
Originally Posted by
Streetcar
I disagree that physical looks is the holding power in a relationship. It helps but to tell you honestly in the long run, you go beyond superficial physical qualities and look for those inner qualities. Attitude has more of a staying power than physical. Look at celebrities. They are the most beautiful, popular, sexiest people who marries. Few months down the road. Divorce. Another example. When a person dies, what really makes you remember about a person is that person's character and how that person made a difference to the lives of others. Kanang physical mo fade na when you get older. When you reach 40s your hormones will do weird things on your body and what you had when you were in your 20s is not going to be the same when you are in your 40s. When you are truly deeply in love, you bypass the physical and you love the person for what she or he is and even love his fat belly too!