A defined person knows the things he/she hates and likes. He/she has a clear distinction and definition of those things that are responded accordingly by his/her actions. However, there are instances that those defined things come across between its respective distinctions, thus, creating a chaotic chemistry of mixed emotions. When this happens, people act differently towards this situation. Some acts on defense mechanism; others on passive aggression... but whichever way we deal with it depends upon the level of our comfort zone... But on the worst case, only one thing is for sure... it is certainly very chaotic and troublesome when love and hate collide.