Do you think I'm a bad Mother for my kids?

[epoaxlan]

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TS, I am a mother, lisod jud financially ang pag raise ug kids, but they won't mind if wala kay kwarta or naa as long as makagakos cla nimo during the night in their sleep, maka hug cla nimo whenever they are heartbroken..your kids are still very young 13 and 9 years old, weak pa kau na cla emotionally, they can easily forget about you if ma brainwash na sa side sa imong hubby..

I want to make comment lng sa post ni butong101 ha, this is not a personal attack, just want to make u realize unsay diffenrence sa case nimo ug sa case ni butong101 sa iyang mama..

sa case ni butong101, dagko na cla naka experience ug crisis, so probably naka develop na clag deep bond with the mother..sa imohang case TS, lahi kay your kids are still very young, kinahanglan kau ka nila emotionally. when man diay ka mag start unya nang tiguwang na cla kong when late na kau? what if gi brain wash clag hinay-hinay sa side sa imong bana and ma realize nila nga tinoud ila gipang sulti, so alkanse naka daan ana..they might grow up hating you..

[Blackjellybean27]

TS, the very reason why my daughters are with my financially capable in laws is because they can provide what I can't. I know they don't need the money more than they need my care and love. But I know how much it hurts when they ask for things I can't give. They deserve all the finer things in life. Ilaha man na, why would i be selfish and not wish them to experience luxury dba?

[crazy_monkey]

not totally your fault. kung magkita pa ghpn mo nila ok ra mn guro. dapat unta constant commu jud if possible.

[kharldroid]

a mother knows best!

[maui1976]

i beg to disagree.

my relative stand as mother and father to his baby. he even sacrifice his job for the sake of his child. his mom offered to do the things but declined it.

btw, his wife passed away after giving birth. the child now is 2yo.

tagsa na kaayo ni..but i salute fathers like this..

[Fri13th]

okay rana sis, basta ayaw lang jud putla imong communication with them.

[pinkpumpkin]

Kasabot kaau ko nimo TS. Ok ra kaau na imong gibuhat.. although imo sad gikuha sa ilaha ang experience unta sa naay inahan..pero para sa ilahang future ra sad na. Just make sure nga you are doing this for them, not for yourself.