LOVE PROBLEMS ( post em all here ) READ FIRST POST...

[monrose29]

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i received this txt from my sister,

Fnd sum1 hu wnts 2 kiss u evryday, hu lift & hug y wen ur jealous, hu patiently kip silent wen ur mad, hu fix ur hair jst 2 c ur face,
& d 1 hu wants 2 hve lunch w/u w/his family..d 1 hu shares his drnks w/u...hu squiz ur hand 2gedr wen u squiz his & d 1 hu cut
just 2 hve a date w/u. find sum1 hu plans & imagine his future w/u 40yrs from now
& wen u fnd him....NEVER LET GO...

u know what? i find this all in him....that's y i dont want to let go...

noy noah, kato ganing sinulog?....i was very mad...i cried pero he was there and he just hug me in the middle of all those people
despite ako siyang gi-away...i dont want to lose someone who loves me like that...

hehehehe blame it on GLOBE, daghan jud na bwesit atong adlawa hahahaha...

ayaw kag0-ol inday, kay andam ko og tagana para nmo.... hehehehe

[monrose29]

Para sa tanan newbies og na-ay problema sa gugma og relationship pls. adto lang e post tanan sa love problem, palihug lang, i hope kasabot mo og bisaya..


daghan salamat.....

[InChaos]

in continuation sa ako story a few pages back. tell me HOW TO BREAK UP WITH HER.... its not because i dont love her anymore, i really do love her soo much. its just the fact na wa ko kahibaw ug unsay rason ngano wa pa sya buwag sa iya father sa iya baby is driving me crazy na.

[Streetcar]

in continuation sa ako story a few pages back. tell me HOW TO BREAK UP WITH HER.... its not because i dont love her anymore, i really do love her soo much. its just the fact na wa ko kahibaw ug unsay rason ngano wa pa sya buwag sa iya father sa iya baby is driving me crazy na.

InChaos, i feel for your problem. What a torture. Just stop seeing her and communicating with her and you have to have that resolve. Be strong. If she can't make up her mind what to do about her situation, its probably because she is way too confident that its okay with you and that you are still there for her regardless. Its about time you set the rules. Find someone else who knows what they're doing in life.
Someone more deserving of your love.

[InChaos]

yeah, but how to tell her? waht to tell her? kay i dont really have the right words to say....

[diem]

in continuation sa ako story a few pages back. tell me HOW TO BREAK UP WITH HER.... its not because i dont love her anymore, i really do love her soo much. its just the fact na wa ko kahibaw ug unsay rason ngano wa pa sya buwag sa iya father sa iya baby is driving me crazy na.

@InChaos, sigh, sigh~! I just had a change of opinion about you dude.

Anyway, here's a suggestion that might just work.

Since you really want to know and not knowing is driving you to insanity, please ask her the reason why she wouldn't cut ties to the father of her baby.

Please ask her again and again, and again and again.

Please ask her persistently, continously until it becomes almost an obsessive focal point of your every meeting.

Then you wouldn't have to worry about saying the right words that wouldn't hurt her feelings when you break up with her because if you sincerely, seriously do what I am suggesting you to do (which if you forgot, is to ask her the reason why she hasn't cut ties with the the father of her baby again, again, again, again and again and again)...

...Eventually she'll break up with you

And what then InChaos? When you break up with her, wouldn't that make the atmosphere at work a bit awkward? Are you planning to resign or are you hatching a plot for her (a young, single mother) to quit her job?

Here's a thought that I like to leave you, a friend of mine shared it with me once and I think its apt for your situation.

TRUE LOVE DOESN'T ASK QUESTIONS, IT DOESN'T MAKE DEMANDS. IT PROVIDES ITS OWN ANSWERS, IT HAS AN UNENDING SUPPLY.

[r0mm3L]

Mao nay gitawag namu ug tactics day. The more ka maglibog the more ka dali ma invade. dali raka pa sugton niya kung manguyab na siya.

correct! tactics rana sya, dont fall for this. kasagaran sa mga laki nga mo gamit ani nga tactics are ******es

i hope sincere guys mo gamit ani nga tactic bcoz they deserve a woman's love , wekkekee

[Streetcar]

yeah, but how to tell her? waht to tell her? kay i dont really have the right words to say....

Know what InChaos, its a tough act to follow. I hate to be the one to tell you what to tell her because first, i dont know the nature of your conversations, I dont know her. You are the only one who knows her. I can just give you a general advice but as far as what to tell her, that's your role coming from your heart Perhaps give it one more time and really have an honest to goodness talk with her and I mean seriously. Then, perhaps let her feel that you are almost at the end of your rope and if you are not seeing any clear signals from her, then there's nothing wrong with telling her it might be the end for the both of you. There, you have set some rules. The rest of what to say, you know better good luck

[InChaos]

@diem : sorry bay about how your view changed towards me. your right bay, honestly i was planing to not attend work today, maybe tomorrow too, or maybe until im needed sa office... but what your have said, is just something that i dont wanna happen jud. why man ko nakahunahuna about this thing is because yesterday man gud at work i just felt a sudden change in atmosphere around her. i mean wa naman sya ninglambing as usual. i try to help her with things ingon sya na ok ra sya she can do it. i nid to hold her hand so she will hold mine too, basta its very not so everyday like us. when she was about to leave i asked her na if she had problems with me and she said no.i said na if naa ka problema nako sultihi lang ko kay concern ko nmo ug ngano ka ron. she went silent. after awhile she left the office without even giving a hug or a kiss....

[diem]

@InChaos, bro daming factors basta babae.. your lady is going through a lot.. and maybe one of them is her 'monthly' thing, if you get my meaning.

As per my 2nd post to you concerning about this, please give her space, time and support. Please give yourself the same things. You don't need to dock up your relationship just yet~ let it cruise for a while, sometimes it comes to quiet seas and dead calms~ just enjoy the view. Rocking the boat right now isn't a wise idea.