HOTSEAT S2 INTERROGATION Thread

[R_sQuArEd]

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Well this is my first time to ask here so better make most out of it kay basin mao na ni last...hehehe

For the both of you monrose29 & ryeaka...

1. How many realtionships have you had in the past?
2. Has a boyfriend/girlfriend done something to you in a relationship that you haven't been able to forgive?
3. Have you cheated on a partner before?
4. What is your worst experience in your current relationship?
5.Did you ever have moments of doubt in your current relationship?

Enlighten me...

[halon1301]

One quick, simple, out of the blue Q for both of you .......

Sir Monrose: How did you do it? ...... like make Ma'am Ryeaka go so madly crazy in love with you.

Ma'am Ryeaka: What is it in Sir Monrose that sets him apart from the rest of the guys? Why?

[ryeaka]

workmode pa si bossing, so ako answer una ani tanan karon

@kentoy0224


1. I hate literature so please bear with my answer. I had to consult Mr. Google for this hahaha.

I'm not sure if I correctly understood their story but I could say we are like Bonnie and Clyde. Many times over our relationship has been rocked with pressure, tormented with rumors, and judged unruefully by people who barely even know neither of us. We felt as if we were criminals in prison that we have to act accordingly for us to be given a parole. Unknown to others, we have already endured trials that we are confident most couples wouldn't be able to endure. We have overcome obstacles that even we ourselves could not believe we were able to.

Just like Bonnie and Clyde, we are against all odds. It's like him and me against the world.

2. This question is really heartbreaking. Why? It is because we were only given a month to spend time with each other. Nevertheless, that one month was spent wisely. We knew then that we only have little time so neither of us would let each day pass without seeing each other. We took advantage of the time given to know more of each other, discuss our plans for the future and show each other what we are capable of doing to match our needs. Not a single minute was spent to waste. Every second of those days are cherished even until now.

3. We think differently, that's a fact. His ideas doesn't match mine. (Sorry bossing ha mosulti lang ko sa tinuod gamay hehehe). He has this tendency especially when he's mad, to never hear or refuse to listen to what I say. He's the type who loves to explain things. Especially when he think that I'm doubting his alibis. Me, on the other hand, is not good in explanation lol. And he gets frustrated with it. So ang ending? Mag-away mi lol.

One good thing about us is, one is always willing to give in and compromise. Although most of it, I'm the one who'll remain calm and all. But there are times nga mejo masakitan nasad jud and di nako motingog. Another frustration in his part because he's in Singapore and he can't do anything to pacify things. But he always make sure to let me know he loves me and never meant anything that he said or do. He will never give up on what we have. In the end, love and longing for each other's what keeping us together.

4. I see it as "TRUE LOVE." True love rarely exist but when it does, regardless of all the hurts, betrayals and dishonesties both of you are willing to accept each other and give unlimited chances because you know that life without having the other would mean nothing. Love sees through the impossible. That's what makes it sweet.

5.

[hyori]

→ Which weighs more? 125 pounds of cement or 60 kilograms of feathers

→ What is the strangest dream you've ever had?

→ Have you ever been extremely "intimate" with someone in a public place?

→ What is the most embarrassing thing you've ever done?

→ If you could make anyone in the room your servant for the day, who would it be and what would you make them do?

[ryeaka]

@dropdeadgorgeous: mwah! labyu hihihihi


1. I am very particular about this. Being honest with anything that he did, do, and will do is something I always expect my partner would do if he truly means what he says and if he truly wanna keep me.

TRUTH or LIE, both hurts. What is more painful though is when you find out that after all, you believed in his lies. The feeling of betrayal is much more painful than being presented with the truth upfront.

I stumbled upon this quote in facebook, "Lies don't end relationships. Usually the truth does." Yes, it is true, because eventually the truth will come out. And it will be harder to forgive your partner and whatever good he's done for you and your relationship will not matter anymore because you trusted him yet he only cared about himself.

To those who think that lying is better than telling the truth:

The truth can save a life. Ending your relationship with someone because of the truth is better than having to regret it for the rest of your life.


2. Unique thing? Hmmmmmmm..... First, that would be how loved has blossomed when everything just started out with stalking each other's profiles. Started out from a thread (2009) but what paved way to our meeting was the thread angel_brey created, "Worst Experiences in your Love Life."

