3yrs and 10months = break up.. and i still luv her.. but i can't have her anymore![]()
3yrs and 10months = break up.. and i still luv her.. but i can't have her anymore![]()
8yrs...imagine that.
she got taken in by a colleague simply because they were spending more time in the workplace (everyday, even on day offs kay "team building" kuno).
but that sad part of my life is over. best thing is i found someone even better. waaaayyyyyy better in fact hehe.
gagnez, vous perdez une partie ... mais le goût du rachat si doux à la fin.
2years ended with Sorrows and Regrets(
Unrequitted Love...sakto ba
We we're friends and classmates in College! Classmate ra mi sa 1 subject but he already caught my eye pero kevs rako! Lain sad kaayug akoy manguyab niya! One day, while practice mi for a presentation and lain man sya na group, I opened the door sa classroom and namalihug ko niya to please call one of my group mates kay mag practice na mi! When I pointed at the person I was calling at, he held my hand, looked into my eyes and just stared at me then all of a sudden, ingun akong usa ka classmate na...
"Tinuod Brey? Uyab namo ni JAM?"
Then ako, ever so polite, masking dli kami, wala lang ko ni deny or ni ingun yes but I just simply SMILED! Then padayun kog ingun na please ko tawaga akong groupmate kay mag practice nami! Then I grabbed my hand. From that moment on, I knew he was into me and I was into him too and confirmed na gud unta na we liked each other. But kani lage BABAE ta, so huwat ra sad ta na formally manguyab jud ang guy!
For so many times, permi mi mgkasugat and in a way, naay mutual understanding between us! She calls me J.LO coz I look like her daw according to him and I call him MY LABS! Joke, dala tinud-anay! But still wala jud nagka kami kay wala man sad jud sya nanguyab!
We talked every now and then! In a way, sort of we ended up like Best Friends! I even gave him a PUPPY which somehow grew up so well with him and his family loved it as well.
Years passed and the feelings are still thesame but wala jud ngka kami! Naka uyab nalang sya, but still when we see each other or hang out, mutual gehapon ang feelings na we like each other. But still, in my part, I just waited for him na manguyab sya or what.
Deep inside me, how I wanted to tell him how I felt for him, but kay lage, BABAE, so still I waited....UNTIL....
HE DIED!
Tragic loss jud to coz he was graduating nursing unta that year. He died while playing basketball! He only got into the court for 3 minutes! 3 minutes lang, he ran then nikalit lang siya ug stop, luhod then vomitted blood. When he arrived sa hospital....DEAD ON ARRIVAL!
When txts came to me that he was already DEAD, I just couldn't believe it...nobody could coz he was so damn healthy...
When I arrived at their house for his wake....I couldn't believe it until I saw his coffin arrive with him inside...
During the entire wake, his mom provided us a NOTEBOOK where we could write there about him, how we knew him and our feelings for him....somehow his mother's way of getting to know his son through the perspective of other people...We don't know if it helped soothe her pain because of her loss of his son, but somehow that was it....
It was only through that notebook I was able to express to him how much I Love him....sayang lang wala jud sya nakahibaw how important he was to me and how much I loved him....
OT lang gamay! This thread is titled SAD LOVE STORIES....Stories gani dli na siya 1 to 5 lines ra ha? Hehheheh palihug kog completo sa inyung STORY beh para sad malingaw tag basa and dli ta mag cgeg pangutana what happened or what! Hehhe
^ kahilak ko dokie sa imong sad love story ....
hala oe..very sad kau imong story...i almost cry..it teaches us a lesson jud doh na samtang buhi pa atong loveones..say you love them jud..huhuhu...
Yeah gyud as in! During that time he was gone na, how I wished na when he was still alive, maskin na dli kami, I wish I was able to maskin lang HUG niya maskin 1 time lang! But sad to say, I wasn't able to do that! I have one memory of him though nga nakilig ko coz one time ni txt ko niya na I was at a top of a building! Should I jump or should I stay in this cruel world! Joke ra gud to! But as soon as he received that txt, maskin na dugay na kaayo mi wala mgka kita sa school or magkastorya, but he CALLED my cellphone and asked me where I was kay adtuon daw ko niya! Na touch jud ko! Then I told him, wala ra uy joke ra! But still he insisted asa jud daw ko! Then I told him, am just at home! After that, nadugay na nuon among chika sa phone! He really was a genuinely caring person! Mao sad toy reason I fell for him!
Mao na after that incident, when I find someone I love, I give them and show them how I feel...It's bad enough losing them because they don't love you anymore, how much more if they died and you can't see them anymore and the only thing you have of them are their memories and pictures of them...
aww. very reminiscent of the (almost)same stupid thing I did years ago. hahaha! but I am able to laugh it off now.
mao lagi ni Dokie. It's better to live your life with "Oh, wells" than with "What Ifs". Tell people how you feel about them before it's too late. heheh
OnT: Sad love stories? nah! I view them as lessons and obstacles I have to go through to find my The One.
I know this is hard but what always gets me up on my feet during a break-up is the saying : "Don't be sad because it ended, be HAPPY because it HAPPENED."
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