my workmate's preggy problem :D

[naxi85]

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mao sad diay ky bata pa man kau. kining guy kay dependent pa pd sa iya family.
ingna lang ng fren nimo TS nga di na mgdahom atong lakiha. siya na lng padako sa baby.

[d`monyita]

VERY WELL SAID, J.Abz! As a rejoinder to J.Abz's post and the other previous posts..... pagka naman..... DNA test? Magkano yon aber? That money should be spent on the kid na lang. Pwede ka habol basta NIPIRMA sya sa birth certificate....kaso... KAHIT PA SA PAO ka..... magastos pa rin ang court case.... so... again... that money is better spent on the child na lang.

Eh nga... wala pa naman nanganak so do not talk about habol2x ek2 watevahhhh... I am a single mom so listen to me. hehehehehe

FIRST OF ALL.... go to a doctor and START the prenatal care. If she cannot afford to go to a regular doc... there are MATERNITY PACKAGES available. While it is still early.... go with her to different hospitals and ask what their program is... how much... go to the room...etc etc etc. I chose the Cebu Doc package because I believe that it was the best at that time (nine years ago) kasi INDIVIDUAL "rooming" ang sa maternity ward. Yun bang meron walls in-between the beds hehe. Hopefully it is early enough for her to enroll kasi THEY DON'T accept anymore those who are I think 4 months and above.

SECONDLY ---- do not let him sign! That way wala sya say whatsoever sa life nila ng kid. If she has a good job then let her bring up the kid herself. How does her family feel about her pregnancy? She should surround herself with positive people... a good support system.

Remember, Meebo's friend, that even if what you did was not right in the eyes of God, He is still there for you and the little one. Hang in there. Be strong. That is easier said than done but just the same... IT HAS BEEN DONE. If we were able to do it... SO CAN YOU.

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[quantuminplus]

akong masulti ani no..... kalami paputlan ug kinatawo anang hinampak...... karon pako kasulti ug bad words ngari..... tingKag akong dunggan..... wa sya kahibaw unsay possible nga mahitabo sa ilang gbuhat? labi na ang family ana..... ka hilas ra nila.... mura man sad sila og nakaila sa Girl gyud..... judgmental..... matapobre.... kalami pang pakugun..... sorry guys... nadala lang ko..... protective man gud ko basta bae.. labi na daghan ko igsoon na bae, and i won't do that to any girl..... and to TS.... ingna imo friend sakto ni ila gipangsulti ni dmonyita, Jabz.... ang iyang masandigan karon kay ikaw ug iya family..... pasagdahi ng laki.... go on with her life.... give the best to her child.... mas bilib ko sa single parents, nya ilang naipadako ug tarung ila anak....

[chelop]

pasagdi nalang tong laki..gabaan ra to siya..hasta iyang family..pagkaluoy sa bata..

[spike412]

ambot na lang gyud aning mga irresponsible na laki nagkadaghan samot..pati pud mga bae ron nagkadaghan ng magbuhat aning fubu fubu. tungod uso daghan na kaayo mga unwanted pregnancy.

ont: ts, ingna na lang na imong friend na ayaw na lang pagexpect kay i'm sure dili gyud na mutabang ang amahan ana sa bata. magsave na lang sya og money sa pagpanganak niya and take care of the child.

[aldrin89]

IRRESPONSIBLE!!! dili pa mature ang guy.

[Meebo]

salamat sa mga tubag mga higala.. akong amiga nagkatawa nga naka sabot sa inyong mga gipang pulong.. hopefully maka sabot jud ni xa.. wala pa ra ba ni xa naka kuha ug package para sa iyang pagkabuntis wa man sad ni xa buot oi. naa ra ni xa sa akong tapad karon btw. hahahaha!

[Wynna]

may nalang akong bf ga pills so di najud ko mabuntis! hahaha

bitaw, couldn't agree more with Jabz, sakto jud!... You have all the right to ask for child support from him though,however it's his prerogative to either decline or accept your demand since in the eye of the law he would and will never be held liable for any "irresponsible" acts that you might sue against him unless you get married..

just let him be and let it be...
naa naman jud nang bata, so just focus on that, focus on how you could raise your own child, without the help of these irresponsible as$holes! (and that includes his family)....

and bull$h!ts like him, doesn't deserve to be called a father

(by the way, I'm writing this in the second person since you've mentioned naa ra imong friend sa imong tapad hehe)

[madcutter]

DNA paternity test = PHP14,800.00... mao ba ni? ahah

kung mao ni mahal2 jud.. whehehe

[brian joshua]

to summarize post number 2 to page 3

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