We sometimes refer to what we have as a whirlwind relationship because everything happened so fast. We never expected things to end up this way.

Second, that would be one's ability to love unconditionally which paved way to the third ang last reason, the ability of one to forgive and forget the other's faults. It's something that we both know we can never find from someone else again if ever we part ways. We always consider each other a "rare find."


3. Longest break-up? Hmmmmm.... Nagbalik na diay ta boss? lolz

Two-three days... I really can't remember... Grabeng kahumok nako ug ilong gud... Dali ra kaayo ko ani niya mailad... nyahahahaha eace:


4. Weeeeeee.... this is the funny part hahaha... Sorry again boss, mosulti lang ko sa tinuod gamay...

Contrary to other LDRs, instead of me who's left here in Pinas and can't hardly even go out even when the sun's still up, he's the one who's always jealous on a lot of things.

I consider it funny because he has all the chances/opportunities to cheat while I'm here stuck in Iligan, where all I ever do is stay in the house, taking care of my kids and going online. But never did I suspected him of anything. Yes, I do tell him not to look at other girls or talk to other girls in there (Singapore) but I don't restrict him from doing what he'd like to do or going anywhere he's wanna go. All I asked from his is to be responsible for his actions and know his limitations. Then he has all those privileges, sya na nuon ang sigeg selos sa akong online activities lol

Sorry bossing

[ryeaka]

@nakaigo

hmmmmm.... it took me a while to fathom the meaning of the song...

Here's another quote I read in facebook: "If the pain of letting go is lesser than the pain of holding on, then it's best to let go."

No matter how much you love the person, when you feel that everything's falling apart and no matter what you do can never save your relationship, then let go and save something for yourself....

I believe that letting go doesn't mean you don't love the person anymore but rather you love him that much that you're giving him a chance to grow up on his own for him to become a better person.

As what I always say, he doesn't have to be mine for me to love him. I can always love him from afar. And if I won't find another love like what we had then perhaps I can just wait for time to come when he'll be back and will say, "ikaw ra jud... ikaw ra jud gihapon..." ering! bwahaahahhaha

[ryeaka]

@OmegaRed: pwede di lang ko mo-elaborate? hehehehe... thank you daan....

1. Time?

Definitely yes. I can spend 24 hours online if he wishes to chat.

2. Faith?

Yes.

3. Trust?

Yes.

[ryeaka]

@R_sQuArEd


1. How many realtionships have you had in the past?

Whew! Proof najud ni nga di ko gwapa hahahaha... Bitaw, monrose29 is my 3rd serious relationship. So that makes it 2.

2. Has a boyfriend/girlfriend done something to you in a relationship that
you haven't been able to forgive?

I'm the type of person who never hold grudges on other people. I don't care if you will basta ako kung magkita ta motagad ra gyud gihapon ko. but ideadma ko nimo once, aw di na mausab managad pako.... still, if moabot ang time nga ma-ulian imong utok nya managad ka nako, then okay na.

i don't only forgive, but i forget. meaning, mahisgutan man balik ang imong nabuhat before, dili nako na gamiton as a tool to make you feel bad. reminisce lang.

ergo, wala koy ex or even suitors nga wala na magtingog or naay pagdumot. friends nako sila tanan til now. gamay ra man sad gud so dili lisod lol

3. Have you cheated on a partner before?

with all honesty? yes... but i won't elaborate.

4. What is your worst experience in your current relationship?

Worst is when I found out he lied to me and when I confronted him about it, he refused to show me the truth.

5.Did you ever have moments of doubt in your current relationship?

Yes. Especially after what I answered in number 4. Doubts. But doesn't mean, I don't trust him anymore. I still do. But he has to be at his best in giving me his alibis this time. He can still go out, chat with anyone, do anything he likes but if he wishes to keep me then he should be wary now.

[joylove]

hello ryeaka and sir monrose my turn :

1. Do you believe that love is blind?why?

2. Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a successful relationship or do you think that friendship maintains a relationship?

3. If you had one day to live, what would you do?

4. What is your opinion about third party relationship?

5. When is the best time to settled down to both of you?

[rics zalved]

to ryeaka and monrose

1. when was your first kiss?
2. do you believe in destiny?
3. how can you rate your happiness?
4. do you believe in eternal love?
5. when is your last date?