Girls, Does a guy's sexual past matter to you?

[upsidedown]

First off. I Assume that everybody on this site is Mature enough to know what to say in this thread.

What i mean by sexual past is how far he has gone in bed with his EX when they were still together.

All those things like where is mouth or his hands has been, his virginity etc........

Does it matter to you girls? Also what if he regrets doin it?

[lloyddy1]

woah..........

[joyce_mj21]

It does, bisan unsa pa pag reason that it was part of the past, mu matter japon for me.though his past was kind of different, kay iya ex nag initiate duna mahitabo nila after breakup as something for her to keep and para di na magsamok? For me that part was still unreasonable

[Akiokee]

kung mao ni ang gi ask for sure daghan mu share ani..

''Guys, Does a girl's sexual past matter to you?''


@TS - If happy ka sa imo ka relationship, di nana jud mu matter kay kung imo pana sige hunahunaon about sa past sa imong love kaw rajud maboang ana. kay wala man ka ato na TIME, choose to be happy not ungkit.ungkiton pa ang nakaraan para muguba sa usa ka happy na relasyun..

[missingyouso]

of course! kung di na ka virgin, d tka ma-accept! NEVER!

[fieldygabs]

hehe grabiha... btaw, mas mu matter sa guys ang past sa girl more than the other way around...

[i_am_fairy]

hehe grabiha... btaw, mas mu matter sa guys ang past sa girl more than the other way around...

agree jud ko ani..
@TS: for me it matters, but then, that shouldn't be enough to judge you as a person.

[lejean]

Does a guy's sexual past matter to you? For me, it does not matter at all. Kay I always believe in destiny, and everything happens for a reason. If la to niya na meet yaha ex or kato mga girls niya nakasex before di jud mo abot sa punto na mg-abot mi. Every girl that he met before lead him closer to me.

Why would I dwell on the past? When I am his present, when he is with me, we are both happy. Love is unconditional. If mo ingon ka na i love him because he is this and that, it means if he is not this and that, you will not love him after all. You truly love the person, when in spite of whatever his past and present is, you accept him as a person, in his entirety, the whole package. Walang labis, walang kulang.

BUT there is something I have learned na, guys can have *** with a girl without even investing on emotion or loving her. They can forget about it and move on. But when a girl is having *** with a guy, whether we like it or not, mura jud naay nakuha, mura the guy brought something with him when he is going to leave.

Bottom line, just because the guy is having *** with girls a lot of them in the past, or has been doing nasty stuffs of which one could not even dare to imagine does not mean he is less of a man. Nagpakalalake ra sya, exploring his horizon, discovering new things.

Ang importante ang karon, the guy is with the girl, he is brutally honest about his past la sya gitago, and about regretting his past (di naman na mo matter), what matters is he shared everything and has been open about it. At least, aware ang girl and dire pud ma test unsa ka open-minded or pagkashallow-minded sa babaye.

[azaleayve]

Does it really matter to you TS?

I agree on lejean's statement and i quote:

guys can have *** with a girl without even investing on emotion or loving her. They can forget about it and move on. But when a girl is having *** with a guy, whether we like it or not, mura jud naay nakuha, mura the guy brought something with him when he is going to leave.

It's not about the preservations of someone's virginity that matters, it's about loving the person unconditionally.No but's no if's

[upsidedown]

Does a guy's sexual past matter to you? For me, it does not matter at all. Kay I always believe in destiny, and everything happens for a reason. If la to niya na meet yaha ex or kato mga girls niya nakasex before di jud mo abot sa punto na mg-abot mi. Every girl that he met before lead him closer to me.

Why would I dwell on the past? When I am his present, when he is with me, we are both happy. Love is unconditional. If mo ingon ka na i love him because he is this and that, it means if he is not this and that, you will not love him after all. You truly love the person, when in spite of whatever his past and present is, you accept him as a person, in his entirety, the whole package. Walang labis, walang kulang.

BUT there is something I have learned na, guys can have *** with a girl without even investing on emotion or loving her. They can forget about it and move on. But when a girl is having *** with a guy, whether we like it or not, mura jud naay nakuha, mura the guy brought something with him when he is going to leave.

Bottom line, just because the guy is having *** with girls a lot of them in the past, or has been doing nasty stuffs of which one could not even dare to imagine does not mean he is less of a man. Nagpakalalake ra sya, exploring his horizon, discovering new things.

Ang importante ang karon, the guy is with the girl, he is brutally honest about his past la sya gitago, and about regretting his past (di naman na mo matter), what matters is he shared everything and has been open about it. At least, aware ang girl and dire pud ma test unsa ka open-minded or pagkashallow-minded sa babaye.

I'm really moved by your answer. :O
I asked my girlfriend. What if i've slept with other girls before we met?. Her answer is, "I would end this relationship". Ako jud gi pugngan ug maayo nga na lain ko sa iyang answer and im still a virgin now. My girlfriend has slept with a guy and i've found out all the things they've done in bed, and i never ended the relationship and i chose to forget about it and still accept her. But knowing that she would not accept me if i had a past like her's makes me wonder.

Does she love me?