Straight-Natured Gay Men, Post ta diri mga brad!

[otacon88]

Establish a support system ( a person or a few select people) with whom you can be yourself. If you're in the company of people who understand and can accept you without any prejudices, you'll feel a lot better about yourself and your burden gets lighter.

Afterwards, it's totally up to you whether you'll come out or not to whoever you feel the need to come out to. You know what they say, misery loves company.

...hmmm right, easier said than done bro..will give it a shot..thanks for the advise..

[name_user]

maayong gabie sa tanan hehe.

[FreezedEntity]

Thats great. Are you we in the same situation?

The I-know-what-I-am-but-talking-about-it-with-em-still-bugs-me-especially-if-they-don't-get-it part.

[joshuaspikes]

The I-know-what-I-am-but-talking-about-it-with-em-still-bugs-me-especially-if-they-don't-get-it part.

nisuway kog experiment ani bai.

nagtagay mi og ako officemates sa haus sa usa sa kauban nmo. while nag inom mi, the girls started asking about our love life, kung available pa daw ba mi or naay uyab (we were all trainees at that time and barely knew each other).
When my turn came, I had the idea of coming out to see how they would react. So i came out to the group and told them unsa ako preference. Ang ilang initial reaction was nahilom ang tanan, murag nashock sila. I think they were caught off guard.
I was stopping myself from laughing kay makatawa ko sa nawong sa mga tawo. Then one of the girls asked kung sure ba ko or binuangan lng nko sila. I told them it's true and explained that naa ko uyab (at that time) nga engineer for 3 yrs nga based in manila.

There was more awkward silence. It was like people didn't know what to say hehehe. Then my long haired rocker colleague approached me and shook my hand saying he admired my honesty and that he was totally cool with it. Suddenly everyone was talking at the same time og nawala ang tension.
Everyone said they were ok with it, and one of my female colleagues also admitted to having homosexual tendencies. Ingon ang uban nga sayang daw ko and maybe its just a phase i'll grow out of. I found out sad nga ang officemate nga tag iya sa haus where we were drinking kay naibog diay nko and was jokingly crying and told me i broke her heart. Gakos gakos dayon sya nko kay sayang daw.

I think my coming out went well kay taga call center akong grupo that time.

Karon kay sa IT company nko nagtrabaho, i chose not to come out kay ako grupo ron mga typical straight guys nga palahubog og pirme lng mag istorya about mga chicks, sports, computer games og more chicks. I think maybe they're slightly homophobic kay usahay libakon nila amo officemates whom they think are maya or bayoton.

So ako, one of the boys ako drama ron, storyax2 sad og chicks, apilx2 og tagay, og usahay magpamassage with extra service sa babaye nga masahista. makatawa ko sa akong gipangbuhat usahay. I'm still weighing the consequences if magcome out ko, or maybe its better if they just find out and ask me directly about it.

Either way it's hard.

[FreezedEntity]

^ Good for you.
I think people working in the virtual world are more open minded.

[otacon88]

...guys, is there a possibility..that we can, perhaps meet? just a thought.. or just too early pa..?

[finchmeister]

morning mga brad! na mingaw na man ni dire dah. musta inyong saturday night?

ala pman ko giduka, so tambay sah ta dire kadyot.

ask lang ko, kinsa ninyo dire ang NGSB? if true, then why haven't you tried venturing into any relationship to opposite s3x? are you aware na nga bayot na gyud mo sukad2?


naa may ubang straight nga nahimo lang ug bayot tungod kay nag Dora trip man...mga laking nasaag ug wa na kabalik sa ilang ginikanan kay nawagtang si the map. ug usa na ko ana

...guys, is there a possibility..that we can, perhaps meet? just a thought.. or just too early pa..?

i say no to EBs. pero kung gusto mo magkita2, pwd ra sabot mo through PMs...inyo na nang decisyon. sa magkasinabtanay lang.

[mumbojumbo]

lol sa ngsb. usa na ko ana. torpe man, bisag sa m2m relationship mao ghapon.

[finchmeister]

lol sa ngsb. usa na ko ana. torpe man, bisag sa m2m relationship mao ghapon.

so ni conclude lang ka nga mas ganahan kas laki kesa chikas?
try ug baye brad, basin diay mausab paka. lol.

[Butchokoy]

so ni conclude lang ka nga mas ganahan kas laki kesa chikas?
try ug baye brad, basin diay mausab paka. lol.

nya na convert na ka finch?