When Enough is ENOUGH

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

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ok raman na mo LOVE pero... ayaw lang sad ipakita sa iyaha tanan.. na u cant live without him.... kay mag salig rana....

Bitaw sis, ka daghan na ko ni decide but nadala ko sa iyang promises, kay love lage. but karon dli na makaya.
I have to learn to love myself there wouldnt be anyone but me in the end.

[Klave]

I know its not moral to live together before marriage, but for me i refer living first before marriage
to know your partner and VV. He has been courting me for a year and 2 months, he was the man
i thought he was. What if we got married first and all these things happened after the marriage, cguro
maghilak nlang ko forever regretting the decisions i made especially if wala na jud way para mo work
out and marriage. But thats just my OPV.

But Im glad i did lived with him first. Im glad i was hurt, sounds crazy but somehow im glad things
happened. Lisod jud kaayo pag move on, but i know i can. Time heals. Time has the antidote, i believe.

I don't really care about morals.
I just make sure that everything I do won't bother anyone.

And your reasons goes with how Westerns thinks about cohabiting.
I myself just find the concept too tight, I mean where is the damn privacy.
If you are not settling down, then why put yourself in a tight situation right?
Well, that is how I think of it. And you have your ways too and I totally respect that.
So I was basically expressing myself with how I think about cohabiting personally.

Next is...unsa ng VV? Wala ko kasabot.

Otherwise, I really applaud you for how you handled yourself.
Time will surely heal. Magmahay tong lakiha, that's for sure.

[yandz]

just move on nalang miga. that's the way of life goes. 'coz people change/things changed. If ihatag man gud nimu tanan nuh mawala ang thrill sa relationship. So don't give it your all. Leave something for yourself pud. Be with someone who deserves your best.Someday there's someone who will love you the way you did..

[yufa333]

ahhh batia ani na love story oi.... kahilakon man ko...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

I was gone for quite a while but upon reading your story I feel like I had to say something.


Ok. First I commend you for I can sense that you are willing to save yourself out of this darn relationship. Not all people can do that, how brave. Second, sorry to say but your guy (ex) is just not that into you. Third, I believe you made the right decision. Love is just not enough to make a relationship work. It takes 2 people to work it out and when everything appears to be a total mess and the other one is turning his/her back, I'd bet there's no choice to make but to let go and move forward.

Crying is fine, you can cry all you can. You might have given him too much or it's just plain simple, you left nothing for yourself. That's why it appeared like he's grown his face thick enough to get rid of you just like that. A friend of mine once told me, pain doesn't go away but it gets easier to live with. Hey, life's too beautiful to spoil it over someone who doesn't even care how you live it. And you yourself know, you deserve a better treatment, a better guy. And I could agree, it's a blessing in disguise that you're not married yet. He has shown you a side of him you less deserved. It's worth losing someone who's not worth it at all. And yes, time heals most wounds, just give it time, one day you will just smile when you think you've gone through this and you've survived. You will survive. You gotta survive.

Sounds old you may say but letting go is easy when holding on hurts too much and when there's no one to hold on to. Give yourself a better choice, do the thing he cannot do anymore and this time do it gracefully- take care of yourself.

Cheers for a better life my friend! Don't waste your summer! stay hot!

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

Thank you guys.. I have to move on the easy way or the hard way.. Its just so sad that it had to end but i will have to think about it positively. I wish i have someone to talk to but unfortunately my sister, we just dont get along well, and my friends have their own families na.. Im glad to be a member of this site jud kay i can share alot of things especially in tis matter.

Oh btw, vv =vice versa. ... Sorry po hehe

[precious grace]

gOod jOb TS.. u did a very good dEcision! thAt gUy dont deserve to be loved by you.. LEt kArma strikes him..
enjoy bEing singLe TS!

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

Iv already confronted him this morning but he was just listening. I asked him whats wrong if theres someone else na he said wala. So i told him that i have thoughtabout this whole damn thing and iv come up with a decision and i asked for his side too. I told him v had enough of his lies and him ignoring me so im leaving. Hejust said ok and that i can do anythingi want. sakit butim still glad cuz it gave me additional strength to leave.

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

gOod jOb TS.. u did a very good dEcision! thAt gUy dont deserve to be loved by you.. LEt kArma strikes him..
enjoy bEing singLe TS!

Thank you sis.. I believe in karma. I hope he does too.. Lol

[Tristan25]

Basig wala nagyud say spark haha