If you (guys) are to decide...

[dropdeadgorgeous]

i believe every relationship should hav a proper closure sama sa consent pgstart sa relationship! Kung kamu guys wala nay gusto, dont just leave and say nothing! We would appreaciate and respect you if you would atleast be afront and say wa na jud mu gusto!

[khadz]

Hi istoryans,

Naa lang ko'y question bah especially sa mga guys, in a relationship, if kamu ang padesisyunon sa girl kung magbuwag mu, unxa jud exactly ang bati-on ninyu? Naa man gud uban, maghuwat ra ang girl jud mobuwag, naa xad uban nga mo-prangka jud especially if kabantay sila nga murag dili pa kabuwagon ang girl...

And girls, pila diri kabuok nga ang guy inyung pa decidon? Why man xad nga makabuhat mu ani?

for me lng TS ha...kanang if ako d pa gnhan mag bulag ke dli lng jd ko...or mkg storya ko sa grl if mka feel ko na naghwat nlng sya...some guys naa man feelings or instincts about ana...

and girls if dli nlng jd mo nahan unta ba,e tell nlng pd ta ang guys buh bt in a nice way lng pd...

hop nka tubag ko sa imo question TS...gud evenin

[miokz]

hahaha, share lang ko. Pasenxa na mga Shower Boys kung gishare nako diri pero I aim to be a CIA so dapat padaghan sa akong replies.

So I met this girl on the first day of school. I got attracted to her and we became best of friends (thats how i considered it, hahaha). Th Next sem, we met new sets of people who eventually became our friends. Pila ray istorya, nagkauyab sila sa akong migo. I have to admit that I really felt something for her that time and knowing that they becoming "THEM" was hard for me. But I respected their relationship and tried to stay away from the both of them, or at least not being so close to her (did i say she was my best friend, hehe).

and so, their relationship reached years and kompleto lang gihapon mi mga amigo. We're on a blocked sectioning that time so classmates mi sa akong barkada from first year to third year. Naabot sa time nga murag daghan kaayo silag problema (akong bestfriend ug akong migo) and that was the time nga nag ka balik among closeness. i was acting as her long lost bestfriend that time and pila ray dagan, NAGKA KAMI. it was a mutual decision. AND I KNOW IM WRONG. Nagkauyab mi nga palihim while uyab pa sila sa akong migo nga suod.

HAHAHA, and NASAKPAN MI. and obviously, since we belong to the same big, big barkada, almost tanang barkada nako murag nalain nako. I KNOW sayop ko and i cant blame them for hating me.

and ni biya akong migo niya, leaving us with this "AGAINST-ALL-ODDS" typ'a relationship. And she was not happy anymore. and i can feel it. LISUD MO LET GO, but knowing that you're partner isn't happy anymore, you must FACE THE REALITY. It always takes two to tango. Dili pwede ikaw ra ang nag work sa inyong relationship.

Pero its better to face the main problem, rather than holding on knowing that its not getting anywhere.

so mao toh. pero karon ok na kaayo mi sa akong barkada.

[dropdeadgorgeous]

unxai dapat buhaton sa girl sa iyang guy (Ex) nga for 2yrs of being in a relationship, suddenly (mga 2 days after sa bday sa girl) kai dili na mo-communicate sa iyang 2yrs gf and diay toh, naa na dayun lain uyab2x? Is it really that easy for guys to jump off from one girl to another in just a day or two?

[gooddj11]

Sorry I beg to differ about guys being a gentleman and let the girls initiate the break-up.
And guys rather do nothing in their relationship as a sign that they want out so the girls
would end up concluding that their relationship isn't working anymore.

^^I rather find this bull and a cowardly thing to do on the part of the guys. Why prolonging
the agony of the girl and lead her on when the truth is you don't want to have anything to
do with her anymore?! Don't you think she deserves the UGLY TRUTH rather than making her
believe on a SUGAR-COATED LIE that everything's fine?

Unsay kwenta sa pagsama ninyo sa pila ka months or years, dba?
Di pod mi ing ana ka bogo na dili mi kasabot daun if dili na ganahan namo ang guys pod ui.
ONLY WE ARE TOLD.

I hope boys will change their spineless ways and be MEN ENOUGH to deal with their women.
WE DESERVE MORE than being lied to with a sick cycle from you guys.
WE'RE MORE CAPABLE in facing the truth, just so you know

done this sa ako X.last nako na x. gi-sultian nako xa sa ako na-feel, at least honest ko, bisag naghinilakay na mi,wala jd nako gitago niya na mao ni ako na feel,etc,etc. dili sayon oi,grabe,bug-at kaayo sa ako dughan. ana iya usa ka ig-agaw, hilas daw ayo ko. then ana ko niya(x), at least nakahibaw ka sa truth, kaysa sa mura ka ug buang nga magcge ko ug pretend. .pasagdan nalng nako sila sa ila mga comment, ila man na, wala ko mabuhat.

[Lamion]

unxai dapat buhaton sa girl sa iyang guy (Ex) nga for 2yrs of being in a relationship, suddenly (mga 2 days after sa bday sa girl) kai dili na mo-communicate sa iyang 2yrs gf and diay toh, naa na dayun lain uyab2x? Is it really that easy for guys to jump off from one girl to another in just a day or two?

wa nay love ang laki sis, or ng kauyab na sila sa iyang bag o nga bayi bsag kamo pa, then namili na siya ninyong 2 and sadly ang usa iya gpili...

[dropdeadgorgeous]

@Lamion: yea, mao jud nah nahitabo! there are people who are just really insensitive and ungrateful inspite of everything that was done for them...

[azaleayve]

hahah!aku i always make sure the guy is still happy., i always encourage the guy to tell me sa iya feelings and as to why naay abrupt changes the way he treated me., if madala og hilot, then we will save the relationship if not then let go...

Being in a relationship dili man needed nga ang girl or ang guy ang dapat mubuwag, both parties gud ang nagdecide nga mag-uyab, then both should decide whether to stay or not.

So i always say, Unsai planu?

[vahnhelsing]

ingon sila nga bati kuno ang guy makigbulag ug girl. pero pananglitan wa na jud spark para nimo bisan gamay? kinahanglan bah nga magpakaron-ingnon lang ka? d ba usahay dapat ato sad ipakita ang sensiridad sa ato partner? mas sakit ngali magpabilin sa usa ka relasyon nga walay padulngan. setting free would be the best thing to do. dili sad lalim makigbulag uy, pero unsa may sangpotanan kung wala na jud hinungdan ang pakig uban sa usa ka binuhat nga wala na gipitik sa dughan? apan hinumdumi usab nga hatagi ug gamayng luna nga tingali usa lamang kini nga pagsulay sa inyohang relasyon. sumala pa, kun para mo sa usag usa, mag abot gihapon inyong mga dalan.

[brackitz]

Para nako makabuhat man ko pagpakigbuwag, pero timbang2xngon sad gyud nakog tarong kung dapat ba nako syang buwagan. Bisan tood paminaw nako wa na kaayu ko'y feeling para niya, o murag wa na gyud. Dili man nako dali dalion basin diay mubalik pa inyong kainit, basin kuwang ra nag bonding2x.

Kapoy sad kaayu mangitag laen woi, diskarte na pud. adjust na pud.