I found out that my husband was cheating

[hans josefina]

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coz men are visual... they attracted with the looks... cguro na tempt... just focus nlng sa imong kids..

[jeremiahjay]

TS: the way I understand when you said these, "in my 40's, I just cared less" and "niabot ba mo sa feeling nga wa na mo nag care kung nag cheat ba sya or wala"; that this is not the first time or there were already rumors bout it even long ago, sakto ba ko?

Anyway, TS mao ra gyud ni, just don't blame yourself for anything "finding out where you went wrong sort of thing", because He has a choice. All of us have.

Maybe it still best to talk to him about it because truth will find a way, whether now or later it still the same truth.

[istong]

ayaw lang biyae ts if:
wala nausab ang iyang tagad nimo and to your kids...

[gian_101]

if you want to save your marriage TS and naa pa love then fight for it.
kaw na sa imong avatar TS? hottie man diay ka, what was your hubby thinking?

[xavisimao]

may asim pa si malou...

[yvonne6]

its sad that there are people who would think that the woman/wife may have lacked something somewhere that's why the man/husband was philandering. and its normal for the cheating person to tell others that his/her partner is insufficient at some parts of the relationship that's why they cheated. wala man juy tarung na taw ang mo angkon nga biga raning ako or, i just enjoy the feeling nga gitagaan kog ingon ani nga attention sa laing taw. ang blinded nga taw tungod sa gugma ug sa biga walay piliong edad. its sad that others do not see the impact when a husband or a wife cheats, you are not only cheating on your partner but to your kids and even to yourself. talagsa ra ang pagbinuang sa usa ka asawa/bana ang dili mo involve ug kuarta. a younger woman will not tell you that i am only after your money, same as a man who is sleeping with a married woman, not to mention the "free" gratification nga ilang makuha. para nako ts, you have to talk to your husband. ang imong silence may be misinterpreted as, "she does not care at all". you have all the right to confront him. ikaw ang asawa. you have all the reason to fight for the father of your children. im not saying, this is what u needed to do. its just my personal opinion. there are things worth fighting for and one of that is family. dont give the kabit the pride to claim nga siya ang winner because maski asa tanawon pilde jud siya