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[bingearl]

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nakasulay na pud ko ge ingnan ko sa akong bana nga dli na xia happy sa akoa, i am not a perfect wife but God knows how much i tried para ma save ang marriage, willing nako tunlon tanan sakit ug pagyatak sa akong katungod as a wife kay lage dli ko gusto magbulag mi kay love kaayo nako siya ug usa pa sad sagrado ang kaminyoon pero wa jud ni work amo marriage that happened 4 yrs ago, now i have moved on already..i hope ma settle ninyo inyo problema sir.godbless![/QUOTE]


nice one thanks

[Klave]

murag mag lisod ko maadto sa singapore kay mas gipili niya didto over my life......

Like you said LISUD gyud siya, ang iyang gipangita nimo kay magpaKALISUD ba ka para niya.
Sometimes women have unreasonable demands, aside from what we think is important, they have their own terms as well.
Mao gyud sulti sa akong uyab pirmi, Kung dili daghan rason or palusot, pero kung ganahan mangita gyud og paagi.

So sulayi lang gyud maski lisud, pangita-i og paagi, your kids will not die if you leave them for a few days.
It might even be good for them. Maybe she just wants to be spoiled a bit, she understands it can only be a few days.
And she will happily go back to your "routine" lives after that. Pero for now, she doesn't see a reason why you still love her.
She probably thinks that she is just a burden right now. That is why you have to make her feel important.

Ayaw kalimti ang Flowers...

[voldemort]

Maybe she's on a mid-life crisis TS. Maayo pa imo i-surprise siya didto sa SG, talk to her in person and settle everything once and for all. Ask her kung unsa gyud ang problema and i-discuss ninyo if it can still be fixed or not. (Ang problema man gud ani nila (some women, not all ha) gahi kaayo mo-sulti kung unsa gyud ang problema ngano nasuko or nahiubos sila. Unsa kaha ila pagtuo nato mga lalaki, mind-reader?) Unya if maka-decide mo nga wala na gyuy paingnan inyo marriage, then face the reality. I know it's easier said than done but the sooner mo mag-talk, the sooner mo maka-move on. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Good luck TS.

[bingearl]

[QUOTE=voldemort;12712556]Maybe she's on a mid-life crisis TS. Maayo pa imo i-surprise siya didto sa SG, talk to her in person and settle everything once and for all. Ask her kung unsa gyud ang problema and i-discuss ninyo if it can still be fixed or not. (Ang problema man gud ani nila (some women, not all ha) gahi kaayo mo-sulti kung unsa gyud ang problema ngano nasuko or nahiubos sila. Unsa kaha ila pagtuo nato mga lalaki, mind-reader?) Unya if maka-decide mo nga wala na gyuy paingnan inyo marriage, then face the reality. I know it's easier said than done but the sooner mo mag-talk, the sooner mo maka-move on. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Good luck TS.

thanks nice pudni nga idea but ako gyod na gihunahuna if feasible ba mogasto og adto... karon enrollment sa mga bata daghan paliton buttry nako

[bingearl]

Like you said LISUD gyud siya, ang iyang gipangita nimo kay magpaKALISUD ba ka para niya.
Sometimes women have unreasonable demands, aside from what we think is important, they have their own terms as well.
Mao gyud sulti sa akong uyab pirmi, Kung dili daghan rason or palusot, pero kung ganahan mangita gyud og paagi.

So sulayi lang gyud maski lisud, pangita-i og paagi, your kids will not die if you leave them for a few days.
It might even be good for them. Maybe she just wants to be spoiled a bit, she understands it can only be a few days.
And she will happily go back to your "routine" lives after that. Pero for now, she doesn't see a reason why you still love her.
She probably thinks that she is just a burden right now. That is why you have to make her feel important.

Ayaw kalimti ang Flowers...

i will try bro

[mico1984]

spice up your relationship ts.. do something new.. have a vacation.. enjoy each other like katong bag.o pamo uyab.. im sure your wife misis those times na pampered kaau nimo xa and all..

[bingearl]

spice up your relationship ts.. do something new.. have a vacation.. enjoy each other like katong bag.o pamo uyab.. im sure your wife misis those times na pampered kaau nimo xa and all..

ako na buhaton sir but i hope maka realize siya nga future na sa mga bata ang priority karon but kona buhaton even if naay ma sacrifice

[James2002]

your best was not enough...para nako boss sayon ra kaayo na but it needs time...

1. talk to her first unsa gyud ang real probs nya diha nimo?
2. need gyud ug talk every night like musta naka?unsa nahitabo nimo karon?or unsa probs ug kalipay kada adlaw.
3. do it wholeheartedly
4. stretch your patience to unlimited/no boudaries. as much as possible.
5. be a good husband to her like molambing ka, mo kiss ka every day before and after ka molakaw
6. i know based anang imong istorya for sure wala na siyay trust nimo.
7. ipa feel nimo nya nga love nimo siya.

hopefully maka tabang ning akong suggestions...

garbage in and garbage out lang boss for sure dili tanan nimo gibasa diri bisan maayo pa dili applicable sa imong situation...

akong nalimtan please PRAY ALWAYS...

paapas lang since naa man d i siya sa layo...try to contact her every now and then din ayaw ug sulti nga uli na diri......basta constant call lang nya din ask her musta na?unsa may ayo sa SG?unsa iyang routine?kana lang sa as of the moment until imong makuha ug balik iyang trust nimo...

hinay2x lang gyud bro yaw pagdali para sure ang padulngan...

[The_Watcher]

this is just a long shot bro but you might want to give it a try.... here goes...

be with her... don't force her to tell what the problem is. do not even mention it. instead, just enjoy the time with her. treat her like you don't know her, like your first date with her. spend a week with her where you will just enjoy all you can. no serious talking, no arguing. don't tell her that you love her, SHOW her! treat her as if she is not a mother of two and make love to her like crazy. do not ask questions, just listen to her. do not interrupt her. eat lots of chocolate with her and go enjoy amusement park rides. do not give up on her yet. just wait and wait.. hopefully, before the week ends, she will open up to you and you both will be able to figure it out for the better. God bless!

[naxi85]

TS, basin gnahan lng imo wife makaginhawa gamay. basin naa lang tingali xa ganahan buhaton or e-explore sa iyang life...wla ba kaha xa ngmahay nga naminyo ug sayo?