How honest are you with your partner?

[laDy89]

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one man woman!

[baby_jenie]

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[Knight Crawler]

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[jugs_06]

i've always had TRUST issues with my gf's.. it's because i NEVER cheat and i'm always HONEST and that's the truth.. if i talk to a girl, i let my gf know.. if she says i'm not allowed to talk to a girl, I DO IT.. if she says dump my current girl bestfriend and leave her alone, i do it.. that's why when i also tell her to do things my way, i expect her to do it also.. if she doesn't like it, she would let me know..

once that TRUST is broken, it's broken.. it's hard to earn that TRUST back..

[cool_operator]

once that TRUST is broken, it's broken.. it's hard to earn that TRUST back..

you're right but i guess, when your gf said "dump your girl bestfriend" and you did it.. do you think she trusted you? do you thing she respected you? if she really trusts you then there's no insecurities or jealous she'd feel.... if you trust your partner, you're free from doubts and insecurities and there's no need to ask permission if you cud talk to another girl or not.... but i guess your girlfriend is too possessive. sorry, but that's what i see..... peace!!!

[jugs_06]

do you think she trusted you? do you thing she respected you? if she really trusts you then there's no insecurities or jealous she'd feel...

you earn that respect, bro..

if you trust your partner, you're free from doubts and insecurities and there's no need to ask permission if you cud talk to another girl or not....

let's say for example, you caught your wife having *** with another man, you think you would still trust her the second time around? maybe you would, but it's hard to gain that trust again.. maybe you could, but for a very long time i bet..

[mikaela20]

i've always had TRUST issues with my gf's.. it's because i NEVER cheat and i'm always HONEST and that's the truth.. if i talk to a girl, i let my gf know.. if she says i'm not allowed to talk to a girl, I DO IT.. if she says dump my current girl bestfriend and leave her alone, i do it.. that's why when i also tell her to do things my way, i expect her to do it also.. if she doesn't like it, she would let me know..

once that TRUST is broken, it's broken.. it's hard to earn that TRUST back..

she is very lucky!

[cool_operator]

you earn that respect, bro..

let's say for example, you caught your wife having *** with another man, you think you would still trust her the second time around? maybe you would, but it's hard to gain that trust again.. maybe you could, but for a very long time i bet..

i guess, before we propose to our partner we already knew her well. for me, if I find my girl as a hippie or permissive on the early stage of our relationship, i'd definitely dump her. she's not the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life. ok back to your post, you said if i caught my girl having *** with another man, would i still trust her?

seems like, you've done really crazy things that she seemed not to trust you...
ngano, nasakpan na diay ka bro mao wala na siya salig nimo, ultimo makig-storya lang ka sa imo girl bestfriend bawal na? mura'g nahug naman ka ana'g itoy-itoy sa gugma bro!! tanan iya gusto imo gibuhat... yes trust should be invested in a relationship, but it also has its limitation..... but not to the extent that if your girl doesn't like the girl you talked with, you should dump your friends for this and that.....

you're right, once you withdraw your trust, it's really really hard to give it back.....

[jugs_06]

^^well, that's your way of doing it, mine's different.. we all have a different approach when dealing with certain relationships, you agree?

the statements i had were just examples of setting up a standard on how i would wanna see things in a relationship.. it's my way of saying, "if you want me to do things your way, do things my way too.." it's kinda like a give and take analogy, bro..

this is not a matter of doing crazy things for her to NOT trust you anymore.. people can change.. you trust me now? you might not trust me later.. you get what i mean?

you're right with your last statement..

[hayLey]

super honest.. i can not afford to cheat or even lie to him.. T_T
but i dont have a bf now so.. hehehe exempted siguro ko hehehe