the UN-TORPE society

[Isteb]

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@limunsito
well you could have just laughed the whole thing off. imo untang gi ingnan "hahaha.... luoya gud nimo." change topic dayon.

the sad thing here bro is, uncomfortable na man ang babae since kahibaw man siya nga naibog ka niya. every move you make from here on out comes off as threatening. so how do you do fix that? convey active disinterest. as i have mentioned, active disinterst means ACTIVELY showing that you are disinterested in her, writing you off as a potential threat. kanang magstambay2 ka sa kilid unya di managad niya is PASSIVE disinterest. Active disinterest goes something like "di gyud ta pwede magkauyab, we have too much in common."

but the better solution is to completely forget her. start seeing others, pang diskarte na oud sa uban. kalimti tong bayhana. but mean it. dili kay "ah mudiskarte kos laing babae para maibog siya nako". that's not gonna happen. don't try to be a relationship repairman. focus your time in building new relationships, instead. and learn from your previous mistakes.

devoting too much time to this "one special girl" is a downward spiral. i cannot stress enough how destructive to one's self this pattern is. once you find yourself on the "one special girl" path, get out. remember, you're not acquainted with the girl on a deep, personal level yet. don't fall in love with her prior to that. give yourself a little more value. know that you deserve only the best, so when you talk to a girl you are interested in, you should not hit on her. investigate first whether or not she is good enough for you. don't turn the girl into a goddess. you'll only hurt yourself that way.

bay perhaps i can explain it to you better in full detail thru e-mail, but you must promise me not to share with anyone the stuff i will share with you.

that's it for now. god bless you all.

love,
isteb

[limunsito]

lamat ayu bro! heheh tawa nlng ko ani... sa imu ingn na ACTIVE disinterest ako nna gihinay2 ug buhat ako nlng na cya singhagan ug kalit gud na " HOY MANA KA SA LAB? PAKOPYA BEH" hehe nagsugod nasd ko pngita lain ron naa mn sd diay dghan sa TC karn rko kbntay...

cge bro share me the full detail and trust me i wont share it to anyone...

cge cge lamatz!

[Isteb]

just pm me ur e-mail bro.

[Uzumaki Naruto]

Isteb: are you reading David DeAngelo's books man? just asking.

coz I read them. lots of helpful and life saving tips!

[Isteb]

@naruto

it's quite good, so i hear.

the tip of the iceberg.

[Uzumaki Naruto]

real good man, real good

[Isteb]

one comment about his book:

he's just barely scratching the surface. he knows a lot more than he's letting us on. he may be the leading seller of the whole cocky funny idea, but Zan is the undisputed champion, hands down. check it out.

[kyuusai]

up for this thread! bumped!

[Labrador2]

up

[markmej]

Haha! So this is were the playaaas are!

Im gonna share a bit of myself. I'm still 21 and I got into this game about a year ago. Now I'm not saying that I'm good but I improved myself from where I was before which was very perfect chode!haha I read some books which some of it were mentioned in there and some very interesting videos of some of the experts in these field and it gave me a new perspective. I'm in the part of my game where I'm still starting and slowly unfolding the secrets within. I had some good and bad FRs ( field reports) where some of it shattered some of my reality and limiting beliefs. And I think theres a lot more to come than meets the eye!hahahah

I'd love to meet you guys, learn from each other and get this part of our lives handled. If we help each other out there will be no room for failure coz as they say 2 heads are better than 1. Now lets go out there and SARGE!!!

If you guys want to learn more about this stuff I'd love to help you out with some of the materials out there and share some of my thoughts.

And by the way Isteb, I love some of the materials of ZAn and to be a natural I think is the end game.