
Originally Posted by
Klave
I think napressure ra nimo og maayo ang lalaki.
Unya duha ra padulngan ana, ma-passive ang laki or mubuto.
Maayo unta to og mubuto kay at least kibaw ka nga na pressured na siya.
Sa imong case, nag-passive siya, unya gikapoy ka, imong gibuwagan.
Sakto to gitambag ni Friday13th, kay kung dili kaayo strong-willed ang laki, mabuak gyud.
Imagine, siya maoy nilarga, so mingaw, plus pakapin pa gyud og pressure.
So mao ta nahitabo niya. Naa ra gyud nimo tanan ron, kung imo ba siya dawaton og balik.
One more finding, you really do sound like you are not thirty.
The one thing I find mature about you, is how quickly you were able to let go of your guy.
You weren't able to perceive how the guy is feeling being away from you and the baby.
You weren't able to perceive his insecurity towards you and your parents.
Maskina tingali you find it fine for whatever status he is in, but you should have at least supported him emotionally.
So more of being able to support your partner emotionally ang point ani nga issue.
Imo ba ron siyang sultian og explainan nganong dili siya angay mauwaw muadto sa inyo.
Imo ra man siyang tubayan nga mauwaw siya, imo gyud siya i-encourage og tarong.
Bali imo gyud unta siya gitrain nga magkuyog-kuyog sa imong family.