualifications. Employers hire with emphasis on the "pleasing personality" requirement. Sa istorya pud, people seem to talk and regard gwapa/gwapo with more favor as well. Mura nahimo lang gamay nga venue para naku ba to express this stereotyping thing.

That's probably why I mentioned all this being discriminatory. I think deep inside me I kinda wanna fight for equality mao critique ko ug stereotyping and favoritism.

I know it sounds like a no-win fight kay naanad naman gud ta sa society gud. It's like fighting for "not saying prayers every morning sa schools diri sa US" because of that right to equality and choice and freedom. Very tiny tiny thing and often ridiculous na pero they got it done baya, perhaps like mine, it seems to me like kasagaran ninyo consider this plea ridiculous.

Pero I still have that activism deep inside me about society and lookism.

[jugs_06]

OT: tsk, gi basa jd nko tagsa2x ang mga post diri.. whew!

i guess everybody said it all.. nwei ang ako lang cguro masulti kay this WHOLE THING is reality.. it's part of society..

let's not talk about just istorya though but in our society as well.. let's face it, kamo tanan diri, naa jd moy pre-conceived idea or standard kung unsa para ninyo ang gwapo or gwapa, right? like what @n`gel mentioned, we're talking about what's CONVENTIONAL here.. unsa man ang CONVENTIONAL gwapo/gwapa?

kinsay mu ingon gwapo si palito, isa tiil..

mao na dha..

[ronna]

there is descrimination in a sense that only gwapa and gwapo are posted..

whenever those istoryans (that are uhmmm let's say di jud tantong gwapa) might browse that thread..

uhmmmm considered what they might feel?

put yourself on their shoes..

bisag unsaon pa ninyog ingon na wala rana, kay lage kalingaw lang.. etc.. etc..

bisag unsaon ninyog bali-bali naa jud point na makasakit tag taw labi na tong depressant na

gipakataw, kay nganong di xa ing ana etc.. mag self pity dayon chuva!

faet.. gapataka nalang kog yawyaw..

and Ms beau the comparison between juices and RH is almost there..

but juices dont have feelings, do they? ma depress sad diay na sila kay dili sila ang gi prefer tagayon? jewk.

[Streetcar]

I think you all should drop this topic. You're falling into crab mentality mode of thinking. And the point is? there is really no issue. You are making a mountain out of nothing. I am starting to get irritated. Stop it.

[n`gel]

I think you all should drop this topic. You're falling into crab mentality mode of thinking. And the point is? there is really no issue. You are making a mountain out of nothing. I am starting to get irritated. Stop it.

Now, that is just not right @Streetcar for you to accuse people of crab mentality... and you're irritated? Why? Makairita diay kung naay mga taw moingon nga "dili ko uyon sa stereotyping attractiveness" and great emphasis ana sa sociodad?

@mai: Don't mean this to be personal mai ha, discussion lang. I hope you won't hold any grudge against me.