How do you control jealousy?

[jeszeiahsmom]

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i think its normal nmn..nsa s inyo un if pano nyo ihandle un mga fights nyo..dpt @ d end of d day pgusapan nyo agad un probs..kc lalo lng yan mgi2ng worst..un selos nmn ok lng nmn yan bsta wag lng un exag den dpt wlang skitan..pra maiwasan un selos dpt wag ka mkinig s mga chismis..hehe..wag mo bgyan ng mga negative un mga gnagawa nya..hope this will help..hehe

[Monmyhand]

if ma control pa ni, wala unta ni sa dictionary

[joylove]

silence ra ko then later on find ways to solve the issue...

[i_am_nikita]

normal ra mn na mgselos
mohilum ra mn ko pro depende ky naay usahay kusug noon mgpaselos hahaha palaguton ka
- tubagon dayun, aw adto nlng nya hahahaha

[nakedheartlady]

TS wala man daotan if u really love ur gf but take note basin kanang imo sobra nga love niya maoy reason nga mawala xa nimo.. too much love will kill you... loosen up TS ayaw pagpadala sa imo emotions... kay basin in the end ikaw ra pod ang magmahay.. dont be insecure TS if u know that ur gf loves u then i guess there's no reason para ma insecure ka and sa LDR nga situation TRUST is very important... sa imo gibuhat TS basin hinoon mawala ang tao nimo... i guess u need to fix something about ur insecurities... i hope makatabang ni nimo TS... chill lang..

[marckyboi]

normal raman na sa relationship. ayaw lang pud palabi.

[Monmyhand]

It took me years to learn how to control jealousy.

Jealousy arises because of many factors, one most toxic is Insecurity. The feeling that your lover is being too friendly, often seemingly "inviting", especially if she is in an environment full of males. It starts with a little doubt, and like acid, it burns through the system, and when you confront her with it, it simply ignites a bigger conflagration.

Over time I realized how much of herself she gave to me, her body, her soul, her heart, her time, resources even, and Insecurities tend to hide those, and present itself, therefore breeding ill contempt. How unfair and insulting would that be to the very essence of LOVE.

I realized this: if I really love her, as I honestly do, I should hold her in HIGH ESTEEM AND RESPECT. I would even ADORE her like a goddess. That is my love for her. Love however is fragile and needs to be nurtured, but there are so many negative thoughts that the siege is endless.

It takes strong resolve really to learn this. Now, I feel I am a better man for my love, and I really hope that she sees and feels it. Jealousies are like rust.. it corrodes and eventually weakens the structure of Love over time.

Mai... I love you so much. I am sorry for the heartaches I have caused you due to my jealousies. Please be the goddess that you are to me.

[zero_cool]

Haha until now I'm not sure if I handle it well, lisod man gyud ang inahak hehe...I learn to stalk to a guy and wanting to beat him badly haha...it's really hard to control emotions living at that present feeling...one good thing is that I don't drink over it haha samot ka sakit, selos pa, hurot pa kwarta...

[Kricket]

Jealousy starts with a J.

Junk it............

but, yes, so easy to say, pero lisod buhaton, samot na if love gyud kaayo nimo ang usa.

[Simsimi]

hello? you can't control jealousy kaya? it's always there when you feel love.. just learn to control it and feel secure..