if your child was lesbian or gay

[joylove]

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e xoxo nlng nko..guide sa sakto.

[quirkychinita]

For MOST ladies, they easily accept the fact if dli straight ilahang mga kids. For men, not that much... wa;a nako gi-generalize kay there are some of the few who differ from majority. But if you ask me, I will accept if my daughter is a lesbian or my son is gay. For as long as they arent doing anything legal, Im cool with that. Kay kung pug don man gud nimu sila to be somebody who they aren't magrebelde na sila.

[lostatlast]

Love and support. Speaking from experience and having studied on gender, I want to clear a few things up for my sake and others like me. I just want to share what I know.

You can't turn your children straight. Homosexuality is innate and a result of both nature and nurture. People can't control whether mahimo sila ug tomboy or bayot, or mahimo ug babae or laki. Wala kay mahimo except to support them, because the first thing they'll need is your love when they finally tell you. You can guide your child to be conservative, traditional, masculine, or feminine as you want, but that won't completely diminish the possibility of them becoming a tomboy or bayot. Gay children are born from conventional mother-father families, single parents, gay parents, and even without parents.

As for those with religious arguments, all I can say is that if God is truly loving, he didn't send us here so you could ridicule, discriminate, and hurt us. Don't ever let your personal opinions get in the way of completely loving and accepting your child for something he or she cannot control. It's not their fault, it's not your fault.