Straight-Natured Gay Men, Post ta diri mga brad!

[youngminds]

What do you mean by bro codes sir? You mean the social etiquette among "straight men"?

Kabasa man ko ug libro ani.

If I am with my guy friends, we usually talk about sports.

Basketball, baseball, car racing, boxing, etc. I would usually feign interest on those sports. Its not that I don’t like them(I play basketball, but I just don’t like to talk about NBA, PBA that much). I don’t know if pretending to be interested on starts is one of the bro codes though.
Its kinda hard sometimes to really pretend. I wish there is an estabalished straight natured gay codes. hahaha

Di ko karelate sa NGSB. I have 3 gfs before I finally met my partner.
Share lang ko gamay, My last gf which lasted 2 years ended up with so much drama. She was my best friend and I decided to open up with her about my identity. I told her we need to break up, the relationship was quite shaky that time. I told her, I cant her what a real man should intent to give. then I said, " Im gay".

She was like "what?"
"Sure ka?"
She cried, she really loves me and I did too.
Ingon siya nga andam siya nga maghuwat hangtod maayo daw ko. I told her, this not a disease.
Of course nangayo kog sorry.
She was the first person I revealed myself.



Hangtod karon, we still stay connected. She is now in Manila and texted me once that she is finding someone like me and its hard job.
I told her,no, don’t look for someone like me. Look someone better(a straight guy)

Maybe in my next life, kanang straight nako

I will marry her.

[iMAX]

another question, given that you consider yourself as "straight-natured gay" ...do you still apply the BRO CODE?


i mean, are you aware of the bro code? dili kanang ginoogle ha...

naa koy idea but not sure if same sa imong pasabot.
ts unsa man di ay imong bro code, kindly share?

otacon88 bai na lingaw ko nimo murag ka na saag dah!

[finchmeister]

What do you mean by bro codes sir? You mean the social etiquette among "straight men"?

yes.
its not really nga nagpretend ka...murag naka-program na gani siya sa imong system. these are default behaviors on straight men...stereotypically.

i dunno why, but i still behave such... despite the fact nga gay ko.


i'll site a few examples:

-kung mangihi...i tend to go to a urinal 1 space or more.. apart from a man nga nangihi na. (IF naay dghang bakanti nga urinals ha). dili jud na sikit.

-kikay kit is a no-no to me. (oil control strips, any powder, lip balm -- in short, no vanity kit... INSIDE the BAG). **ok ra kung sa balay, but not anang dad-on nimo pirmi iglakaw.

-i don't do a full embrace sa kapwa laki... as a gesture of appreciation, support or unsa ba. (except to my partner, labaw pa sa gakos akong mabuhat )

-not being a KJ sa usa ka established prank or something nga which is agreed upon by all na..

(example ani is iStoryan member trublu, who was acting like a d!ck in "Massage Parlor w/ ES" thread. he was being like a saint nga murag kinsang limpyoha ba...if he does not agree sa mga panghitabo didto, why didn't he left the thread in the first place?)

-i dont send a smiley face sa text towards my straight guy friends (and i have no any hidden intents of doing so. wa jud. dili lang ko ganahan)

[youngminds]

Ah okay. I also behave as what a straight man is expected to.

I also hug them with one arm. we also have this "hand gesture sign" kana ganing magkita ang amigo.

And para nako akong personal bro code : " Dili mangunay ug amigo/kabarkada" hahaha.

Sayang ang friendship. hehe : )

[youngminds]

Sir finch, you said you were straight before and you mentioned nga nalikoy lang ka ug naagian bantog nabayot ka.

Im not trying to question you or something sir, pero para nako, homosexuality is in born. I dont believe nga sa environment or nakatilaw lang ug laing laki, nabayot da.un. Kung straight gyud ka, bisan pa nakatilaw ka ug laki or ikay gitilawan, straight japon ka at the end of the day.

IDK sir,Im not an expert on this, pero mao akong pasabot. What do you think sir finch?

[finchmeister]

ingon sila. i've heard, yes, nga inborn ang pagka homosexual. i agree. pero i think dili lang diha naka-kahon ang definition sa homosexuality...sa tan-aw lang na nako ha. hehe

pardon my ignorance, pero dili ba usa sa mga factor ang environment on this matter?
my tastes have changed since i explored myself to this, but i still have the behaviors that straight men do. it remains intact sa akoa.

[GemsVille]

I so agree that Homosexuality is inborn and environment is just a contributor --- least added factor

[youngminds]

Ako man pod. I thought I will be forever living a straight life. then came my partner and he changed everything. Pero pagbata nako, kabaw nako nga attracted ko sa same *** pero straight gihapon kay ko. And wala ko magpretend ana. straight gyud ako nature.

Environment wise, I grew up with all girls in the house (except for my dad) but I dont think it was the cause of my attraction to same ***. Siguro, if straight gyud ko but surrounded by girls dili guro ko mabayot, ma effeminate lang guro.


Anyway, this question was asked to me by my partner:

" If naa daw "straight capsule" that can make a gay man into straight would you take it?"

Ako siya gitubag, nga "If I havent met you, I think I will. But now that you are here, I wont. Dili palang makita" (so gay. haha)

Kamo unsa inyo tubag?

[GemsVille]

Wow, you deserve more than a hug for that breathtaking asnwer!

[finchmeister]

likewise brad. hahaha. bonus na lang sa akoa nga lami syag lawas ug ambungan, pero nahigugma gyud ko niya.

muabot ba na'g pila ka tuig kung dili gugma?